I don't really know where to put this
Sep 13th 2019, 3:36 am
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by mikelincs
Not really sure this should be here, but was watching Corrie, the second episode from Wednesday, and was suddenly taken back to March this year, they were dealing with the fact that one of the characters was being told by her oncologist that her cancer was back, and that there was nothing they could do. They didn't give a time prediction, and that was exactly what happened with Pat, no time was given, just that it could be a few weeks or months, in fact it was 3 weeks. I knew something like that was coming and really wish I hadn't watched, or had switched off as it is still quite raw, didn't realise how raw until I was wathcing and burst into tears, thought I was past that, but obviously not. The on screen emotions were excellent. I could see my feelings there, and hear Pat saying ;'now don't get upset and start crying' which she did say to me when it happened. Sorry for the post but it does help me to come to terms with what I was and am feeling.
Mike I have just watched the episodes in question. They were very, very emotional. I felt shell shocked, even though I knew what to expect in the storyline. I can’t begin to imagine how it affected you, but better to let your emotions flow than keep them bottled up inside.
BE is a great support system, whether it be on the forums or privately via PM...please don’t feel embarrassed about using it.
Sep 13th 2019, 3:57 am
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by mikelincs
Not really sure this should be here, but was watching Corrie, the second episode from Wednesday, and was suddenly taken back to March this year, they were dealing with the fact that one of the characters was being told by her oncologist that her cancer was back, and that there was nothing they could do. They didn't give a time prediction, and that was exactly what happened with Pat, no time was given, just that it could be a few weeks or months, in fact it was 3 weeks. I knew something like that was coming and really wish I hadn't watched, or had switched off as it is still quite raw, didn't realise how raw until I was wathcing and burst into tears, thought I was past that, but obviously not. The on screen emotions were excellent. I could see my feelings there, and hear Pat saying ;'now don't get upset and start crying' which she did say to me when it happened. Sorry for the post but it does help me to come to terms with what I was and am feeling.
Sep 13th 2019, 6:12 am
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
I can understand how old folk get frightened and pay up or give bank account details etc.
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Sep 13th 2019, 7:19 am
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by mikelincs
Not really sure this should be here, but was watching Corrie, the second episode from Wednesday, and was suddenly taken back to March this year, they were dealing with the fact that one of the characters was being told by her oncologist that her cancer was back, and that there was nothing they could do. They didn't give a time prediction, and that was exactly what happened with Pat, no time was given, just that it could be a few weeks or months, in fact it was 3 weeks. I knew something like that was coming and really wish I hadn't watched, or had switched off as it is still quite raw, didn't realise how raw until I was wathcing and burst into tears, thought I was past that, but obviously not. The on screen emotions were excellent. I could see my feelings there, and hear Pat saying ;'now don't get upset and start crying' which she did say to me when it happened. Sorry for the post but it does help me to come to terms with what I was and am feeling.
I wish I could say it gets easier but I can't. When a perfect marriage breaks down like this, it is hard.
Keep strong !
Sep 13th 2019, 7:29 am
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by DaveLovesDee
Audible suggested an audiobook I might be interested in.
The Beautiful Poetry of Donald Trump
I'd rather be forced to listen to Vogon poetry instead, thanks.....
The Beautiful Poetry of Donald Trump
I'd rather be forced to listen to Vogon poetry instead, thanks.....
... It's TRUE!!! Beam me up Scotty-I'm close to breaking......
Sep 13th 2019, 9:49 am
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by mikelincs
Not really sure this should be here, but was watching Corrie, the second episode from Wednesday, and was suddenly taken back to March this year, they were dealing with the fact that one of the characters was being told by her oncologist that her cancer was back, and that there was nothing they could do. They didn't give a time prediction, and that was exactly what happened with Pat, no time was given, just that it could be a few weeks or months, in fact it was 3 weeks. I knew something like that was coming and really wish I hadn't watched, or had switched off as it is still quite raw, didn't realise how raw until I was wathcing and burst into tears, thought I was past that, but obviously not. The on screen emotions were excellent. I could see my feelings there, and hear Pat saying ;'now don't get upset and start crying' which she did say to me when it happened. Sorry for the post but it does help me to come to terms with what I was and am feeling.
