Sleeping with prostitutes rather than having affairs
Apr 20th 2011, 9:20 pm
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Re: Sleeping with prostitutes rather than having affairs
Hmm.
Makes sense.
Look at Dean and Deanetta.
For all the randy older gents there's probably an equal number who find it easier just to quietly wank in the bathroom than put up with the bothersome chore of trying to sleep with their ugly old wives.
Makes sense.
Look at Dean and Deanetta.
For all the randy older gents there's probably an equal number who find it easier just to quietly wank in the bathroom than put up with the bothersome chore of trying to sleep with their ugly old wives.
I think it's an interesting article...I am sure that having sex with their husbands or long term partners is not placed very high on their to do list for a lot of women...they do it to get him of her back, in exchange for whatever chore needs doing, to stop him being grumpy, but not cause they actually are gagging for it themselves. I think the number of sexless marriages or those with very infrequent sex are much higher than people think, there is a lot of pressure on women to be the perfect everything, but I do wonder how many 40+ ones that have kids, work, have a bit of a social life etc are also sex kittens who enjoy and initiate having sex with the frequency their partners would want...I personally assume a lot of them rather watch a film or read a book...
Apr 20th 2011, 11:36 pm
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Re: Sleeping with prostitutes rather than having affairs
This post MUST be withdrawn NOW on the grounds that it is far too accurate for my liking........
Apr 21st 2011, 12:14 am
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Re: Sleeping with prostitutes rather than having affairs
Sleeping with hookers carries a much higher risk of contracting some STD than the average lass, so how could a wife prefer the former over the later.
Apr 21st 2011, 12:19 am
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Re: Sleeping with prostitutes rather than having affairs
I think you'd be safer with the ladies of the night that you would be with the local ladies in the towns surrounding my home (Buckie, MacDuff, Fraserburgh, Peterhead).
Apr 21st 2011, 12:59 am
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Apr 21st 2011, 1:04 am
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Re: Sleeping with prostitutes rather than having affairs
Wish I could oblige. But it won't let me.
Apr 23rd 2011, 5:35 am
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Word on the street is that an increasing number of older people are getting into swinging, and they are subsequently spreading std's at an alarming rate. But hey, as long as they're having fun. I know my folks were still engaging in the physical enjoynment ritual on a regular basis when I moved out from home. lol.
Apr 23rd 2011, 8:58 pm
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Re: Sleeping with prostitutes rather than having affairs
Not that any of that matters. Men and women should be practicing safe sex and testing themselves regularly if they have multiple partners they cannot trust to do the same.
Back to the article - the writer sounds somewhat enlightened and practical.
Men usually cheat for three reasons:
- Temptation: Any half decent man (which usually means he is taken) is a target for unscrupulous women who have few issues wrecking your relationship for her own fun and games.
- Need: He wants something she's not giving. Or she wants something he doesn't want to or cannot give...
- Simply because they can.
I think the biggest problems on the sexual side of relationships is that people don't know what they want, and even when they do know they won't articulate it for fear of judgment. It all boils down to communication and understanding like most things in life.
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Apr 25th 2011, 6:11 pm
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Re: Sleeping with prostitutes rather than having affairs
......... and Andrew Marr makes a late bid for the yellow jersey........
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...s-control.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...s-control.html
Apr 25th 2011, 6:14 pm
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Re: Sleeping with prostitutes rather than having affairs
......... and Andrew Marr makes a late bid for the yellow jersey........
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...s-control.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...s-control.html
Apr 25th 2011, 6:19 pm
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Re: Sleeping with prostitutes rather than having affairs
The Marr superinjunction is actually a really interesting case. Private Eye fought the good fight against it - one reason it was finally revealed.
More here:
http://www.private-eye.co.uk/section...128&issue=1246
