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DXBtoDOH Mar 17th 2016 6:59 am

Your ideal set up
 
Having spent several glorious weeks in New Zealand my first impression upon returning to the sand pit is what the ***** am I doing wasting my time here?

I now spend most of my time deep in fantasies of living in New Zealand. Own a vineyard near Queenstown and spend the weekends trekking and drinking good coffee. A bit far from the UK but bugger that. I'd move the family over.

It does niggle at me that NZ might eventually be a bit too quiet for me but let's not ruin a good fantasy right now.

What about you? If employment/money were no objection, where would you set yourself up, and what would you be doing? Owning a posh B&B in an ancient rial in Marrakech? Living the high life in NYC? Working as a banker in Hong Kong and nights with Filipino girls in Wan Chai bars? Or even a semi in suburban England with the family close by and rainy barbecues?

Millhouse Mar 17th 2016 7:45 am

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by DXBtoDOH (Post 11897881)
Having spent several glorious weeks in New Zealand my first impression upon returning to the sand pit is what the ***** am I doing wasting my time here?

I now spend most of my time deep in fantasies of living in New Zealand. Own a vineyard near Queenstown and spend the weekends trekking and drinking good coffee. A bit far from the UK but bugger that. I'd move the family over.

It does niggle at me that NZ might eventually be a bit too quiet for me but let's not ruin a good fantasy right now.

What about you? If employment/money were no objection, where would you set yourself up, and what would you be doing? Owning a posh B&B in an ancient rial in Marrakech? Living the high life in NYC? Working as a banker in Hong Kong and nights with Filipino girls in Wan Chai bars? Or even a semi in suburban England with the family close by and rainy barbecues?

Don't think location really bothers me. As long as the prevailing culture is friendly and non-aggressive (which sadly rules out most of the UK).

Somewhere that is generally always warm as I hate winter is what I need. Ideally, I think Southern Europe or maybe California. I like the emerging markets but they are all ****ed up in one way or another.

Love my job right now so more of the same. Although I do not intend to do it for more than 10 years - planning a career change when I'm late 40s.

scrubbedexpat141 Mar 17th 2016 8:10 am

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Honestly don't know.

I think Southern Europe but then I think i'd be frustrated with such a meandering pace of life.

I think somewhere in the States would suit me. Maybe connected to a big city (NYC for example) but outside in suburbia surrounded by golf courses.

I just don't know. My dream (when younger) was to work hard, save up, buy a bar on a beach somewhere, chill the **** out. Live a nice life. It was based on this incredibly cool French couple who did exactly that in Martinique, beach bar (and a nice restaurant in the town). They made good money and chilled in the CAribbean. What's not to ****ing love?

mikewot Mar 17th 2016 12:48 pm

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Originally Posted by DXBtoDOH (Post 11897881)
even a semi in suburban England with the family close by and rainy barbecues?

I will be living that dream from the 7th of April when I leave Dubai for retirement :lol: It will be hasta la vista baby from me :p

Inselaffen Mar 17th 2016 12:53 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 
Also tempted by NZ but too far from my parents so that is not an option that will be available for many years I hope. Moving back to southern France would also be an option

littlejimmy Mar 17th 2016 2:16 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 
Work for another 10 years, earn enough to buy a house in a beautiful, remote location (Scottish Highlands/NZ/Canada), take up photography full time. Sorted.:thumbup:

nonthaburi Mar 17th 2016 3:10 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 
Growing vegetables and looking after fruit trees at our house in NE Thailand.

It's very satisfying watching things grow.

Growing veg in Saudi too right now.

Irishbeekeeper Mar 17th 2016 3:12 pm

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I want to own a huge farm. Like acres and acres all around me. Throw in a few crops / fruit gardens / fish farms etc to generate enough income to get the necessities sorted you know. I wouldnt mind living in Canada, like right out in the boonies where it snows all the time, or in the Australian outback. I already own a large piece of land in Pakistan, where we have a similar setup but I dont think I want to live there anymore. Get up at your own time (let the slaves get up before dawn!), get the kids and grandkids sorted (I dont have grandkids yet but I want atleast a dozen of them, so large house is very important, obviously they all will live with me, freedom be damned! :D
nice big open air wooden table where atleast one meal a day is a must for everyone and then maybe they find me a spot under a tree closeby once I kick the bucket
it doesnt cost anything to dream right?

Irishbeekeeper Mar 17th 2016 3:13 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by nonthaburi (Post 11898296)

It's very satisfying watching things grow.

