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Old May 2nd 2009, 2:45 pm
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Listen up guys:


Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women like me find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.

You "Nice Guys" go overboard. You bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date. You try to buy my affections with presents and fancy things. You think you know about romance, but your timing is all wrong, and you either come on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, you are so shy and unassertive, that you hang around me pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, you will get the courage up to ask me out for a "date".

You are so desperate to please that you put aside your own needs, and place me on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating me, you worship me. I am only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that I tend to fall off of them
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Listen up guys:


Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women like me find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.

You "Nice Guys" go overboard. You bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date. You try to buy my affections with presents and fancy things. You think you know about romance, but your timing is all wrong, and you either come on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, you are so shy and unassertive, that you hang around me pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, you will get the courage up to ask me out for a "date".

You are so desperate to please that you put aside your own needs, and place me on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating me, you worship me. I am only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that I tend to fall off of them
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Listen up guys:


Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women like me find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.

You "Nice Guys" go overboard. You bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date. You try to buy my affections with presents and fancy things. You think you know about romance, but your timing is all wrong, and you either come on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, you are so shy and unassertive, that you hang around me pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, you will get the courage up to ask me out for a "date".

You are so desperate to please that you put aside your own needs, and place me on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating me, you worship me. I am only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that I tend to fall off of them
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Originally Posted by Mary Smith View Post
Listen up guys:


Self-confident, caring, decent-hearted women like me find "Nice Guys" to be too clingy, self-abasing, and insecure.

You "Nice Guys" go overboard. You bring roses to a "lets get together for coffee" date. You try to buy my affections with presents and fancy things. You think you know about romance, but your timing is all wrong, and you either come on too strong, too hard and too fast, OR, you are so shy and unassertive, that you hang around me pretending to be "friends", in the hope that somehow, someway, you will get the courage up to ask me out for a "date".

You are so desperate to please that you put aside your own needs, and place me on a pedestal. Instead of appreciating me, you worship me. I am only human, and pedestals are narrow, confining places to be -- not to mention the fact that I tend to fall off of them
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Old May 2nd 2009, 3:09 pm
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ok...so that's more of the same really...
maybe you can do a thread on something a bit more positive, just to show another side of your personality...
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Originally Posted by MataHari View Post
ok...so that's more of the same really...
maybe you can do a thread on something a bit more positive, just to show another side of your personality...
that presupposes that there is one...

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that presupposes that there is one...

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Originally Posted by MataHari View Post
ok...so that's more of the same really...
maybe you can do a thread on something a bit more positive, just to show another side of your personality...
In that case, she will show us her real personality, which is that of a nice girl, and that, in her own words, is a "LOSER"...
It's a catch 22 fix she's in now...
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Originally Posted by MataHari View Post
everybody deserves a chance...well, almost everybody
you're just too nice, that's your problem...

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you're just too nice, that's your problem...

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hahaha...that's a first, let me karma you wub wub wub...
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hahaha...that's a first, let me karma you wub wub wub...
ahhh...wub wub to you too, doll...

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hahaha...that's a first, let me karma you wub wub wub...
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ahhh...wub wub to you too, doll...

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