Who is at a bigger fault???
Jun 24th 2009, 4:39 pm
#61
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Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
as was said, sauce for the goose / gander. What about the OH ? (I presume there is one, since there is a 7-yr old son...or am I mistaken?)
Jun 24th 2009, 4:44 pm
#66
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Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
MM, xx
Jun 24th 2009, 4:45 pm
#68
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Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
Yes I gathered that...no problem..since they are both cheaters ? Unless, the mistress is a single girl being led up the garden path...
Jun 25th 2009, 9:06 am
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Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
I was in a relationship once where there was a third party involved (I'm not proud of this fact) and my mobile was inspected, to discover a message from said third party.
Needless to say, the relationship came to an abrupt end, and whilst as far as I'm concerned I was definitely at bigger fault for cheating, there must have also been trust issues on her part to inspect my phone in the first place?
I'm now happily married with two frustrating but beautiful kids, so things have worked out, at least for me anyway, and I hope they have for her too.
There - now that's off my chest I can move on with my life.
Needless to say, the relationship came to an abrupt end, and whilst as far as I'm concerned I was definitely at bigger fault for cheating, there must have also been trust issues on her part to inspect my phone in the first place?
I'm now happily married with two frustrating but beautiful kids, so things have worked out, at least for me anyway, and I hope they have for her too.
There - now that's off my chest I can move on with my life.
Jun 25th 2009, 9:14 am
#73
hmmmm...nice
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Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
I was in a relationship once where there was a third party involved (I'm not proud of this fact) and my mobile was inspected, to discover a message from said third party.
Needless to say, the relationship came to an abrupt end, and whilst as far as I'm concerned I was definitely at bigger fault for cheating, there must have also been trust issues on her part to inspect my phone in the first place?
I'm now happily married with two frustrating but beautiful kids, so things have worked out, at least for me anyway, and I hope they have for her too.
There - now that's off my chest I can move on with my life.
Needless to say, the relationship came to an abrupt end, and whilst as far as I'm concerned I was definitely at bigger fault for cheating, there must have also been trust issues on her part to inspect my phone in the first place?
I'm now happily married with two frustrating but beautiful kids, so things have worked out, at least for me anyway, and I hope they have for her too.
There - now that's off my chest I can move on with my life.
maybe you thought you were hiding it real well, but most women have a built in rader for this type of thing...
Jun 25th 2009, 9:19 am
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Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
As mentioned, I'm not at all proud of what I did and am now in a happy, monogamous relationship. At least I think so.......
Jun 25th 2009, 9:36 am
#75
hmmmm...nice
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Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
I think you're probably right - from a cowardly point-of-view, I was relieved in a way that she discovered it because I was looking for a way out anyway, maybe subconsciously I wasn't being too discreet.
As mentioned, I'm not at all proud of what I did and am now in a happy, monogamous relationship. At least I think so.......
As mentioned, I'm not at all proud of what I did and am now in a happy, monogamous relationship. At least I think so.......