THAT! Very few people get it when I try and explain that

nonthaburi Mar 17th 2016 6:35 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by Irishbeekeeper (Post 11898306)
THAT! Very few people get it when I try and explain that

Totally get it, we've got sweetcorn, tomatoes, cucumber, morning glory, lemongrass, watermelon, pumpkin, basil, and mint going right now.
Even more satisfying when you're in the middle of a big lump of sand.

nonthaburi Mar 17th 2016 8:18 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by Irishbeekeeper (Post 11898301)
I want to own a huge farm. Like acres and acres all around me. Throw in a few crops / fruit gardens / fish farms etc to generate enough income to get the necessities sorted you know. I wouldnt mind living in Canada, like right out in the boonies where it snows all the time, or in the Australian outback. I already own a large piece of land in Pakistan, where we have a similar setup but I dont think I want to live there anymore. Get up at your own time (let the slaves get up before dawn!), get the kids and grandkids sorted (I dont have grandkids yet but I want atleast a dozen of them, so large house is very important, obviously they all will live with me, freedom be damned! :D
nice big open air wooden table where atleast one meal a day is a must for everyone and then maybe they find me a spot under a tree closeby once I kick the bucket
it doesnt cost anything to dream right?

http://britishexpats.com/forum/newre...ply&p=11898301
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Ali84 Mar 17th 2016 8:52 pm

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Im in my early thirties so at least another 20-30 years of work ahead of me . but long term plan sell my flat in central London and pool it with the money i have saved here and buy a place with some land and a pool in southern California ideally in or around San Diego and live off my investments as long as the global markets dont go into melt down again :fingerscrossed:

Boomhauer Mar 17th 2016 10:41 pm

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I would own a large home in superb location (views) on the West coast (US).

The home wouldn't have many bedrooms or large living area, the large size would be accomadate equipment (woodworking/metalworking) , cars/trucks , a forklift and loading dock.

A large saltwater swimming pool.

Gordon Barlow Mar 18th 2016 2:55 am

Re: Your ideal set up
 
I can tell you all, that many of the Caribbean islands are great places for expats to work. Jobs aren't all that hard to get, if you're qualified in something useful, and the wages are tax-free in some places. My wife and I came here 38 years ago with our two-year-old son, intending to stay the customary three years before moving on. (We had worked in Canada, Bahamas, and a South Pacific island before.) It was just too good to leave - not least because it was such a wonderful place to bring up an outdoors-loving child.

Bahtatboy Mar 18th 2016 3:33 pm

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Down-size to a comfortable, interesting property in a certain haven in God's Own Country. Spend half the year there, and the other half travelling, holidaying mainly in Europe, and Japan for New Year, spring and autumn. Golf, Norton Dominator, photography (including digitizing several thousand photos and slides), reading, weight trainging and erging, eating and drinking. I think that covers most bases...

iggle Mar 19th 2016 5:42 am

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by nonthaburi (Post 11898296)
Growing vegetables and looking after fruit trees at our house in NE Thailand.

It's very satisfying watching things grow.

Growing veg in Saudi too right now.

I have an onion in my fridge that has sprouted 10 inches

jam25mack Mar 20th 2016 4:58 am

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Lived in the mountains in Colorado for 6 months after Uni. Was excellent. Must been even better now certain things have been legalised.

Would move back in an instant. A nice big house with awesome views over the mountains, close proximity to a ski resort, a big fire pit outside so I could chill at night having a beer and a smoke while looking at the massive starry skies.

The house must have a big drive and a huge garage so I can play with 4x4's, motorbikes, atv's etc.

A nice lake nearby so I can wake board in the summer.

Rubydo Mar 20th 2016 5:54 am

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by jam25mack (Post 11900616)
Lived in the mountains in Colorado for 6 months after Uni. Was excellent. Must been even better now certain things have been legalised.

Would move back in an instant. A nice big house with awesome views over the mountains, close proximity to a ski resort, a big fire pit outside so I could chill at night having a beer and a smoke while looking at the massive starry skies.

The house must have a big drive and a huge garage so I can play with 4x4's, motorbikes, atv's etc.

A nice lake nearby so I can wake board in the summer.

I think I'd love somewhere in the ski resorts of France for that reason too, overlooking mountains, being wrapped up warm around a fire pit with a hot cider. Access to ski slopes when needed. Lovely little village with great nightlife too. Arghhhhh now I want to go skiing again!

