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Forum: USA
Oct 25th 2019, 9:55 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Hello - sorry to worry everybody, I'm still here and just about hanging on. I've come back to this thread so many times to post, but lost the will as things aren't so good. But I was touched to hear...
Forum: USA
Aug 20th 2019, 7:42 am
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Thank you so much, I can't tell you how much your encouraging words mean to me. My family aren't describing me as 'strong, courageous, or having dignity or resilience', they are mad with me for...
Forum: USA
Aug 19th 2019, 1:09 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Oh, what lovely thoughts and suggestions! Thank you.

I was in two minds about posting an update, as I want to be positive, but the reality is a different story.

Nothing has been easy. I wasn't...
Forum: USA
Aug 7th 2019, 8:27 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

MMcD What a lovely, lovely post, thank you. I've read it quite a few times now and each time your words lift my spirits. Having been knocked sideways by the many different ways divorce has invaded...
Forum: USA
Jul 31st 2019, 10:05 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Thank you so much for all the kind words and encouragement. I never expected this forum to be one of my main sources of support when things get rough.

The grieving part is so hard, and this week...
Forum: USA
Jul 30th 2019, 9:01 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

I am covering my tracks so that he isn't aware of my plans, but he knows in all likelihood that I would return to the UK. As my departure quickly approaches, I sort of don't want to know the latest...
Forum: USA
Jul 27th 2019, 11:15 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Thank you, your words hit home. I very much intend to focus on my own growth and healing. I never again want to put myself in a position where I open myself up to this level of hurt and manipulation....
Forum: USA
Jul 25th 2019, 11:38 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

This is such good advice. I knew divorce wasn't going to be easy, but what's happened has knocked the stuffing out of me - over and over.

I've been trying to let go of what I have no control...
Forum: USA
Jul 23rd 2019, 3:33 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

My attorney told me to leave it two weeks before leaving, so I'm pushing it as it is. Saying that, I couldn't get a flight in my price range any earlier - how I wish I could afford business class.
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Forum: USA
Jul 20th 2019, 4:49 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

I love all the advice and it's lifted my spirits no end that people are willing to give their time, thought and wisdom to my nightmare. Thank you... and yes, I did listen Ms Gaynor a few times. I...
Forum: USA
Jul 17th 2019, 1:50 am
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Well, I'm expecting the worst when it comes to his terms. I'm trying to harden myself to accept that he's playing with no morals, and is looking out for #1. I hope my lawyer is fighting for me, and...
Forum: USA
Jul 17th 2019, 1:42 am
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

You are both so right. You think you know someone, really know them, believe in them and then... that belief gets tested.

My ex didn't really know what empathy was, he could listen to the saddest...
Forum: USA
Jul 15th 2019, 11:17 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

I'm so grateful for the kind words and support. Acts of kindness are registering very meaningfully for me right now, and reading the words 'plus all of us' touched my broken heart.

I'm surprised...
Forum: USA
Jul 13th 2019, 10:02 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Goonergirl Thank you for such a lovely, honest post. I am so sorry that you had to go through such a dreadful time. I know what you mean when friends takes sides, there's about 4 people now that will...
Forum: USA
Jul 12th 2019, 11:32 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

I really appreciate the support and hugs, never dreamed I'd find myself in this nightmare. I remember writing a piece once about how the brain focuses on what's needed when stress levels are...
Forum: USA
Jul 12th 2019, 10:28 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Thanks MMcD , I hadn't seen that article, interesting reading. It blows my mind that anyone can file a PFA on anyone without burden of proof. I wonder what the costs are to the courts given the very...
Forum: USA
Jul 10th 2019, 3:36 am
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

I got served today with the PFA by a sheriff at my house. He was very nice and gave me some good advice. I'm grateful that the serving didn't knock me off my feet. Very distressing though.

Looks...
Forum: USA
Jul 9th 2019, 1:02 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Neighbours from hell are the worst, I am sorry you've had to deal with that.

I am no further forward. My attorney's legal assistant told me in no uncertain terms yesterday that I would have to...
Forum: USA
Jul 7th 2019, 8:31 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Thank you for all your kinds words and advice. It's been a rough few days, so coming on here and realising that strangers are willing to give time and thought to my situation is heart lifting. Thank...
Forum: USA
Jul 5th 2019, 2:48 am
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Sorry for the lack of updates, I fallen into somewhat of a black hole. Lack of sleep and weight loss - 21lbs in 5 weeks is not doing much for me.

My ex does have an attorney, so now it's my...
Forum: USA
Jun 27th 2019, 11:50 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Thank you BEVS , I appreciate the hug.
Forum: USA
Jun 27th 2019, 11:11 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

Thanks for the links, really helpful and made an interesting read.

I'm a journalist, but I didn't think of going to the local press. Of course now I'm wondering whether they'd be interested in...
Forum: USA
Jun 26th 2019, 1:18 am
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

It's an interesting conversation, what kind of support can a military spouse expect when as vikingsail says, the chips are down. Perhaps I can offer my perspective - and growing knowledge - as I fall...
Forum: USA
Jun 24th 2019, 4:22 am
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

MMcD, thanks for saying nice things about my character, you lifted my spirits. My ex is running around with a megaphone telling anyone who'll listen what an abusive, manipulative nightmare I am. Not...
Forum: USA
Jun 23rd 2019, 9:54 pm
Replies: 172
Views: 44,331
Posted By G00dByeGirl

Re: Divorce and UK pre-marriage assets... Help!

As much as I would love to run away, I'm going down the route petitefrancaise is suggesting. I paid off all his debt ($you don't want to know), provided the down payment on our house, and contributed...
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