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Old May 12th 2010, 9:35 am
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Originally Posted by bil
We aren't talking about pointless, stupid machismo here. Women range on a scale from partner to parasite, and you had best hope you find one at the good end of the scale. At the nasty end are the vamps as they were called in the 50s or whenever it was. Short for vampire, as they would suck your bank account dry. We had one in the family. A very nasty piece of work she was, and she moved from married man to married man, with a skill that left me breathless. She already had the next one lined up by the time the last few pounds were trickling out of the last sucker's account.

IMO a lot of the problems between men and women come from the fact that were are plains apes with attitude, on top of which is layered a VERY thin veneer of civilisation.

It is hard to explain the unpleasantness of women each month, and the reduction in libido after childbirth unless you postulate that there is an evolutionary advantage in it somewhere.

After all, when you realise that 'love' is just a chemical imbalance things make more sense. (Romantic love is akin to obsessive compulsive disorder apparantly, and is linked to a serotonin imbalance) whereas long term love, the glue that holds a long term relationship together is triggered by oxytocin, the chemical released by the body after orgasm.

Post childbirth the oxytocin reward cycle is thougt to shift in women from their partners to the child, especially when breastfeeding, and this is thought to trigger the crash in libido that happens in a lot of cases.

Fascinating, because this would seem to be counterintuitive. After all, a woman with a new child is supposed to need the support of a partner, so why would she lose libido and thus reduce the sex and the oxytocin?

One hypothesis would be that evolutionary/breeding success can follow one of two paths. Select a mate and then stick with that one for all your breeding history. Or, once you have bred with one, get rid of him and attempt to breed with another one higher up the fitness scale, which would maximise your chances of passing on your genes.

Since a woman is not strong enough to throw a man out on his ear, what better way than to turn off the sex? That way the next woman passing who wants to breed will take him off your hands.

It also accounts for why women can be so foul on a monthly basis. Your breeding options are limited, so if a male hasn't got you pregnant then at the end of each month he has an excellent chance of getting fed up and moving on, giving you a crack at a fertile male.

Menopause it is thought takes you out of competition with you daughters, so you can put yourself to work looking after and helping with your grandchildren. That would appear to give the evolutionary edge to that strategy.
Hmm,..fascinating insight,......by the way,....can you buy this oxytocin stuff at the pharmacy?
Could be the easy way to solve half the Worlds problems overnight.
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We aren't talking about pointless, stupid machismo here. Women range on a scale from partner to parasite, and you had best hope you find one at the good end of the scale. At the nasty end are the vamps as they were called in the 50s or whenever it was. Short for vampire, as they would suck your bank account dry. We had one in the family. A very nasty piece of work she was, and she moved from married man to married man, with a skill that left me breathless. She already had the next one lined up by the time the last few pounds were trickling out of the last sucker's account.

IMO a lot of the problems between men and women come from the fact that were are plains apes with attitude, on top of which is layered a VERY thin veneer of civilisation.

It is hard to explain the unpleasantness of women each month, and the reduction in libido after childbirth unless you postulate that there is an evolutionary advantage in it somewhere.

After all, when you realise that 'love' is just a chemical imbalance things make more sense. (Romantic love is akin to obsessive compulsive disorder apparantly, and is linked to a serotonin imbalance) whereas long term love, the glue that holds a long term relationship together is triggered by oxytocin, the chemical released by the body after orgasm.

Post childbirth the oxytocin reward cycle is thougt to shift in women from their partners to the child, especially when breastfeeding, and this is thought to trigger the crash in libido that happens in a lot of cases.

Fascinating, because this would seem to be counterintuitive. After all, a woman with a new child is supposed to need the support of a partner, so why would she lose libido and thus reduce the sex and the oxytocin?

One hypothesis would be that evolutionary/breeding success can follow one of two paths. Select a mate and then stick with that one for all your breeding history. Or, once you have bred with one, get rid of him and attempt to breed with another one higher up the fitness scale, which would maximise your chances of passing on your genes.

