Getting My Girlfriend Over
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Getting My Girlfriend Over
Hi Everyone,
So here's another visa struggle :-(
I'm a British citizen and so is my girlfriend. We've been together for 3 years. A year and a half ago I came out to work in the states on my O-1 visa. My girlfriend and I have taken it in turns to visit one another when we can, her slightly more than I over the past 18 months. Her last trip being for 3 months, the full 90 days the esta will allow.
Now, I earn enough to support us both so we were advised if she wanted to stay for a longer period than 90 days to apply for a B2. (immigration attorney) We were also told that because she had entered the states 4 times (2wks, 1wk, 2wks, 3ms), that it was best as the esta would soon flag her.
She was denied her B2 last week .
We were utterly shocked as we completely didn't expect it. It sounds like she had a horrific time at the embassy and didn't get to show the evidence of ties to the UK and her finances that she had been asked to prepare.
I still have to work here and we're looking for the legal way that allows us to be together. She still has 6 months remaining on her esta.
So, any advice would be greatly received.
So here's another visa struggle :-(
I'm a British citizen and so is my girlfriend. We've been together for 3 years. A year and a half ago I came out to work in the states on my O-1 visa. My girlfriend and I have taken it in turns to visit one another when we can, her slightly more than I over the past 18 months. Her last trip being for 3 months, the full 90 days the esta will allow.
Now, I earn enough to support us both so we were advised if she wanted to stay for a longer period than 90 days to apply for a B2. (immigration attorney) We were also told that because she had entered the states 4 times (2wks, 1wk, 2wks, 3ms), that it was best as the esta would soon flag her.
She was denied her B2 last week .
We were utterly shocked as we completely didn't expect it. It sounds like she had a horrific time at the embassy and didn't get to show the evidence of ties to the UK and her finances that she had been asked to prepare.
I still have to work here and we're looking for the legal way that allows us to be together. She still has 6 months remaining on her esta.
So, any advice would be greatly received.
Last edited by craigweb; Feb 23rd 2013 at 12:18 am.
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Re: Getting My Girlfriend Over
Hi Everyone,
So here's another visa struggle :-(
I'm a British citizen and so is my girlfriend. We've been together for 3 years. A year and a half ago I came out to work in the states on my O-1 visa. My girlfriend and I have taken it in turns to visit one another when we can, her slightly more than I over the past 18 months. Her last trip being for 3 months, the full 90 days the esta will allow.
Now, I earn enough to support us both so we were advised if she wanted to stay for a longer period than 90 days to apply for a B2. (immigration attorney) We were also told that because she had entered the states 4 times (2wks, 1wk, 2wks, 3ms), that it was best as the esta would soon flag her.
She was denied her B2 last week .
We were utterly shocked as we completely didn't expect it. It sounds like she had a horrific time at the embassy and didn't get to show the evidence of ties to and finances that she had been asked to prepare.
I still have to work here and we're looking for the legal way that allows us to be together. She still has 6 months remaining on her esta.
So, any advice would be greatly received.
So here's another visa struggle :-(
I'm a British citizen and so is my girlfriend. We've been together for 3 years. A year and a half ago I came out to work in the states on my O-1 visa. My girlfriend and I have taken it in turns to visit one another when we can, her slightly more than I over the past 18 months. Her last trip being for 3 months, the full 90 days the esta will allow.
Now, I earn enough to support us both so we were advised if she wanted to stay for a longer period than 90 days to apply for a B2. (immigration attorney) We were also told that because she had entered the states 4 times (2wks, 1wk, 2wks, 3ms), that it was best as the esta would soon flag her.
She was denied her B2 last week .
We were utterly shocked as we completely didn't expect it. It sounds like she had a horrific time at the embassy and didn't get to show the evidence of ties to and finances that she had been asked to prepare.
I still have to work here and we're looking for the legal way that allows us to be together. She still has 6 months remaining on her esta.
So, any advice would be greatly received.
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Re: Getting My Girlfriend Over
Oh. So the denial invalidates her ESTA? That's not good news.
Wish we'd just carried on using the esta :-/
Ok so I didn't know she could state she had a previously cohabiting partner, so i'm sure that's a no.
Wish we'd just carried on using the esta :-/
Ok so I didn't know she could state she had a previously cohabiting partner, so i'm sure that's a no.
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Carrying on using ESTA too often would have eventually resulted in her being turned away at the POE, anyway.
The visa denial invalidates her current ESTA. She would need to apply for a new ESTA and declare the visa denial. This will most likely lead to ESTA denial for a good many months, possibly around 6 to 12 months.
The best solution is to get married and have her get an O-2 visa.
Rene
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That would be the simplest way...
http://britishexpats.com/wiki/Pulask...ork_in_the_USA
For alternatives...
http://britishexpats.com/wiki/Pulask...ork_in_the_USA
For alternatives...
