Feeling really shitty
Apr 9th 2008, 5:41 pm
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Feeling really shitty
Ok I am having a seriously bad week, found out on sunday that my fiance has been sleeping with a girl that he use to work with. He currently lives in san antonio and I am here in nebraska, he has been here for a year now and I moved over here in january, we knew that it was going to be hard with the distance and everything but thought that we could make it work. We are supposed to be getting married in 11 weeks. Aparantly it is more than just sex and they have told each other that they love each other etc. I feel completely devasted I never thought that he could do this to me and at the moment I am 5000 miles away from home and friends and family and although i have made a few friends over here it simply isnt the same. I ultimately moved over here to be closer to him and now just feel like my whole life is in turmoil and am incredibly lonely and feel completely gutted.
Apr 9th 2008, 5:45 pm
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Re: Feeling really shitty
Ok I am having a seriously bad week, found out on sunday that my fiance has been sleeping with a girl that he use to work with. He currently lives in san antonio and I am here in nebraska, he has been here for a year now and I moved over here in january, we knew that it was going to be hard with the distance and everything but thought that we could make it work. We are supposed to be getting married in 11 weeks. Aparantly it is more than just sex and they have told each other that they love each other etc. I feel completely devasted I never thought that he could do this to me and at the moment I am 5000 miles away from home and friends and family and although i have made a few friends over here it simply isnt the same. I ultimately moved over here to be closer to him and now just feel like my whole life is in turmoil and am incredibly lonely and feel completely gutted.
Apr 9th 2008, 5:46 pm
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Re: Feeling really shitty
Ok I am having a seriously bad week, found out on sunday that my fiance has been sleeping with a girl that he use to work with. He currently lives in san antonio and I am here in nebraska, he has been here for a year now and I moved over here in january, we knew that it was going to be hard with the distance and everything but thought that we could make it work. We are supposed to be getting married in 11 weeks. Aparantly it is more than just sex and they have told each other that they love each other etc. I feel completely devasted I never thought that he could do this to me and at the moment I am 5000 miles away from home and friends and family and although i have made a few friends over here it simply isnt the same. I ultimately moved over here to be closer to him and now just feel like my whole life is in turmoil and am incredibly lonely and feel completely gutted.
Apr 9th 2008, 5:51 pm
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Re: Feeling really shitty
Ok I am having a seriously bad week, found out on sunday that my fiance has been sleeping with a girl that he use to work with. He currently lives in san antonio and I am here in nebraska, he has been here for a year now and I moved over here in january, we knew that it was going to be hard with the distance and everything but thought that we could make it work. We are supposed to be getting married in 11 weeks. Aparantly it is more than just sex and they have told each other that they love each other etc. I feel completely devasted I never thought that he could do this to me and at the moment I am 5000 miles away from home and friends and family and although i have made a few friends over here it simply isnt the same. I ultimately moved over here to be closer to him and now just feel like my whole life is in turmoil and am incredibly lonely and feel completely gutted.
Apr 9th 2008, 5:53 pm
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Re: Feeling really shitty
we have been together for 4 years and i found out on sunday, he didnt even have the balls to tell me, i just caught him lying to me!!
Apr 9th 2008, 5:54 pm
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Re: Feeling really shitty
Ok I am having a seriously bad week, found out on sunday that my fiance has been sleeping with a girl that he use to work with. He currently lives in san antonio and I am here in nebraska, he has been here for a year now and I moved over here in january, we knew that it was going to be hard with the distance and everything but thought that we could make it work. We are supposed to be getting married in 11 weeks. Aparantly it is more than just sex and they have told each other that they love each other etc. I feel completely devasted I never thought that he could do this to me and at the moment I am 5000 miles away from home and friends and family and although i have made a few friends over here it simply isnt the same. I ultimately moved over here to be closer to him and now just feel like my whole life is in turmoil and am incredibly lonely and feel completely gutted.
I would take this offer up if i was in the same situation lol
Apr 9th 2008, 5:56 pm
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thanks for the offer ...of course i am fit!!!
Apr 9th 2008, 5:58 pm
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i think that must be the worst scenario, just finding out, what a shame but you know things do happen for a reason and better he cheated on you now and you found out than once you had got married. now you can just walk away and find better elsewhere.
Apr 9th 2008, 5:59 pm
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Apr 9th 2008, 6:00 pm
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initially i just wanted to pack my bags and go home to my mum! but i have a really good job here and oportunity career wise, i think i would be stupid to throw it away just to run away from him.
Apr 9th 2008, 6:01 pm
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Apr 9th 2008, 6:01 pm
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Re: Feeling really shitty
Ok I am having a seriously bad week, found out on sunday that my fiance has been sleeping with a girl that he use to work with. He currently lives in san antonio and I am here in nebraska, he has been here for a year now and I moved over here in january, we knew that it was going to be hard with the distance and everything but thought that we could make it work. We are supposed to be getting married in 11 weeks. Aparantly it is more than just sex and they have told each other that they love each other etc. I feel completely devasted I never thought that he could do this to me and at the moment I am 5000 miles away from home and friends and family and although i have made a few friends over here it simply isnt the same. I ultimately moved over here to be closer to him and now just feel like my whole life is in turmoil and am incredibly lonely and feel completely gutted.