Since a woman is not strong enough to throw a man out on his ear, what better way than to turn off the sex? That way the next woman passing who wants to breed will take him off your hands.

It also accounts for why women can be so foul on a monthly basis. Your breeding options are limited, so if a male hasn't got you pregnant then at the end of each month he has an excellent chance of getting fed up and moving on, giving you a crack at a fertile male.

Menopause it is thought takes you out of competition with you daughters, so you can put yourself to work looking after and helping with your grandchildren. That would appear to give the evolutionary edge to that strategy.
Some very nice pseudo-science

I dont agree though, I just think you havent been lucky enough to meet some nice women.

Women and men really aren't that different. Unfortunately our current state of captitalism is forcing kids into gender seperation from the day they are born e.g. pink vs blue, guns vs. barbie. A reason why adverts will be banned in this household!

PMS is a social thing as well. Some women think that the painful time around the period gives them an excuse to be nasty (and the English media backs them up), but many women dont think that at all. My OH is never nasty

The drop in labido after childbirth I guess I have to look forward to!
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Some very nice pseudo-science

I dont agree though, I just think you havent been lucky enough to meet some nice women.

Women and men really aren't that different. Unfortunately our current state of captitalism is forcing kids into gender seperation from the day they are born e.g. pink vs blue, guns vs. barbie. A reason why adverts will be banned in this household!

PMS is a social thing as well. Some women think that the painful time around the period gives them an excuse to be nasty (and the English media backs them up), but many women dont think that at all. My OH is never nasty

The drop in labido after childbirth I guess I have to look forward to!
What's precisely pseudo about it? It's a hypothesis based on observation. Serotonin and oxytocin are real, and their effects are recognised.

As I said, women, like men exist on a spectrum. Some aren't at all bad each month, some are completely foul. A friend married a Finnish Girl, drop dead gorgeous, but every month she turned into something completely hellish. He ended up divorcing her as it made his life completely unbearable.

You are making a big assumption here. I've actually met some very nice women. I'm married to one. However, having been fed the line from birth about how wonderful, giving and spiritual women were, I started to wonder how it was that the actuality often didn't reflect what was written on the tin.

Women dislike it when we look at them in a sexually assessing way. So why wear stuff that reveals so much? My daughter told me about a friend of hers that used to do that, put everything on display, then called anyone who looked a dirty old man. My daughter told her not to be such a hypocrite.

There's a marketing technique there. You put the meat on display. The males that respond see you as sexually desireable, therefore are in or below your 'social scale'. The ones you want to breed with are above you and will be the ones that are aloof to you.

It works the other way too. A friend always used to say that the aloof females turned him on. Males like to mate with high status females, but they'll take what they can get. I derived a lot of pleasure at one 'do' we were at. He was making some comment about one haughty cow who was obviously enjoying it, so I just said loudly, 'Why bother, when you can ***** better down the road for just 30 euros and don't have to put up with its crap afterwards?'

(We were in Amsterdam at the time, and the meat on sale in the hooker's windows was (mostly) of amazing quality.)

It did get an excellent response.

I always see that as part of the reason that women so often dislike pornography and prostitution. The say that it degrades women, but in actual fact it just places a marketable commodity on a level pricing field, which back then was about 30 euros.
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Originally Posted by bil
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Women dislike it when we look at them in a sexually assessing way. So why wear stuff that reveals so much? My daughter told me about a friend of hers that used to do that, put everything on display, then called anyone who looked a dirty old man. My daughter told her not to be such a hypocrite.

There's a marketing technique there. You put the meat on display. The males that respond see you as sexually desireable, therefore are in or below your 'social scale'. The ones you want to breed with are above you and will be the ones that are aloof to you.
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Well thats still a bit of a UK/US phenomena, you dont see many other Europeans flouting themself in the middle of a supermarket or when it is -5c outside.