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Re: Getting My Girlfriend Over
Thanks for the link.
Our plans were to get her on a course to give her something to focus on while I'm working, but now we're worried that the b2 denial would make a J1 application a bit of a sham. And as we really aren't trying to con the system to live for ever in the states or anything, it just seems a little high risk. Don't want her to be banned for good.
That being said, with the b2 denial and the ESTA being revoked automatically, she pretty much is!
The ESTA is definitely revoked correct? I've been told otherwise by a Visa Consultant you see :-/
Marriage is certainly an option. We plan to marry, but I'm a romantic, and this isn't exactly that, that's for sure. Would even be able to get back to get permission from her farther.
So the best option at this point is to reapply for a b2 visa with a 'partner' status?
Our plans were to get her on a course to give her something to focus on while I'm working, but now we're worried that the b2 denial would make a J1 application a bit of a sham. And as we really aren't trying to con the system to live for ever in the states or anything, it just seems a little high risk. Don't want her to be banned for good.
That being said, with the b2 denial and the ESTA being revoked automatically, she pretty much is!
The ESTA is definitely revoked correct? I've been told otherwise by a Visa Consultant you see :-/
Marriage is certainly an option. We plan to marry, but I'm a romantic, and this isn't exactly that, that's for sure. Would even be able to get back to get permission from her farther.
So the best option at this point is to reapply for a b2 visa with a 'partner' status?
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Re: Getting My Girlfriend Over
ESTA is not revoked but as her circumstances have changed she needs to update it, she may be lucky.
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I see. So if she travels out here on the ESTA, she may not be stopped. If she is however, she could have all her documentation about her ties to the UK and evidence of her finances and this would help?
And obviously she says she's visiting me and an error was made with the B2 application?
And obviously she says she's visiting me and an error was made with the B2 application?
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The ESTA is definitely revoked correct?
I've been told otherwise by a Visa Consultant you see
Marriage is certainly an option. We plan to marry, but I'm a romantic, and this isn't exactly that, that's for sure.
So the best option at this point is to reapply for a b2 visa with a 'partner' status?
Rene
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If she is however, she could have all her documentation about her ties to the UK and evidence of her finances and this would help?
And obviously she says she's visiting me and an error was made with the B2 application?
Rene
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You mentioned an immigration attorney, whose advise was apparently not stellar, and a visa consultant, which is not a popular source of reliable info. I would try a different immigration attorney.
It sounds like GF does not work, with all the free time to visit, but perhaps she has suitable merits to qualify for a visa in her own right? Long shot from what you have shared, but worth a look.
The B2 denial is likely due to the appearance that she just wants to come and live there with you, and if that is the case, the ESTA would also likely be problematic. That is exactly what these rules are there to prevent.
It sounds like GF does not work, with all the free time to visit, but perhaps she has suitable merits to qualify for a visa in her own right? Long shot from what you have shared, but worth a look.
The B2 denial is likely due to the appearance that she just wants to come and live there with you, and if that is the case, the ESTA would also likely be problematic. That is exactly what these rules are there to prevent.
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Re: Getting My Girlfriend Over
Ah I see.
The error I was referring to was that she didn't apply for a B2 with the 'partner' element.
So it's a sure thing that she would need to reapply for the ESTA, and that she can't use the remaining 6 months of her previous visa?
So we've eliminated her own visa, we've eliminated the B2 reapplication, and we're down to marriage. I find it a little crazy that I can't have my partner stay with me for an extended period of time while I work on a 3 year working visa.
Have we not over looked something or am I proposing tomorrow? lol
If marriage is the way forward, I'm going to need some more advice on the type of visa etc I would need to get in motion for that too :-/.
The error I was referring to was that she didn't apply for a B2 with the 'partner' element.
So it's a sure thing that she would need to reapply for the ESTA, and that she can't use the remaining 6 months of her previous visa?
So we've eliminated her own visa, we've eliminated the B2 reapplication, and we're down to marriage. I find it a little crazy that I can't have my partner stay with me for an extended period of time while I work on a 3 year working visa.
Have we not over looked something or am I proposing tomorrow? lol
If marriage is the way forward, I'm going to need some more advice on the type of visa etc I would need to get in motion for that too :-/.
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So it's a sure thing that she would need to reapply for the ESTA, and that she can't use the remaining 6 months of her previous visa?
So we've eliminated her own visa..
, we've eliminated the B2 reapplication...
and we're down to marriage. I find it a little crazy that I can't have my partner stay with me for an extended period of time while I work on a 3 year working visa.
Have we not over looked something or am I proposing tomorrow? lol
If marriage is the way forward, I'm going to need some more advice on the type of visa etc I would need to get in motion for that too :-/.
Rene
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Re: Getting My Girlfriend Over
I am sort of fascinated to know how you obtained an O1.