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morpeth Dec 12th 2016 6:03 pm

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 

Originally Posted by Anian (Post 12127477)
So much of the typical British food is just not available here unless you go to specific importers and pay 3-4 times more than the UK cost.

Want Marmite on toast? No chance of that. Ploughman's lunch? Can't get the pickle or the right cheese. Mr Kipling's mini pies? Nope. Swiss roll? There's a small chance. Prawn cocktail crisps? Beef? Smokey Bacon? Cheese and onion? None of those.

But try not to moan, there are a million new things to try that are just as unhealthy and weird-sounding even if they don't fill the nostalgia hole.

I have always been amazed how British food items are so expensive. I don't know why for example a British item can be 3 to 4 times the UK cost but say a Swiss item just twice the cost in Switzerland ( I didn't mention Italy because some Italian products imported in large volumes).

morpeth Dec 12th 2016 6:06 pm

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 

Originally Posted by livinginnyc (Post 12127460)
For me, it was the drive everywhere mentality. Back in the UK, I'd drive to/from work, but I'd *always* walk everywhere else, be it to Waitrose, Starbucks, gym or just to have a look in the shops.

In the USA's defense though, things are way more spread out, outside of urban areas though :p (in our town for example, its a good 8-10 mins drive to the nearest grocery store).

When I am in Manhattan, I still like to walk all over instead of taking the subway (unless its snowing/raining) - and still get puzzled looks from friends/family.



When I announced to friends/colleagues/family back in the UK that I was moving to the USA, I got a mixed response. 50% were jealous and wanted loads of pics of NYC.etc .etc .etc, the other 50% were shall we say less than enthusiastic.

I find walking a big difference, such a pleasure not to have to drive every day in many parts of UK, and all the places one can go by bus.

dc koop Dec 12th 2016 6:42 pm

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 
Total strangers actually smiled and said "hey how you doing today"?

Empty streets in the burbs. People go everywhere in cars. No one seems to walk

Hiro11 Dec 12th 2016 6:55 pm

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 

Originally Posted by dc koop (Post 12127681)
People go everywhere in cars. No one seems to walk

Location: California. You do realize this is a cliche about California and has been for 50 years? How could this be a "shock"?

lizzyq Dec 12th 2016 9:20 pm

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 

Originally Posted by Hiro11 (Post 12127688)
Location: California. You do realize this is a cliche about California and has been for 50 years? How could this be a "shock"?

Even if you are expecting it, the reality can still be a surprise.

Pulaski Dec 12th 2016 9:49 pm

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 

Originally Posted by lizzyq (Post 12127774)
Even if you are expecting it, the reality can still be a surprise.

The impact of the pervasive driving culture can be unexpected. Mrs P still doesn't understand why I park in one place and then visit multiple shops built around one large carpark, rather than driving around the carpark to park outside each shop. :blink:

BubbleChog Dec 12th 2016 9:53 pm

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 
Definitely dealing with medical insurance

zzrmark Dec 13th 2016 12:58 am

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 
My observations are limited to the SE (edit: ta Pulaski for pointing out my error) US and probably don't apply to many areas in the US.


1) Lack of historical stuff, Americans like to knock down their older buildings (which are still very youthful in European terms) and build the latest fad.

2) Casual racism is rife.

3) Considering it's supposed to be a world leader in technology many things are stuck in the 50's, banking and top loading washing machines spring to mind, mobile phone coverage can vary considerably when you leave your home State.

4) The education system is an underfunded mess (in Florida at any rate).

5) The gap between the haves and have-nots is screamingly noticeable. My wife and I bring in what would be considered a healthy amount in the UK, well in excess of the US poverty threshold and yet we only seem to be getting by.

6) Health insurance, WT chuffin' F... The cost of our pitiful coverage, via the county education board, has just increased... by 400 bucks... a month. I still have to stump up 60 bucks if I want to visit a doctor (and again when he sends me off to any number of specialists) and we're not even covered when we go out of State... :eek:

7) And the most surprising of all... over 325 million citizens to choose from, 18 months of presidential candidate selection, which entirely takes over all media coverage, and look who they pick to lead the country for the next four years...


EDIT: On the plus side, my local Publix supermarket has a small ethnic section dedicated to English muck like Jammy dodgers, orange squash, proper builder's teas, Marmite, kippers and other delights :D

Pulaski Dec 13th 2016 1:20 am

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 

Originally Posted by zzrmark (Post 12127910)
My observations are limited to the SW US and probably don't apply to many areas in the US. ....

You forgot to mention that Americans have a very poor understanding of geography. Maybe in Florida you can blame it on the underfunded mess of education. ;)

Olly_ Dec 13th 2016 2:01 am

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 

Originally Posted by livinginnyc (Post 12127491)
I'd say hunt around! Our local Stop'n'shop has about a quarter of an aisle dedicated to Brit products... which is interesting as I'm 90% sure I'm the only Brit in town (but feel the love all the same), and they stock Marmite, Hob Nobs and a few other stuff (Quavers!!!!!). The price isn't significantly more expensive than US products.

My local Stop and Shop has a British section but I wouldn't exactly call the prices reasonable so I try to avoid it, a tiny jar of Marmite is over $7!

username.exe Dec 13th 2016 2:15 am

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 
I've been here for two years, now and on the whole it has been a very positive move for me and my family.

The one thing I struggle with is the sense of humour.
I just realized that it's been a long time since I've had a very good laugh with someone.
No banter, no dry delivery, no riffing back-and-forth.
I miss it. :(

tom169 Dec 13th 2016 3:31 am

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 

Originally Posted by Olly_ (Post 12127936)
My local Stop and Shop has a British section but I wouldn't exactly call the prices reasonable so I try to avoid it, a tiny jar of Marmite is over $7!

I found Ambrosia Rice Pudding for sale at $5 a can in one in Raleigh, NC. The stuff cost like 40p in the UK.

OldJuddian Dec 13th 2016 4:19 am

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 

Originally Posted by Pulaski (Post 12127791)
Mrs P still doesn't understand why I park in one place and then visit multiple shops built around one large carpark, rather than driving around the carpark to park outside each shop. :blink:

Exactly this.
I'm always torn between just walking as I would have in the UK or trying to fit in and driving 100 yards or less.

username.exe Dec 13th 2016 4:24 am

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 
Part of my annual mandatory training at work includes an afternoon dedicated to: 'Surviving an Active Shooter Event'.

:ohmy:

dc koop Dec 13th 2016 5:31 am

Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?
 

Originally Posted by Hiro11 (Post 12127688)
Location: California. You do realize this is a cliche about California and has been for 50 years? How could this be a "shock"?

I came here in the fall. I like to walk . They thought I was mad when I took walks lasting around 2-3 hours. I thought I was walking in a city of the dead. When July came I went native. The only creatures out in 40.C heat were stray dogs and mail carriers


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