I actually think UK and US culture hates women - or maybe better said, really doesnt understand women. Which is why some US and UK women are little confused about how to behave. Look at many young female pop stars or supposed role model in the UK/US and you will find a dirty middle aged man behind them telling them how to behave. Another example, US chick flick movies are evil to the core. If women were really like that, I would never go near one!
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Hmm,..fascinating insight,......by the way,....can you buy this oxytocin stuff at the pharmacy?
Could be the easy way to solve half the Worlds problems overnight.

Finding the G Spot is easier, cheaper and more fun
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Well thats still a bit of a UK/US phenomena, you dont see many other Europeans flouting themself in the middle of a supermarket or when it is -5c outside.

I actually think UK and US culture hates women - or maybe better said, really doesnt understand women. Which is why some US and UK women are little confused about how to behave. Look at many young female pop stars or supposed role model in the UK/US and you will find a dirty middle aged man behind them telling them how to behave. Another example, US chick flick movies are evil to the core. If women were really like that, I would never go near one!
What, no low cut tops and short skirts in your area?

As for female singers and the like, I always reckon that the more talent they have, the less they need to strip off.
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Finding the G Spot is easier, cheaper and more fun
One theory is that the G spot is the female equivalent to the prostate gland, and why some women ejaculate.
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Originally Posted by bil
What, no low cut tops and short skirts in your area?

As for female singers and the like, I always reckon that the more talent they have, the less they need to strip off.
I tend to go along with the vast majority of your excellent thesis regarding the female of our species.
However apart from the obvious points you mention, I find it increasingly disturbing in more recent times to see so many of them discarding their miniskirts and hotpants in favour of trousers and a more masculine appearance,not to mention attitude.
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http://kathibratcher.blogspot.com/20...50s-style.html

A good housewife always knows her place.

Well she used to,.. 50 years ago anyway.
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Originally Posted by bil
What, no low cut tops and short skirts in your area?

As for female singers and the like, I always reckon that the more talent they have, the less they need to strip off.
Yes of course there are, but they are worn appropriately i.e. when going to the beach or when extremely hot in the summer.

My OH was scandalised when she came to the UK and saw how the young girls dressed to go out in the winter. She used to go to the UK nightclubs in trousers, trainers, 2 jumpers and a thick winter coat
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http://kathibratcher.blogspot.com/20...50s-style.html

A good housewife always knows her place.

Well she used to,.. 50 years ago anyway.
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One entertaining point to raise.

If there were no chance of sex, not at all, would you rather share a house with a woman or a man?

When there's no sex to balance the books, their appeal really goes down, doesn't it? At least the average bloke doesn't usually sulk, whine and play the mind games so many women like.

As a wise old boy once said to me, 'For an awful lot of women, if there weren't a hole between their legs, there would be a bounty on their heads.'
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One entertaining point to raise.

If there were no chance of sex, not at all, would you rather share a house with a woman or a man?

When there's no sex to balance the books, their appeal really goes down, doesn't it? At least the average bloke doesn't usually sulk, whine and play the mind games so many women like.

As a wise old boy once said to me, 'For an awful lot of women, if there weren't a hole between their legs, there would be a bounty on their heads.'
I'd still settle for the woman,...as long as she knows her place.

It's unlikely she would have quite so many bad heads, and could still be quite useful doing the housework,fixing the food and bringing me a fresh can of beer while I'm watching the football.
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I'd still settle for the woman,...as long as she knows her place.

It's unlikely she would have quite so many bad heads, and could still be quite useful doing the housework,fixing the food and bringing me a fresh can of beer while I'm watching the football.
Yer dreaming kid.

Personally I'd rather live on my own, doing it all for myself than pick up a parasite who was only after what I had.
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Yer dreaming kid.

Personally I'd rather live on my own, doing it all for myself than pick up a parasite who was only after what I had.
http://www.owensworld.com/jokes/read-527.htm

According to this analysis you could possibly be correct.
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