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Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by HBG
(Post 11341714)
The purpose of showing statistics is quite simply to dispel the myths surrounding our most prevalent misconceptions. Alcoholics are not identified by falling in the gutter and gay people don’t prance around in pink hotpants.
To get back to walking down the normal street, two out of three people you come across will be divorced. One in ten will suffer from depression. We are an intelligent forum and I’m sure we understand. |
Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by HBG
(Post 11341714)
The purpose of showing statistics is quite simply to dispel the myths surrounding our most prevalent misconceptions. Alcoholics are not identified by falling in the gutter and gay people don’t prance around in pink hotpants.
To get back to walking down the normal street, two out of three people you come across will be divorced. One in ten will suffer from depression. We are an intelligent forum and I’m sure we understand. I aint got a clue what you are on about, gays and statistics?? :confused: |
Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by HBG
(Post 11341388)
People look aghast when they hear someone called an alcoholic, similar to the surprise when hearing that someone is gay. I’m always reminded of the actual statistics, the one in fourteen.
If you walk down a normal street, every fourteenth person you come across will be an alcoholic. Among the same sample will be a gay person. Perhaps it’s easier on our conscience to deny their existence, but they’re there all right, and they look just like the rest of us. I don't however consider myself to be one and in my job I see enough of them. 2yrs ago I had a hip replacement operation, filled in all the forms for the anaesthetist and everything went fine. The day after the operation the doctor came in and asked me if I'd like something for the withdrawal symptoms. I honestly had no idea what he was talking about until he explained that the amount of units I had put down on my original form puts me into the 'dependency category' |
Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by stuboy
(Post 11341836)
I'm often amused by peoples definition of 'alcoholic' by most measures I am.
I don't however consider myself to be one and in my job I see enough of them. 2yrs ago I had a hip replacement operation, filled in all the forms for the anaesthetist and everything went fine. The day after the operation the doctor came in and asked me if I'd like something for the withdrawal symptoms. I honestly had no idea what he was talking about until he explained that the amount of units I had put down on my original form puts me into the 'dependency category' We both got a phone call from the practice alco advisor as they consider anything over 6 to be a problem. Frankly if you go to holy communion twice a week you would be pushing that. I think such extreme precaution is counter productive. People won't take it seriously if it's squeezed to those limits. |
Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by stuboy
(Post 11341836)
I'm often amused by peoples definition of 'alcoholic' by most measures I am.
I don't however consider myself to be one and in my job I see enough of them. 2yrs ago I had a hip replacement operation, filled in all the forms for the anaesthetist and everything went fine. The day after the operation the doctor came in and asked me if I'd like something for the withdrawal symptoms. I honestly had no idea what he was talking about until he explained that the amount of units I had put down on my original form puts me into the 'dependency category' |
Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by mikelincs
(Post 11342004)
The problem is that most alcoholic or alchohol dependent people don't believe they have a problem, and as you say I don't consider myself one, a very common statement by alchohol dependent people.
You have used 2 terms, alcoholic and alcohol dependant - are they the same? |
Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by jimenato
(Post 11342013)
I wonder what the accepted definition of alcoholism is?
You have used 2 terms, alcoholic and alcohol dependant - are they the same? |
Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by mikelincs
(Post 11342050)
Yes they are, some people like to use the 'alcohol dependent' instead of the 'alcoholic term because they feel it has less social stigma. An alcoholic will never pass a breathalyser test, in fact they are more of a danger if their alcohol level drops to zero. Many of them appear quite normal with an alcohol level that would kill most people, levels in the blood of 300 - 400 mg.l are not unusual in the more severe cases.
I suspect that many, including Alcoholics Anonymous, have a far less severe definition of what an alcoholic is - including possibly me and, it would appear, stuboy. |
Re: caught drink driving..
I think one sign is drinking in secret, hiding booze, thats what my uncle did.
He died because of drink, he stopped eating. He was a very proud man immaculate in appearance, smartly dressed all the time and never appeared to be drunk. I couldn't believe it when I found out. I could happily have a drink every night but I don't, its not good for you. Weekends is when I have a drink or when I am on holiday. I do have serious concerns about this when i finish work and move to Spain, its so easy to have a beer at lunch time, then another, then wine. Before you know it you are drinking all day every day. I saw this when I was on holiday in Torrevieja, there is lot of drunk expats there who I would say appeared like they had a drink problem. I have mentioned this to my wife who I am sure will be keeping an eye on me, as usual!! lol |
Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by mikelincs
(Post 11342004)
The problem is that most alcoholic or alchohol dependent people don't believe they have a problem, and as you say I don't consider myself one, a very common statement by alchohol dependent people.
If I decide to go downstairs in the evening it will be anytime between 6 and 8pm and then I will have a drink with my customers. 6 or 7 pints usually each time. And if I'm in the mood a couple of Grey Goose Vodkas and Soda. Last orders in the pub are 12.30 so I don't consider that particularly excessive. Trust me, I have been breathalysed more times than you've had hot dinners. When you live (mainly) in a pub as I do and the old bill see you pulling out of the car park at all times you are an easy target. I have never failed a breathalyser yet. |
Re: caught drink driving..
There should be zero tolerance level for alcohol, when driving, since it affects everyone differently, there cannot be a set level. I read earlier this year that this will come about in a Spain, the sooner the better.
A purge on drivers leaving restaurants and bars , with bans and heavy fines for those over the level would help, not to mention swell the coffers. |
Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by Neptuno
(Post 11342141)
A purge on drivers leaving restaurants and bars , with bans and heavy fines for those over the level would help, not to mention swell the coffers.
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Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by jimenato
(Post 11342013)
I wonder what the accepted definition of alcoholism is?
You have used 2 terms, alcoholic and alcohol dependant - are they the same? I am going that way myself and can see how it happens. I don't drink and drive though. |
Re: caught drink driving..
Originally Posted by mikelincs
(Post 11342083)
Yes they are, some people like to use the 'alcohol dependent' instead of the 'alcoholic term because they feel it has less social stigma. An alcoholic will never pass a breathalyser test, in fact they are more of a danger if their alcohol level drops to zero. Many of them appear quite normal with an alcohol level that would kill most people, levels in the blood of 300 - 400 mg.l are not unusual in the more severe cases.
Originally Posted by jimenato
(Post 11342083)
You seem to be implying then that an alcoholic is one who is like a friend of mine in Spain who got himself into the position where he couldn't work as he had to have beer first thing in the morning just to get himself up. Twice I had to drive him to the doctor in Estepona for 9 am. - picking up cans of lager at the petrol station on the way - to start him on rehab meds. He ended up a severely depressed alcoholic so we put him on a plane to Scotland where he would feel at home.
I suspect that many, including Alcoholics Anonymous, have a far less severe definition of what an alcoholic is - including possibly me and, it would appear, stuboy. |
Re: caught drink driving..
Alcoholism among British pensioner expats in Spain is rife, you see it everywhere. It’s a combination of boredom, absolutely silly alcohol prices (a litre of Vodka for less than a fiver, and wine that is cheaper than water), and the daily hot sun which makes you thirsty.
And it’s acceptable to go into a bar at eight in the morning and have a coffee and brandy, although that is more a Spanish habit. The expats are vulnerable and succumb to temptation, hence we have AA meetings everywhere, in all different languages too. All teaching exactly the same thing – you can’t control it so you must stop it. It seems to work for a hell of a lot of nice people. |
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