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Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 2:41 pm
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Anyone else fighting off the black dog?
Most of the time things are fine, but then suddenly bang!
I'm full of negativity again....
 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 2:55 pm
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Originally Posted by unfair dinkum
Anyone else fighting off the black dog?
Most of the time things are fine, but then suddenly bang!
I'm full of negativity again....

3 weeks of school hols, teens home, they are typical sloth's and have set a routine of playing some internet game 10 hours a day, sleeping 12 hours a day and eating 2 hours a day. Plus they never clean up.

Thats making me depressed

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Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 3:01 pm
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A huge bar of chocolate, bottle of bubbly with friends and a box set of Will and Grace?
 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 3:02 pm
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A huge bar of chocolate, bottle of bubbly with friends and a box set of Will and Grace?
What? Is that what makes you depressed?
 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 3:07 pm
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A huge bar of chocolate, bottle of bubbly with friends and a box set of Will and Grace?
I am thinking of booking myself into some 5***** hotel for next weekend. Alone, no family and ordering room service, going to the spa, as and when I fancy.

Bliss.
 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 3:42 pm
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By the thread title I thought your family pooch might have been bothering you as you were trying to use the PC?! A friend's cat has an annoying habit of walking all over his keyboard whenever he tries to use his.
 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 4:27 pm
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Might be just that time of year, I could do with a weekend on my own in a 5* hotel with a nice view and a few bottles of Shaw and Smith to keep me company as well.

Today is one of the days from hell days - 6 clients slotted in and I am betting that they will all darned well turn up. Ah well, it pays the bills I guess.
 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 4:37 pm
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Might be just that time of year, I could do with a weekend on my own in a 5* hotel with a nice view and a few bottles of Shaw and Smith to keep me company as well.

Today is one of the days from hell days - 6 clients slotted in and I am betting that they will all darned well turn up. Ah well, it pays the bills I guess.
You could turn the red light off Quoll?

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Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 5:02 pm
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Originally Posted by unfair dinkum
Anyone else fighting off the black dog?
Most of the time things are fine, but then suddenly bang!
I'm full of negativity again....
Yup, I have a history of that ... it's probably a form of Manic Depression/Bipolar Disorder though I haven't been formally diagnosed ... I find upping the exercise, eating right, drinking less booze and surrounding myself with positive influences and people helps

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Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 5:10 pm
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Originally Posted by unfair dinkum
Anyone else fighting off the black dog?
Most of the time things are fine, but then suddenly bang!
I'm full of negativity again....
I have ongoing issues which like to raise their miserable heads when I could most do without them.

Life - it's a barrrrrstarrrrd.

Shame the alternative ain't much cop.

 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 5:11 pm
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Originally Posted by unfair dinkum
Anyone else fighting off the black dog?
Most of the time things are fine, but then suddenly bang!
I'm full of negativity again....
Yep, I badly need a night out on the town with my best friend, drinking, gossiping and just being ourselves Ain't gonna happen for a while though so in the meantime its here we go for a night shift with a vat of coffee and just think of the money.......
 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 7:05 pm
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Thanks for the comments, though didn't get DV's YouTube reference.
I get these sudden black moods which come unheralded these days, albeit fewer and further between than when we first migrated.
In retrospect today's dip was probably related to the impending afternoon tea with the in laws to celebrate wifes b'day: the prospect of bad company, stodgy overpriced cake and piss weak tea

I would be interested to know how many of us have suffered with depression during the migration process
 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 7:17 pm
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Originally Posted by unfair dinkum
Thanks for the comments, though didn't get DV's YouTube reference.
I get these sudden black moods which come unheralded these days, albeit fewer and further between than when we first migrated.
In retrospect today's dip was probably related to the impending afternoon tea with the in laws to celebrate wifes b'day: the prospect of bad company, stodgy overpriced cake and piss weak tea

I would be interested to know how many of us have suffered with depression during the migration process
I find reading YouTube comments depressing in itself, a kind of despair about humanity generally, that's all.

That goes for most on-line 'Comment On This Article' kind of affairs. Best avoided if in a delicate place ...
 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 7:22 pm
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Originally Posted by unfair dinkum
Anyone else fighting off the black dog?
Most of the time things are fine, but then suddenly bang!
I'm full of negativity again....
I get like that too sometimes Right now I'm on the miserable train...just feeling sorry for myself really..my list of woes are as follows:

1. Waiting for what seems to be an eternity for 15yo daughter's 2nd round of heart surgery..op's been cancelled twice...now looking at August

2. I cant exercise like I normally do because of tendonosis in my shoulder..not been able to do any of my fav gym classes for months ...so the weight I lost is coming back & my muscle tone has disappeared...don't get me started on my 96 year old knees who need braces on them just to DO any exercise!

3. I'm having yet another bloody birthday soon...where does the time go??? I'd like to know the git who hit the fast forward button & made me ancient????

4. I was made redundant back in April & I still haven't got an interview never mind a sodding job!

5. I miss my folks..

On the plus side tho...I no longer have the flu & I'm not homeless
 
Old Jun 23rd 2011 | 7:45 pm
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Originally Posted by unfair dinkum
I would be interested to know how many of us have suffered with depression during the migration process
'Appy Birthday to Mrs Dinkum.

We came over on a 457 so the whole process was quite speedy.. I was more frustrated than depressed most of the time at other people's ineptitude.. (but that's just me all over)

Then we had the excitement of finding a home, schools for the kids, blah blah blah.

Looking back now, I think I started on a downward spiral about 3-4months into our experience here in Australia.. I hated living in a rental, it was really stressful.. but then we started looking at buying a house which made me feel much more settled and content. I also started work and didn't have as much time for brooding

I am better now at spotting the signs of impending darkness and try to alleviate the symptoms before I get to the point where I can't.
 


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