View Poll Results: So should he?
Yes, married and kids will make him a good boy
17
56.67%
Only married, who wants rugrats.
6
20.00%
Only kids, marriage is so last year
1
3.33%
Neither, plenty of fish in the sea
6
20.00%
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Should Scamp get married and have kids?
Dec 1st 2013, 10:47 am
#63
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Re: Should Scamp get married and have kids?
Scamp - delay the inevitable for as long as you can...
Is there a need to get married ?
Is there a need to get married ?
Dec 1st 2013, 10:57 am
#65
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Re: Should Scamp get married and have kids?
Dec 1st 2013, 12:07 pm
#66
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Re: Should Scamp get married and have kids?
But, we would lose quite a lot financially if we got hitched tomorrow.
Plus, there's no need yet. We're still young, what's the hurry?
Dec 1st 2013, 12:09 pm
#67
Bored liberal
Joined: Feb 2007
Location: Over there ----->
Posts: 13,713
Re: Should Scamp get married and have kids?
There is no hurry, provided you are both smart whilst living here. A good, solid relationship is about more than a licence.
Dec 1st 2013, 2:34 pm
#69
womble
Joined: Sep 2005
Posts: 2,675
Re: Should Scamp get married and have kids?
So, no hurry, but life throws curveballs. If you know this is the woman you love, and you want to be with her when you are old, and share your life with her, marry her. Having kids or not, is only a decision the two of you can make, and even then sometimes the choice is taken from you.
Dec 1st 2013, 4:44 pm
#70
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Posts: 3,889
Re: Should Scamp get married and have kids?
We got married at 25 (had been together almost 4 years by then, so both "knew"). Both wanted kids, decided to start trying almost straight away. Took almost 8 years of heartache before we had our first child.
So, no hurry, but life throws curveballs. If you know this is the woman you love, and you want to be with her when you are old, and share your life with her, marry her. Having kids or not, is only a decision the two of you can make, and even then sometimes the choice is taken from you.
So, no hurry, but life throws curveballs. If you know this is the woman you love, and you want to be with her when you are old, and share your life with her, marry her. Having kids or not, is only a decision the two of you can make, and even then sometimes the choice is taken from you.
I now know far more about human reproduction than is normal , and it's quite scary. Perhaps it's the lifestyle we lead, diet or just bad luck, but falling pregnant is not something that should be taken for granted.
And trust me, it's very, very tough when it's not working. Maybe Scamp is a bit young to worry about this just yet, but if we could turn back the clock we'd not have left it so late.
Dec 2nd 2013, 3:21 am
#72
Wannabe Cycling God
Joined: Jul 2009
Location: West Kensington, Dubai
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Dec 2nd 2013, 6:09 am
#74
Nothing doin' here
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Posts: 3,508
Re: Should Scamp get married and have kids?
Not me....
Dec 2nd 2013, 6:10 am
#75
Joined: Feb 2010
Location: Buraydah , Saudi Arabia
Posts: 2,863
Re: Should Scamp get married and have kids?
Been with OH about 8+ years . Two kids 7+6 so we had them quick . Only got married about 4-5 years ago because she wanted everything legal because better for the kids. Not too bothered personally but it only cost a pound so that was good . In KSA now so glad we did it . It does make things easier and there are advantages for me to be married in her country .