Originally Posted by Alexa (Post 7644738)

wasn't him....was a long time ago when I was Lady Lou.

Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7644720)

She got confused... it is her 2nd language, so a bit of leniency is required...

She meant to say an old fight with a big member... Guilty as charged...;)

Originally Posted by Alexa (Post 7644697)

Ya think?

I am sure it will be much before that...cause little commander will be a shivering wreck.....we Germans do learn from experience and perfect our strategy...:p

Originally Posted by BangleMan (Post 7644760)

does that stragegy include shaving under your arms ?

Originally Posted by Alexa (Post 7644757)

A. second language...yup....but I am equally good at my 3rd and forth...
B. guilty as charged...you wish....I assume...lol

Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7644750)

Aye, I am, always, a gentleman to the lurvly ladies......

Originally Posted by Meow (Post 7644772)

And the not so lurvly ones?

Speaking as a total minger, of course.

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Originally Posted by shiva (Post 7644774)

i will also add that if people think that we are rough in here,they should go into the lounge and post a stupid question, see how long it takes to get flamed in there

Originally Posted by Roadking (Post 7644649)

But weren't we all new when we first started posting? I don't notice any difference in posting style today as to back in September when I started.

Maybe I'm too thick to realise people were being insulting although i do remember MH sticking up for me when Conf was being Conf. :wub:

Originally Posted by Roadking (Post 7644817)

Whoohoo, on my way....

Originally Posted by BangleMan (Post 7644760)

does that stragegy include shaving under your arms ?

Originally Posted by Alexa (Post 7645205)

Why are you interested in my underarms....bit strange, non?

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 7644748)

personally I don't think a forum like this should necessarily be striving to appeal to 'everyone'...especially where the Sandpit is concerned.
just like some like to get their news from the Daily Mail, others like to get it from The Guardian...it's no different for forums...you have a look round, read what is going on, maybe post a bit and then you decide if you hang around.

the regulars on here all used to be newbies at one point, they didn't join en masse as a ready made group...
and some of the newbies display manners that aren't so nice, and yes, they can expect a bit of a rough time, just as you would when you entered an existing group of say collegues or friends in real life...
some people get arsy when their oh so important question isn't answered within 5 mins, without them having done any research on the internet or on BE for instance...

there seems to be a group of people that prefer to lurk, maybe they just enjoy reading but don't actually want to participate...again, the same happens in real life, were there are the vocal ones and the quiet ones.
We've had these discussions many times before, and have tried to get the lurkers to post, just to explain why they prefer lurking, but as true lurkers, they kept quiet...

it is true that when people know in each other in real life, a type of 'banter' can happen that isn't that interesting for outsiders, but that is hard to avoid...again the same as in real life, when you are with a group of people that know each other and that talk about stuff that you were not part of...

Originally Posted by TGFKASE (Post 7645342)

Shit, shes from Alsace-Lorraine...

The use of the French negative 'non' is a give away...

An hirsute quine......