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Sammy1 Jan 3rd 2009 7:38 pm

Socialising ??
 
Hi everyone!

Just wanted to know what the best way is to go about meeting people. My colleagues have not been the most welcoming and i am feeling a bit down - i am normally a very sociable person but I am finding Dubai very hard to settle in..everyone seems to just want to do their own thing and not help the newbie in town...Maybe i've just come across the wrong and pretentious type - I hope I have just had bad experiences to date!

Thanks! :)

al dente Jan 4th 2009 3:18 am

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Originally Posted by Sammy1 (Post 7123161)
Hi everyone!

Just wanted to know what the best way is to go about meeting people. My colleagues have not been the most welcoming and i am feeling a bit down - i am normally a very sociable person but I am finding Dubai very hard to settle in..everyone seems to just want to do their own thing and not help the newbie in town...Maybe i've just come across the wrong and pretentious type - I hope I have just had bad experiences to date!

Thanks! :)

Soz but i'm in AD, so can't really help but can offer some tips

Do you play sport? There will always be a tennis night/ football night that you can go to. If not, there are gym glasses with yoga etc . Even if you don't meet someone straight off bat, at least you're doing something.

Don't know if you're male or female but you seem to be a ladee (hope i'm not wrong!). See if there are any social nights out on the EW website.


Good luck, it all takes time and you meet a lot of wierdos. It reminds me of uni.

MrsHaps Jan 4th 2009 3:40 am

Re: Socialising ??
 

Originally Posted by Sammy1 (Post 7123161)
Hi everyone!

Just wanted to know what the best way is to go about meeting people. My colleagues have not been the most welcoming and i am feeling a bit down - i am normally a very sociable person but I am finding Dubai very hard to settle in..everyone seems to just want to do their own thing and not help the newbie in town...Maybe i've just come across the wrong and pretentious type - I hope I have just had bad experiences to date!

Thanks! :)

I def think you have come across the wrong type of person hun! Ive met lots of friendly people in Dubai - granted i did know a few so i managed to extend my friends quite quickly as well as meeting ladies from my husbands work.

The quiz is on tomo, as i understand it MM is always looking for new recruits no matter how crap you are... she is taking me :)

they get there for 7.45pm - Aussie Legends, cant for the life of me remember which hotel it is in!

Will be my first time of eventually meeting some of these lovely people! Come along :)

commander Jan 4th 2009 4:36 am

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as soon as i read the OP i thought

'wonder how long the Quiz night recruiting team will take to respond':D:D

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 4:39 am

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Originally Posted by commander (Post 7124304)
as soon as i read the OP i thought

'wonder how long the Quiz night recruiting team will take to respond':D:D

gets boring doesn't it...

Sammy1 Jan 4th 2009 9:10 am

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Originally Posted by MrsHaps (Post 7124225)
I def think you have come across the wrong type of person hun! Ive met lots of friendly people in Dubai - granted i did know a few so i managed to extend my friends quite quickly as well as meeting ladies from my husbands work.

The quiz is on tomo, as i understand it MM is always looking for new recruits no matter how crap you are... she is taking me :)

they get there for 7.45pm - Aussie Legends, cant for the life of me remember which hotel it is in!

Will be my first time of eventually meeting some of these lovely people! Come along :)

Hi!!

Thanks again for the invite - I will come along although be warned I am rubbish with quiz nights etc but it would be good to see some friendly faces!

Thanks and see you soon!

Sammy1 Jan 4th 2009 9:14 am

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Originally Posted by al dente (Post 7124188)


Good luck, it all takes time and you meet a lot of wierdos. It reminds me of uni.

Thanks. Yes I am female, I've been looking into horse riding as I hear that is pretty amazing out here.

As for the comment on uni - I know exactly what you mean! I thought the same thing, but that is because I seem to have met all the weirdos in Dubai so far and I'm sure that it's just been a very bad experience!

