Devastated...
Apr 10th 2008, 11:24 pm
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Devastated...
Hubby's mate was killed today in a car accident...
a total sweetheart....
cried my eyes out since 5pm...
he thinks I'm as soft as sh**e
hasn't hit him yet
LAL
looking like a bug-eyed frog!!!
a total sweetheart....
cried my eyes out since 5pm...
he thinks I'm as soft as sh**e
hasn't hit him yet
LAL
looking like a bug-eyed frog!!!
Apr 10th 2008, 11:30 pm
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Re: Devastated...
Condolences.......... and take care.
Apr 10th 2008, 11:31 pm
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Re: Devastated...
uk near Whitley Bay in Newcastle......
Bless him
still can't believe it
got eyes like a panda!!!!
Bless him
still can't believe it
got eyes like a panda!!!!
Apr 10th 2008, 11:40 pm
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Re: Devastated...
A bit tished now so no sense out of me now....
Hubby cool as a cucmber laidback as ever a bit quieter than normal..
But what a waste.....
I just can't understand.... such a sweetheart...just.. gone....
LAL
Hubby cool as a cucmber laidback as ever a bit quieter than normal..
But what a waste.....
I just can't understand.... such a sweetheart...just.. gone....
LAL
Apr 10th 2008, 11:42 pm
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Re: Devastated...
yes death is so final that it does make our issues & grouses seem petty. how old was he?
Apr 10th 2008, 11:48 pm
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21 he had just celebrated his 21st...
hubby 32 but they work together, fish together, go to football together, play rugby together, he was the "baby" of the bunch... he normally fends my mithering calls to hubby at work
SOOOOO gutted just doesn't ssem fair....
hubby 32 but they work together, fish together, go to football together, play rugby together, he was the "baby" of the bunch... he normally fends my mithering calls to hubby at work
SOOOOO gutted just doesn't ssem fair....
Apr 10th 2008, 11:50 pm
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Apr 10th 2008, 11:55 pm
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No Jamie had no family only 21 but my best friend from school was killed the same way 10 years ago and my cousin's wife just before that by a speeding driver...
So I guess I'm just unlucky.....
So I guess I'm just unlucky.....
Apr 11th 2008, 12:02 am
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Oh my I'm really sorry to hear this. I went through the same thing last year. Trust me, it hasn't hit him yet. It took me a couple hours before I completely lost it. My heart goes out to both of you. Whatever you say, you are not a softy by any means. Be gentle on yourself and give yourself permission to feel crappy. It's a testament of how much you care and how fantastic this gentleman was.
Apr 11th 2008, 12:13 am
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Hubby said it won't hit him until after the funeral....
And that he wishes he could give him a slap!!!
He's one of the few people who knew him sooooo well..
And here I am sobbing and he's just chilled.....
What a waste......
you know he was a total sweetheart, Newcastle United mad, devoted to his girlfriend, a bit of a pisshead, typical 21 year old.....
And that he wishes he could give him a slap!!!
He's one of the few people who knew him sooooo well..
And here I am sobbing and he's just chilled.....
What a waste......
you know he was a total sweetheart, Newcastle United mad, devoted to his girlfriend, a bit of a pisshead, typical 21 year old.....
Last edited by LAL; Apr 11th 2008 at 12:17 am.
Apr 11th 2008, 12:48 am
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realy sorry to hear that LAL, 21 is just so young!
Apr 11th 2008, 12:49 am
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oh that is very sad. you take care my thoughts are with you x
Apr 11th 2008, 1:07 am
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So sorry.
Apr 11th 2008, 3:11 am
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How awful...my condolences