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A big part of me has always wanted to move abroad but theres always been something stopping me, girlfriends, debt, etc. But im finally in a situation where perhaps yeah I could do it. I got a girlfriend at the moment in a rented house, she doesnt wana move to spain and to be honest we're on the rocks and i suspect she's cheating on me. Its all sad, but theres one thing that will get me through it. If we do break up then sod it im jumping in the car and driving 1,500 miles south to the costa del sol. Ive been there a few times and i love it. I know a little spanish and already learning more and have been looking into what is required when moving to the costa. The more ive looked into it the more I want to do it! Im a 25 year old male, so unlike a lot of people this is no retirement. I'd be quitting a 20k a year job to take the move and itd just be madness. I have some money saved to maybe put a deposit down on a house, but id just want to rent to start with. Infact to start with id be looking at just renting a room in shared accomodation. Good way to meet people, very cheap and give me time to find a job. Preferbally in IT but heck i'd do a good bar job for a while give me a nice break from IT. Ive been an IT Support Technician for the last 8 years.

Im sick of the UK Weather, we get like 2 decent hot days a year and 1 snow day a year and when that happenes everyone goes skits about it.. its like whats the big deal? You go abroad and you see real weather. I know how well it can rain in the Costa Del Sol and I know how lovely the weather is the rest of the time. I really love hot sunny weather, makes me feel so much better about life.

So yes if things do go wrong with the g/f (which is looking likely right now, i wont go into detail on that). I think id be jumping in the car and coming down on my own. Ive been quite suprised at the lack of any costa del sol ex pat forums and stuff. Theres so many brits down there. The hardest bits going to be establishing myself, finding friends, finding a job etc.

When ive been there on holiday i spoke to a lot of ex pats and they all had something in common. They love it down there, they have no regrets in moving, they dont miss england and they dont want to move back.

So I guess im on here just to say Hi, get to know a few of you hopefully from Costa Del Sol region as well so if/when I come be good to say hi in person when im here! :) Plus of course any direction, help advice would be greatly appreciated.

Now how do i pay toll booths in a right hand drive vehicle ? :)

Cheers guys.

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Now how do i pay toll booths in a right hand drive vehicle ?

GET A LONGER ARM....:D :D :D

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I was thinking about the drive down through france etc and was wondering how. Previously when driving in europe ive had a passenger so its been OK. So i guess i'd have to perfect an unbuckle seatbelt, hop into left hand seat window down and pay / take card and back again really quiclky before you annoy the queue behind you :)

Theres one good thing, i drive a seat ibiza so should be no problem getting servicing and repairs in spain :)

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The car will only be legal for 6 months in Spain and I doubt if your ins will cover you out of UK for more than a few months.
Sell it and buy a lhd here.

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And change the A for an O at the end of your name onlineamiga;)
Otherwise you might get one or two blokes on here trying to chat you up :D

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Hi,

Im fully aware that the car will only be legal in spain for 6 months before I have to get it plated up with spanish plates, but its only 2 years old ive done a bit to it and dont wanna give it up just yet. What id probably do is depending on how well things are going, is bring it down for 6 months, and if things are going well id take it back to the UK to sell, fly home and buy a LHD Seat Leon or something in Spain.
If things arent going so well then i can begin procedures for getting spanish plates on it etc. Its no problem.
As for insurance you can get insurance out in spain for british plated cars. Looked into that already :) And its a hell of a lot cheaper than the rip off UK insurance companies :)

As for my name, When signing up to the forum i was awell aware that onlineamiga my make people think im female. But its my legacy nick name from the good old days of the Amiga Computer. I was online with it and thus i was always known as the onlineamiga. I was a bit of an amiga die hard and my specced up amiga was the best computer i ever had :) It was certinately more faithful to me than any 'amiga' (girlfriend) ive ever had!

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You seem to have thought this out. If you have some money in the bank to tide you over until you can find a job then I say...Go for it! :thumbup: My daughter went over to Spain with us in Jan for a holiday and stayed, she was fed-up at home, let down by boyfriends, no job and no place of her own, living part time with a friend and part time with us. Now she is in Spain and renting a room from a friend of ours who moved over last Dec. She hasn't got a job yet but has left her name and number with a few bars/cafes and has a job interview on Friday. She is learning Spanish and can already hold a basic conversation in Spanish. Hope it works out for you.

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Hi

Welcome to the forum, Sounds to me like you are ready to go for it and i dont blame you.. Dont know if you noticed but you play your cards right you could get a new girl over there !! so keep in with Lionda lol

As for your present Girlfriend elbow her !! If she gives you any reason to have hassles ditch her your not married so no probs, If Lionda`s daughter doesnt work out then , dont worry . The Spanish Girls will be putty in your hands just say the right words and you will melt them , If you need any tips on pulling the Senoritas ask me and i will advise you .:thumbup:

Good Luck

:)

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Hmm strange i typed out a hell of a reply then detailing all my plans and its dissapeared. Hmm weired. But i think i know what it was, i included a URL and the mod has to approve the post first, so mod dont worry about em ive reworded it without supplying the URL.