Sep 13th 2019, 12:29 pm
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by dc koop
If old people paid more attention to discussions on current affairs they would know that the IRS do not EVER call anyone by phone. All correspondence is done by mail. I had the same "the police are on their way" threat from a supposedly member of the iRS. I told him I was waiting at the door for them and kept asking him when they were supposed to arrive. I could see he was beginning to get a bit rattled after 15 minutes but he wouldn't give in and hang up. I asked him how the weather was in Bangladesh. He pretended ignorance. I then told him that I believe I once knew his mother when she worked cabaret at a strip bar and offered to share some of my experiences with him. He hung up immediately
Sep 13th 2019, 12:40 pm
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
I can understand how old folk get frightened and pay up or give bank account details etc.
Originally Posted by dc koop
If old people paid more attention to discussions on current affairs they would know that the IRS do not EVER call anyone by phone. All correspondence is done by mail.
The IRS initiates most contacts through regular mail delivered by the United States Postal Service.However, there are special circumstances in which the IRS will call or come to a home or business, such as when a taxpayer has an overdue tax bill, to secure a delinquent tax return or a delinquent employment tax payment, or to tour a business as part of an audit or during criminal investigations. Even then, taxpayers will generally first receive several letters (called “notices”) from the IRS in the mail.
Note that the IRS does not:
- Call to demand immediate payment using a specific payment method such as a prepaid debit card, gift card or wire transfer. Generally, the IRS will first mail a bill to any taxpayer who owes taxes.
- Demand that you pay taxes without the opportunity to question or appeal the amount they say you owe. You should also be advised of your rights as a taxpayer.
- Threaten to bring in local police, immigration officers or other law-enforcement to have you arrested for not paying. The IRS also cannot revoke your driver’s license, business licenses, or immigration status. Threats like these are common tactics scam artists use to trick victims into buying into their schemes.
I had the same "the police are on their way" threat from a supposedly member of the iRS. I told him I was waiting at the door for them and kept asking him when they were supposed to arrive. I could see he was beginning to get a bit rattled after 15 minutes but he wouldn't give in and hang up. I asked him how the weather was in Bangladesh. He pretended ignorance. I then told him that I believe I once knew his mother when she worked cabaret at a strip bar and offered to share some of my experiences with him. He hung up immediately
Always like to read stuff like this 
Sep 30th 2019, 3:17 am
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by mikelincs
Not really sure this should be here, but was watching Corrie, the second episode from Wednesday, and was suddenly taken back to March this year, they were dealing with the fact that one of the characters was being told by her oncologist that her cancer was back, and that there was nothing they could do. They didn't give a time prediction, and that was exactly what happened with Pat, no time was given, just that it could be a few weeks or months, in fact it was 3 weeks. I knew something like that was coming and really wish I hadn't watched, or had switched off as it is still quite raw, didn't realise how raw until I was wathcing and burst into tears, thought I was past that, but obviously not. The on screen emotions were excellent. I could see my feelings there, and hear Pat saying ;'now don't get upset and start crying' which she did say to me when it happened. Sorry for the post but it does help me to come to terms with what I was and am feeling.
Just hugs to you Mike.
It is fine to share and I am glad that you have and will.
Give yourself all the time
Oct 5th 2019, 4:45 pm
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Ah, the UK's imagined Special Relationship; - all due to Britain's immense importance in the world.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...car-crash.html
Should the family get some free Disneyland passes plus baseball caps as compensation?
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...car-crash.html
Should the family get some free Disneyland passes plus baseball caps as compensation?
Oct 5th 2019, 5:11 pm
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by 007Steve
Ah, the UK's imagined Special Relationship; - all due to Britain's immense importance in the world.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...car-crash.html
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...car-crash.html
Oct 11th 2019, 12:32 pm
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Has there ever been a live chat thread tried on the forum or is this ideal far too dangerous knowing some of the nincompoops(goggle is my friend(that live on here
Oct 11th 2019, 12:59 pm
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by el collado kid
Has there ever been a live chat thread tried on the forum or is this ideal far too dangerous knowing some of the nincompoops(goggle is my friend(that live on here
Re: I don't really know where to put this
Oct 11th 2019, 2:13 pm
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Re: I don't really know where to put this
Originally Posted by Sugarmooma
There was many many years ago!
Originally Posted by el collado kid
Yeah and what was it like bet it was fun .Guns kill people rabbits don`t
I also remember the Great Manc Radio Show. Ancient history.
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