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What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Old Dec 15th 2016, 4:03 pm
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by RoadWarriorFromLP
When I see a large US flag, I usually presume that there is a government building or car dealership underneath it.
Can confirm. There's a car dealership in Madison, WI that has the biggest flag I have ever seen flying over it.

Also, a Popeye's out by me has a huge one too.
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by RoadWarriorFromLP
When I see a large US flag, I usually presume that there is a government building or car dealership underneath it.
Both are after your money
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Old Dec 15th 2016, 4:05 pm
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by mrken30
Both are after your money
The American dream
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by livinginnyc
the US flag *must* be above all others on a pole
State flags and other banners should be below the US flag. But the flags of other nations should be flown at the same level.

I'm not a stickler for flag etiquette, but I have to admit that it annoyed me to see at the D-Day Museum in Bayeux that the French flag was being flown above the flags of the other nations. At least from a US perspective, that would suggest that the French believe that they are superior to the US, UK, Canada, Poland, etc., although I understand that was probably not the case and that their intention was to express some gratitude for those who liberated them.
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Old Dec 15th 2016, 4:26 pm
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by RoadWarriorFromLP
State flags and other banners should be below the US flag. But the flags of other nations should be flown at the same level.

I'm not a stickler for flag etiquette, but I have to admit that it annoyed me to see at the D-Day Museum in Bayeux that the French flag was being flown above the flags of the other nations. At least from a US perspective, that would suggest that the French believe that they are superior to the US, UK, Canada, Poland, etc., although I understand that was probably not the case and that their intention was to express some gratitude for those who liberated them.
If it wasn't for French assistance the US may not have obtained independence. So maybe that's how they feel.
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by mrken30
Both are after your money
Car dealership you have a choice though
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by RoadWarriorFromLP

I'm not a stickler for flag etiquette, but I have to admit that it annoyed me to see at the D-Day Museum in Bayeux that the French flag was being flown above the flags of the other nations. At least from a US perspective, that would suggest that the French believe that they are superior to the US, UK, Canada, Poland, etc., although I understand that was probably not the case and that their intention was to express some gratitude for those who liberated them.
But isn't precisely what they think. They are after all French.
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Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing
That whole thing was always weird to me, like we'll all die if someone throws an old flag in the bin. Or "don't let it touch the ground", as if the world will come to an end if a bit of cotton touches the earth from whence it came .
I don't get this either. In my first year here, I went to an event where little flags were handed out. I kept my one for a while in my room in an apartment I shared with 2 others at the time. After doing a spring clean of my room one day, I put it in the waste bin. My apartment cohabitants nearly freaked out when they saw it....well that may be a slight overstatement but they were genuinely perturbed about it. I think it must just be instilled from a young age.
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by RoadWarriorFromLP
I'm not a stickler for flag etiquette, but I have to admit that it annoyed me to see at the D-Day Museum in Bayeux that the French flag was being flown above the flags of the other nations. At least from a US perspective, that would suggest that the French believe that they are superior to the US, UK, Canada, Poland, etc., although I understand that was probably not the case and that their intention was to express some gratitude for those who liberated them.
The French flag was flown above other countries flags because it was in France, at a museum about an event in France. I think that only the US has a special code for the treatment of flags outside the military, so it would be weird to think everyone else should uphold it.
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by Teckelspass
I don't get this either. In my first year here, I went to an event where little flags were handed out. I kept my one for a while in my room in an apartment I shared with 2 others at the time. After doing a spring clean of my room one day, I put it in the waste bin. My apartment cohabitants nearly freaked out when they saw it....well that may be a slight overstatement but they were genuinely perturbed about it. I think it must just be instilled from a young age.
We pick up those mini flags at events all the time. I'm sure more than one of them has ended up in a bin somewhere, or at the very least under a bed or attacked by the cat. It's no big deal.
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

There's the story of the old D-Day vet who arrived in Normandy for the D-Day landing anniversary. The French customs officer waited impatiently as the old vet fumbled in his coat pockets looking for his passport.
Exasperated he said to the vet "Are you sure you have your passport with you M'sieu? You cannot enter France without a passport"

The old vet replied "Yes I'm well aware of that but when I arrived here last time nobody asked me for one on that day"

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There was recently a post on Nextdoor (facebook for nosey old farts) from someone that wanted to dispose of his flag properly. I thought he was taking the mick until I read the responses of what a fine upstanding citizen he is etc... weird, it's just a piece of mass produced cloth or plastic ffs.
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Old Dec 15th 2016, 8:03 pm
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Anyone who wants to dispose of an old worn out flag can take it to a VFW center where it will be disposed of properly and with respect.
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by dc koop
Anyone who wants to dispose of an old worn out flag can take it to a VFW center where it will be disposed of properly and with respect.
What do they actually do with them, if they can't chuck them out or burn them? I'm curious now as to the actual disposal method.
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Default Re: What was the biggest culture shock when you moved to the USA?

Originally Posted by dc koop
Anyone who wants to dispose of an old worn out flag can take it to a VFW center where it will be disposed of properly and with respect.
Or you could just throw it in the bin. It's not like the world will come to an end or anything.
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