Meow Mar 20th 2016 11:10 am

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Much as I'd love to live in the South of France I don't fancy their taxes so my shortlist is currently Cyprus or Malaysia. I want a smallholding and to have time to write.

jam25mack Mar 20th 2016 11:15 am

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by Rubydo (Post 11900623)
I think I'd love somewhere in the ski resorts of France for that reason too, overlooking mountains, being wrapped up warm around a fire pit with a hot cider. Access to ski slopes when needed. Lovely little village with great nightlife too. Arghhhhh now I want to go skiing again!

I've been to many of the resorts in Europe and as good as they are they aren't even in the same league as the Yankie ones.

The only thing they do win in is the Apres Ski but I'm not sure my liver could handle living somewhere where every night is a party anymore.

Millhouse Mar 20th 2016 11:19 am

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by Meow (Post 11900760)
Much as I'd love to live in the South of France I don't fancy their taxes so my shortlist is currently Cyprus or Malaysia. I want a smallholding and to have time to write.

Cyprus is a good shout. I've also got that on my list.

Rubydo Mar 20th 2016 11:25 am

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by jam25mack (Post 11900766)
I've been to many of the resorts in Europe and as good as they are they aren't even in the same league as the Yankie ones.

The only thing they do win in is the Apres Ski but I'm not sure my liver could handle living somewhere where every night is a party anymore.

I just love the food and atmosphere in French ski villages . I went to New Hampshire in the U.S. But wasn't struck on it

DXBtoDOH Mar 20th 2016 12:18 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 
The board liberal complaining about taxes in a quasi-socialist country? :sneaky:


Originally Posted by Meow (Post 11900760)
Much as I'd love to live in the South of France I don't fancy their taxes so my shortlist is currently Cyprus or Malaysia. I want a smallholding and to have time to write.


iggle Mar 20th 2016 1:12 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 
My ideal set up, me and Meow in a room....

Make love not war.

NewCaledonia Mar 20th 2016 1:24 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 
Paris in spring/summer + Miami/South Florida in fall/winter. Ying and yang. Something like this:


scrubbedexpat141 Mar 20th 2016 1:26 pm

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I don't care where I end up as long as it's with the mrs and some golf courses. :thumbup:

Rubydo Mar 20th 2016 1:55 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by iggle (Post 11900845)
My ideal set up, me and Meow in a room....

Make love not war.

Now I'm upset n jealous Iggle, what's happened to our Netflix n chill? :rofl:

Rubydo Mar 20th 2016 1:55 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by Scamp (Post 11900856)
I don't care where I end up as long as it's with the mrs and some golf courses. :thumbup:

Awwwww how sweet

shiva Mar 21st 2016 5:19 am

Re: Your ideal set up
 
obviously since im still here this is very much still a plan thats in process but my ideal is home in the Uk for short breaks in summer and around christmas but the rest of the time no fixed abode suits me.

Id love to spend a few months a year in many different places so not quite resident and not quite tourist. the list of places id like to do this is long enough that i could spend a good few years before getting bored and looking for other options.

just need a massive lump sum or income separated from geography and or and my direct time input first

Meow Mar 21st 2016 12:59 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by DXBtoDOH (Post 11900811)
The board liberal complaining about taxes in a quasi-socialist country? :sneaky:

Let me clarify, the very high level of their taxes. I have zero problem with paying taxes but move to France as a foreigner and buy property and you'll end up paying huge amounts on everything.

Note it says Bored liberal with a small l. It's not a declaration of political allegiance although compared to many around here I'm very much to the left,

Meow Mar 21st 2016 1:00 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by Rubydo (Post 11900775)
I went to New Hampshire in the U.S. But wasn't struck on it

Something about it being full of Americans? ;)

Meow Mar 21st 2016 1:03 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by Millhouse (Post 11900771)
Cyprus is a good shout. I've also got that on my list.

Oh. My. God.

We might end up as neighbours!

:scaredhair:

Rubydo Mar 21st 2016 1:55 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 

Originally Posted by Meow (Post 11901533)
Something about it being full of Americans? ;)

Haha nope just the skiing wasn't as good

DXBtoDOH Mar 22nd 2016 12:40 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 
NH isn't the place for skiing. It's the closest decent skiing area to New York / East Coast but the real powder is out in Colorado, Wyoming, Idaho and Utah.


Originally Posted by Rubydo (Post 11901577)
Haha nope just the skiing wasn't as good

Great place in the summer, however.

Rubydo Mar 22nd 2016 1:37 pm

Re: Your ideal set up
 
[QUOTE=DXBtoDOH;11902536]NH isn't the place for skiing. It's the closest decent skiing area to New York / East Coast but the real powder is out in Colorado, Wyoming, Idaho and Utah.



Great place in the summer, however.

Didn't have the choice I'm afraid. Loved val thorens and chamonix tho


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