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What are you happy to do for you partner?

Old Jun 2nd 2009, 4:37 pm
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So, what do you do for your partner?

I do not work, so I look after the house(with some outside help), take care of the kid, school issues etc.

I cook, shop,organize social life/events,and yes, I do have a drink ready upon the return of my husband from work........I also listen, give input, jugdement etc.

I get...comfort, kindness, attention, some luxury,security...

Most important for me...mutual respect and love.



Oh....and he can deal with my PMS, general bitchiness (at times ) and love for shoes....



What do you expect /wish for?
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Old Jun 2nd 2009, 4:42 pm
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She cleans my bike in preperation for my friday ride.

For that reason alone, we will grow old together.
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She cleans my bike in preperation for my friday ride.

For that reason alone, we will grow old together.
So would I if I were her.......you outta the way for 4 hours or so must be like Nirvana for her .
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We're simple. Full sexual satisfaction no arguments. Affection. Company. Money. Thats what I give her and vice versa.

Bit like prostitution only with feelings involved.

Im quite young so you old folks probably have the opposite view on relationships. IE: sex? ha! Affection? Whats that? Company? Dont want it from him/her. Money ... well... that one never changes.
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Mutual love and respect is all very well, but looking after the house (with a little help) and organising my social life sounds like the job for me
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I have convinced my wife that oral sex is good for improving my V02max level..

And I told her that having rampant sex every night will keep burning the calories and ensure she continues to look fab....
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And I told her that having rampant sex every night will keep burning the calories and ensure she continues to look fab....
ha ha , its true though!

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And I told her that having rampant sex every night will keep burning the calories and ensure she continues to look fab....


Good one.

Last time I convinced my girl friend to do that she tried to burn the fat of her love handles.
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I like driving her to the airport
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The Japanese have a saying ('er in doors being of that persuasion):

The ideal husband is healthy, wealthy and absent.

2 outta 3 ain't bad.
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Simple for me- honest, loyal, loving and affectionate and someone that makes me laugh every day and horny!
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I just want someone to pick up the socks and pants off the bedroom floor.
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Being in tune with her feelings so that I can give the sort of attention she needs. The only thing that is constant is change, so both recognising and responding to changes allows me to be what she needs. But on the other hand retaining my own identity and strength to give her the sense of permanence and security she requires.

And in return?

Understanding, warmth, great cooking, ego-bolsters, love and reckless sexual abandon.

Works for us.
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Originally Posted by Bahtatboy View Post
Being in tune with her feelings so that I can give the sort of attention she needs. The only thing that is constant is change, so both recognising and responding to changes allows me to be what she needs. But on the other hand retaining my own identity and strength to give her the sense of permanence and security she requires.

And in return?

Understanding, warmth, great cooking, ego-bolsters, love and reckless sexual abandon.

Works for us.
wow, that is deep. In our relationship the rules are simple. She makes the teas in the morning, I do 'em at night.
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Originally Posted by Alexa View Post
So, what do you do for your partner?

I do not work, so I look after the house(with some outside help), take care of the kid, school issues etc.

I cook, shop,organize social life/events,and yes, I do have a drink ready upon the return of my husband from work........I also listen, give input, jugdement etc.

I get...comfort, kindness, attention, some luxury,security...

Most important for me...mutual respect and love.



Oh....and he can deal with my PMS, general bitchiness (at times ) and love for shoes....



What do you expect /wish for?
I do whatever he wants, whenever he wants..........
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