Thanks again - How is AD by the way for socialising etc? :)

Tiger989 Jan 4th 2009 9:43 am

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Originally Posted by Sammy1 (Post 7124660)
How is AD by the way for socialising etc? :)

Terrible...

I've been raised in Abu Dhabi so my firend circle revolve around the people I grown up with, tried to expand it with new expats, unfortunatly only worked out with few...

TGFKASE Jan 4th 2009 9:50 am

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Originally Posted by MrsHaps (Post 7124225)
I def think you have come across the wrong type of person hun! Ive met lots of friendly people in Dubai - granted i did know a few so i managed to extend my friends quite quickly as well as meeting ladies from my husbands work.

The quiz is on tomo, as i understand it MM is always looking for new recruits no matter how crap you are... she is taking me :)

they get there for 7.45pm - Aussie Legends, cant for the life of me remember which hotel it is in!

Will be my first time of eventually meeting some of these lovely people! Come along :)

Just for clarification, Aussie Legends is on the ground floor (well, up a few steps!!) of Rydges Plaza, on the Satwa R/A...

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 9:54 am

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Originally Posted by MrsHaps (Post 7124225)
I def think you have come across the wrong type of person hun! Ive met lots of friendly people in Dubai - granted i did know a few so i managed to extend my friends quite quickly as well as meeting ladies from my husbands work.

The quiz is on tomo, as i understand it MM is always looking for new recruits no matter how crap you are... she is taking me :)

they get there for 7.45pm - Aussie Legends, cant for the life of me remember which hotel it is in!

Will be my first time of eventually meeting some of these lovely people! Come along :)


Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7124734)
Just for clarification, Aussie Legends is on the ground floor (well, up a few steps!!) of Rydges Plaza, on the Satwa R/A...


cool...I can retire now...

MrsHaps Jan 4th 2009 9:55 am

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Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7124734)
Just for clarification, Aussie Legends is on the ground floor (well, up a few steps!!) of Rydges Plaza, on the Satwa R/A...

AHHHHHHHH thats the place! Thanks!

TGFKASE Jan 4th 2009 9:56 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7124742)
cool...I can retire now...

Not at all, just making sure the fresh meat had no excuses for standing you lot up....

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 9:57 am

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Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7124749)
Not at all, just making sure the fresh meat had no excuses for standing you lot up....

bugger...

TGFKASE Jan 4th 2009 10:00 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7124755)
bugger...

Such sour language from such a sweet mouth.....

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 10:02 am

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Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7124761)
Such sour language from such a sweet mouth.....

I do miss that tongue sticking out smilie at the end of that sentence...

lobby lou Jan 4th 2009 10:05 am

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Originally Posted by Tiger989 (Post 7124718)
Terrible...

I've been raised in Abu Dhabi so my firend circle revolve around the people I grown up with, tried to expand it with new expats, unfortunatly only worked out with few...

u too have not met the right people ...we are a great bunch here xxx:thumbup:

TGFKASE Jan 4th 2009 10:05 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7124768)
I do miss that tongue sticking out smilie at the end of that sentence...

Now, now, dont try and trick me into breaking my ny resolution....

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 10:07 am

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Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7124774)
Now, now, dont try and trick me into breaking my ny resolution....

just made that my ny resolution...

TGFKASE Jan 4th 2009 10:09 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7124777)
just made that my ny resolution...

You cant do that, its too late to make up a ny resolution, surely.....

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 10:10 am

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Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7124778)
You cant do that, its too late to make up a ny resolution, surely.....

I can do whatever I want...

TGFKASE Jan 4th 2009 10:13 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7124781)
I can do whatever I want...

But that kinda thing leads to anarchy. Next, we'll have people creating new NY resolutions in October, singing 'Auld Lang Syne' during their summer hols and, heaven forfend, cancelling NYE completely... (oh, wait, that last one already happened....)

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 10:16 am

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Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7124792)
But that kinda thing leads to anarchy. Next, we'll have people creating new NY resolutions in October, singing 'Auld Lang Syne' during their summer hols and, heaven forfend, cancelling NYE completely... (oh, wait, that last one already happened....)

ok ok...you are right, I give up...my heart wasn't in it anyway...

TGFKASE Jan 4th 2009 10:19 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7124797)
ok ok...you are right, I give up...my heart wasn't in it anyway...

No will power, thats most peoples problems with NY resolutions.....

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 10:21 am

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Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7124809)
No will power, thats most peoples problems with NY resolutions.....

that's why I never make them...no will power that's me...

TGFKASE Jan 4th 2009 10:22 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7124812)
that's why I never make them...no will power that's me...

I wasnt aiming at you there, MH, just making a general statement of fact.... Move along, nothing to see here....

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 10:27 am

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Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7124814)
I wasnt aiming at you there, MH, just making a general statement of fact.... Move along, nothing to see here....

no worries...I just added my personal touch...

TGFKASE Jan 4th 2009 10:30 am

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7124833)
no worries...I just added my personal touch...

A bit too 'bachelor' a statement, was it? Required a womans touch???

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 10:34 am

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Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7124841)
A bit too 'bachelor' a statement, was it? Required a womans touch???

nothing wrong with a womans touch every so often...

lionheart Jan 4th 2009 10:38 am

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Originally Posted by lobby lou (Post 7124771)
u too have not met the right people ...we are a great bunch here xxx:thumbup:

Yeh...any time you fancy a cosy threesome with me and Shadya, just let us know;)

MataHari Jan 4th 2009 10:40 am

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Originally Posted by lionheart (Post 7124864)
Yeh...any time you fancy a cosy threesome with me and Shadya, just let us know;)

yeah lobby...just a little tip...don't charge any money cause then they won't turn up...

aadityas Jan 4th 2009 11:54 am

Re: Socialising ??
 

Originally Posted by al dente (Post 7124188)
Soz but i'm in AD, so can't really help but can offer some tips

Do you play sport? There will always be a tennis night/ football night that you can go to. If not, there are gym glasses with yoga etc . Even if you don't meet someone straight off bat, at least you're doing something.

Don't know if you're male or female but you seem to be a ladee (hope i'm not wrong!). See if there are any social nights out on the EW website.


Good luck, it all takes time and you meet a lot of wierdos. It reminds me of uni.

hey where are you in dubai, lets meet up, i am also alone , single guy, aaditya, mail me your contact details at [email protected]

commander Jan 4th 2009 12:56 pm

Re: Socialising ??
 

Originally Posted by lobby lou (Post 7124771)
u too have not met the right people ...we are a great bunch here xxx:thumbup:

ok Lobby, sell yourself and your bunch.....

what do you get up to?

lobby lou Jan 4th 2009 4:24 pm

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7124871)
yeah lobby...just a little tip...don't charge any money cause then they won't turn up...

dont generalize darling .....

lobby lou Jan 4th 2009 4:28 pm

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Originally Posted by commander (Post 7125181)
ok Lobby, sell yourself and your bunch.....

what do you get up to?

why would one need to sell ones self??????
we do most things ....even drink with jocks lol xxxxxxxxx

commander Jan 5th 2009 2:59 am

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Who is 'we'

lobby lou Jan 5th 2009 10:23 am

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myself,dh and friends ............

W10 Jan 5th 2009 11:07 am

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Originally Posted by Sammy1 (Post 7124660)

I thought the same thing, but that is because I seem to have met all the weirdos in Dubai so far and I'm sure that it's just been a very bad experience!

Nah...you've got about 1.5m more weirdos to go

commander Jan 5th 2009 3:55 pm

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You, your husband and friends?

Sounds absolutley marvellous, funny I haven't seen you around.

Where do you go, really I want to come along and join your gang, sounds cool


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