Well you never know i might get lucky with a local senorita you never know :)

Grr cant believe i gotta type my plan out again. But basically situation im in is that Ive been to the costa a couple of times before and i recently took the g/f on a short break there. We got talking to a lot of ex pats and they were all saying how great it is living there and stuff. Got me thinking it really did. I got some money saved up for a deposit on a house and I thought, why buy one in greysville when maybe i could be happier out there? Unfortunately the g/f didnt agree, she's very close to all her family they all live in the same village whereas mine dont. The few family i have are scattered around the place and i dont see them often. So i kinda put the idea to rest. When i discovered her potential affair i started thinking about it. Kinda makes me feel a hell of a lot better about being cheated on and hurt if Im going to the costa del sol afterwards. So i started planning the move. And let me know if ive missed any gaps out.

Basically find a room something, shared accomodation, furnished etc. Its generally cheap ive seen a few good ones. Be good to start with. Good way to meet someone good cheap accomodation.
Get car serviced, new tyres, new windscreen (it got a chip) so its in top condition. Pay off credit cards, hand house finances over to the g/f (thatll teach her)
Book ferry, hotel in france, one in spain for first night and spend two days driving down.
Get some spanish lessons another good way to brush up on the lingo. No hablo espanol muy bien pero querio aprender. Theres no point living in Spain if you dont want to learn the lingo. I intend to be able to speak it fluently, and its easier to learn down there. Tho i've already started studying up here.
Find a job, heck if its just a bar job to start with im not bothered, be an ice break from I.T what i always do. But be good to get into IT down there.
Once happy ive got an income start looking for a studio flat or something closer to work.
Sort out residency tax, etc.
If all going well after first year look at buying a house, and of course after 6 months get car plated up with spanish plates etc. or if im doing really well take it home, sell it and buy a spanish car.

If all doesnt go well, ive got enough money to survive out there for a good few months or more, and it'd have been a great fun experience and i'll come home. Nothing lost.

So yes really liking the thought of it. More i look into it the more i want to do it whether the g/fs cheating or not! eek :/ Youll also be happy to know that in the north of england its done nothing but rain for the last 2 days and is set to continue. Its so depressing i want sunshine!

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:lol: My daughter has had enough with boyfriends and wants to stay single with no ties at all. She's 29 now and just seems to meet the idiots (there must be some decent blokes out there :huh: )

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Maybe your daughter should try getting a girlfriend instead :) hehehe.

Im being mucked about by my girlfriend at the moment and ive had ex's muck me about hence why im thinking of starting afresh in spain. Something ive always wanted to do. So might aswell go for my dream.

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Exactly the way my daughter felt. It hasn't been easy for her and we are paying her rent at the moment and subbing her for food and expenses so hoping she gets a job soon. Phoned her yesterday and suggested if she doesn't get a job soon it may be a good idea to come home. Her answer...."NO WAY there is nothing in England I'll stick with it"

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Thats very good of you to do that for her. The only good news is is that summers coming so theres bound to be a tonne of bar work and stuff coming up. Or maybe start her own business?

Though i guess you cant be paying for her forever. The only other option is instead of renting her a place, buy her one. At least then the money youre sending is going to a property which will be an asset for later on down the line.

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Already been down that road (buying a property) I went halves on a flat with her but she couldn't manage the mortgage and living expenses, it had to be sold in the end and she came home. She can't afford to live on her own. We are buying in Spain and should be moving over soon so if it doesn't work out for her she can always move back in with us. Crossing my fingers that she gets a job soon.

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you are such a cheeky chappy big pete...............i thought you were dedicated to your lady wife, who else could understand the rudiments of trout fishing, and know which order to put your ' views of the peak discrict' DVDs in.
Do you think a spanish lady could pour you a real ale the way you like it.
Think hard big pete, i would hate you to cut your nose of to spite your face!

love

mary x x x

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GO FOR IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!
My only regret about coming here, is not coming sooner! I am 36 and have been wanting to come and do this since I was 18, I wish I had done it then!
Good luck to you.

love

mary x x x

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Thanks mary everyone is really encouraging me to go and saying its the right thing to do. Ive got suspisiouns that my g/f is hceating on me and i found out that last night swas stripping off on msn to this guy that i think shes having the affair with. ( i got the log!) and its quite shocking really. For full details on that I posted on digitalspy forums advice section "arghh what to do? end of relationship" wont post link coz then it has to be approved.

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I reckon you should go for it what ya got lose Id agree wiv pete give the girl friend the BIG ELBOW once you get out to spain you meet loads of crumpet and never look back matey , and like BIG PETE said if you need any tips on pulling he will be the man have you seen the movie SATURDAY NIGHT FEVER john travolter well pete busts the moves better than him !

