Sri Lanka
#61
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Re: Sri Lanka
Alright dickheads.
I'm only 29. She's 30. We are both kids from broken homes. Only in the last year or so are we both in the place that 7 years I are we just totally comfortable that it's us forever. It's been us forever since day one but maybe history makes it makes you think harder. She's the one. No doubt. She's amazing. She's wonderful and makes me the happiest guy ever. I want her to be mrs Scamp forever. I'm saving for the ring so it'll happen. But when I and we want it to.
I'm only 29. She's 30. We are both kids from broken homes. Only in the last year or so are we both in the place that 7 years I are we just totally comfortable that it's us forever. It's been us forever since day one but maybe history makes it makes you think harder. She's the one. No doubt. She's amazing. She's wonderful and makes me the happiest guy ever. I want her to be mrs Scamp forever. I'm saving for the ring so it'll happen. But when I and we want it to.
#63
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Alright dickheads.
I'm only 29. She's 30. We are both kids from broken homes. Only in the last year or so are we both in the place that 7 years I are we just totally comfortable that it's us forever. It's been us forever since day one but maybe history makes it makes you think harder. She's the one. No doubt. She's amazing. She's wonderful and makes me the happiest guy ever. I want her to be mrs Scamp forever. I'm saving for the ring so it'll happen. But when I and we want it to.
I'm only 29. She's 30. We are both kids from broken homes. Only in the last year or so are we both in the place that 7 years I are we just totally comfortable that it's us forever. It's been us forever since day one but maybe history makes it makes you think harder. She's the one. No doubt. She's amazing. She's wonderful and makes me the happiest guy ever. I want her to be mrs Scamp forever. I'm saving for the ring so it'll happen. But when I and we want it to.
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Alright dickheads.
I'm only 29. She's 30. We are both kids from broken homes. Only in the last year or so are we both in the place that 7 years I are we just totally comfortable that it's us forever. It's been us forever since day one but maybe history makes it makes you think harder. She's the one. No doubt. She's amazing. She's wonderful and makes me the happiest guy ever. I want her to be mrs Scamp forever. I'm saving for the ring so it'll happen. But when I and we want it to.
I'm only 29. She's 30. We are both kids from broken homes. Only in the last year or so are we both in the place that 7 years I are we just totally comfortable that it's us forever. It's been us forever since day one but maybe history makes it makes you think harder. She's the one. No doubt. She's amazing. She's wonderful and makes me the happiest guy ever. I want her to be mrs Scamp forever. I'm saving for the ring so it'll happen. But when I and we want it to.
So have a lovely trip, no pressure whatsoever!
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It's a human thing.
You wouldn't understand.
You wouldn't understand.
I never understood why people pressure other people into getting married: it's a totally personal decision, important to some and meaningless to others, appropriate for some and wildly unsuitable for others. I guess it's about conforming but I still don't get why people, even close friends and family, feel so free to have their public say on such a private matter.
So have a lovely trip, no pressure whatsoever!
So have a lovely trip, no pressure whatsoever!
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There's a fine line between friendly disagreement and civil rationality and sneering patronisation and contempt for the opposite side and unfortunately you quite often forget it
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I never understood why people pressure other people into getting married: it's a totally personal decision, important to some and meaningless to others, appropriate for some and wildly unsuitable for others. I guess it's about conforming but I still don't get why people, even close friends and family, feel so free to have their public say on such a private matter.
So have a lovely trip, no pressure whatsoever!
So have a lovely trip, no pressure whatsoever!
Our backgrounds make it an important step for us and she wants to look forward to it and have it ahead. She wants to stay young and free spirited I think....getting married will tick such a large rite of passage that I think she'll feel she's 'getting old' etc.
It is what it is, it'll happen when it does and yes, you can buy a new hat.
****ing hammered.
#74
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Mate. I didn't get wed until I was 40 odd.
You both have time enough although before I forget who I am and need a zimmer would be a bit good.
You both have time enough although before I forget who I am and need a zimmer would be a bit good.
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It is what it is, we're all different, taking the positive, at least it's a different question to 'when are you having kids' or 'when are you moving home'....because it's boring replying with - 'after we're married' and 'when you idiots have stopped trying to ruin the country'.