Who is at a bigger fault???
 

The person who is on a tryst, for lack of a better word,
or
the spouse, for lack of a better word, who finds out about the tryst while reading/hearing communication between the other half and a third person???

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

OK I'll bite since lots are viewing and not commenting....

Is there a better word for tryst?

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

Affair...

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

Is there a better word for spouse?

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

Husband, or wife...

You want a better word for communication???

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

And you'll be askin this on behalf of a friend?

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

No...This is Confucius asking...

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

'Tis a cattle market in central Scotland...also means sorrowful...

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

I thought tryst meant affair...

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

Well OK...I was just O/T for a sec. In England, as well as Scotland, the usual meaning is an affair.

I just remember from history that the Highlanders always came down with their cattle to the trysts.

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

Well...Now we know where this is going...

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

..back on topic, of course ! ;)

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

Please...

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

OK the one actually messing around on the tryst has more to answer for than the OH who is basically eavesdropping...less of a 'crime' n'est-ce pas ?

Re: Who is at a bigger fault???
 

Well is that 'you' the Lebanese chap or your assumed persona- the Chinois?
cos if it's the real you, I remember you celebrate 'Christmas' and I presume therefore you have a rather orthodox marriage contract..i.e that you stay true to each other.