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We have a Seat Alhambra and have just paid E240 for a wing mirror as it was only available through the main dealer. Also E20 for a petrol cap!

However, we are up in the mountains, things are probably different on the coast!

Good luck with your move!

I suppose you could get out of the car to pay the tollbooths.

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Thats suprising that, i would have thought Seat parts would have been cheaper than in the UK. Im part of a big seat group here and I know a few places to get Seat parts cheap so i could always get them shipped!

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Hi there, and welcome to the freak show.
Good on ya for making the move, as most know from my posts i think it is the best decision you will make, i wouldnt even concern yourself with issues like making friends, you seem personable enough, and are gung ho about Spanish, the rest will come easy.

There are loads of really nice people on this forum, oh and there is Big Pete, so sit back and enjoy the view, (christ that sounded so internet geeky didnt it!?) any way, you know, enjoy and stuff.

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Hiya Onlineamiga! You certainly seem to have it all sussed. Go for it and there is a lot of IT work down here

Oh and I could be looking for a nice toyboy if you behave yourself..... ;)

Seriously if you want any advice from the CDS Im in Marbella and can hopefully help.

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Well im certinately tired of dating girls younger than me. They just end up messing me about, so a more mature lady might be the way forward :)

And thanks rugbymatt it does sound like theres a few decent guys on here, as well as some mad ones!! No offence Big Pete!

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Well, we are all pretty nuts as this helps to make a fast decision! Good luck with it and just to help you on your way, I used to live in Hartlepool - never did defrost from there - and today the weather is 24 degrees, sunny and Ive just got back from a spot of lunch - just a sandwich and aqua con gas sitting just at the port entrance in Banus watching the boats lazily pass by! Wonderful!

In a bit Im off to another bar to meet a client (honest) and will sit in the sun with a coffee or cool drink talking about property etc, then look at a villa and back home around 6pm.

Tomorrow hard day of sunbathing eating and drinking, sollowed by monday of eeerm sunbathing eating and drinking :o Monday more of the same as taking a day off!

This is the life!

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Sounds like my kind of life :thumbup:

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Yeah - I do get to the gym 3 times a week but only cos one of the instructors is a real hunk (arent I terrible) and he talks to me - gosh fantasising again!

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Rixxy: Grrr you make me jealous man!
Well i can say it has been bright and sunny here today. But still it doesnt compare to the 20+ degrees. Infact it was crisp this morning. But it is nice to see the sun again after 5 days of grey skies and raining. I hate the weather here.

Im stuck in an office all day anyway so doesnt make a different. Walked into this building at 08:30 and wont walk out till 17:00 thats how it is 5 days a week. I work in I.T as an IT Manager, and to be honest id be quite happy downsizing if i need to. Obviously be great to get an IT job off the ground in the Costa Del Sol, or I could start my own IT Business (no idea how) ive just got the technical and customer service skills not the business know how. Though in the UK i make a bit of extra pocket money by doing home visits to fix PC probs.

Shouldnt be long till Im at the Costa Del Sol. My girlfriend is cheating on me with another guy and Im leaving her very soon for it. (she doesnt know I know! Im just planning and biding my time, and waiting for some money to come through)

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I love a man who gets even!
You could earn a little extra making house calls in Spain as well.

Plenty of bored housewives there!

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Damn right, the silly mare has been stripping off and playing with her toys on the webcam to her loverboy. Ive been recording her MSN logs! Shes not going to get away with it and on Tuesday they're going to meet up in which they'll no doubt be at it. Its very very hurtful but whats getting me through it persuing my dream and coming to the Costa Del Sol. Ive really fell in love with the place.

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She will be fine! the summers coming so there will be plenty of bar/waitress jobs around fare play to her not coming back to england and staying there to try and make a go of it !

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My daughter caught her ex in bed with another woman when she got home from work in the early hours (she was a pole dancer at the time and finished work at 2am with a 40 min journey home but had got a lift that morning so arrived home early) She had suspected that there was someone else for a while but he had assured her she was the only one and they were even talking about getting married! That was 2 years ago and she hasn't trusted anyone since.

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cor blimey a pole dancer !

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:lol: yes...gorgeous, tall, blonde perfect size 10. The woman she caught her ex with was short and dumpy and quite plain :huh:

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Hope for the rest uf us then

Re the it one guy I know is fab at fixing computer problems and maily cos he does call outs. He is microsoft approved and charges 30 euros per our if you take the thing to his ofice and 60 euro per hour call outs. He used to be mobile, now has an office and does very well!

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If she can cook then tell her there is a man waiting here for her!

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:rofl:

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I have always supported ladies who dance around a pole!

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Why - are you polish?? Boom Boom!

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I was going to put something else but remembered that children sometimes read this forum!

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:ohmy: OH , Dont worry about Andy, he seems to have gone away now...:thumbup: