Grace O Malley

so she was a bad mother, how? Did she beat her kids, not bathe and feed them, is she a drug user, alcoholic, what constitutes a bad mother, am really interested?

Eva

Please, may I correct you.....fathers don't.

The kids do.imho

Grace O Malley

Amen Eva, its only the kids that suffer when mummy and daddy try and fck each other up for their own satisfaction and victory

Fairydust

So what about the allegations that her husband was having an affair which have apparently been confirmed by one of his own family and a relative of the woman concerned.

MataHari

oh jeez....where to start...
you are very naive BC...

Fairydust

Thats what my friend thought until she tried to leave him

Grace O Malley

Um I think so

Never say never and never think you know someone 100% cos u dont

MataHari

absolutely...in a divorce case the worst comes out...

Eva

Bluecat, that's very subjective and rather judgemental of you....I'm quite surprised tbh.

Know what though?.... evidently(i.e from the video) those kids loved her and thought/think she was/is a good Mum..... it's amazing how loyal kids are to their parents anyway-specially that age

In a way I see the value in the woman filming that, for it is something the kids will reflect on & make their own judgement calls over......Shame they will lose out on the comfort and society of their mother though for we all know the reality check is if -hypothetically now- a father in this situ with Arab Nationality decides to do one with the kinder.......well, needles in haystacks

Eva

Absolutely my mantra too along with 'trust no-one but yourself' ,simplfies where to look to pin the blame when things go pear shaped

BangleMan

so would you suggest dear lady, that couples stay together if they dont love one another, just for the sake of the kids ?

Eva

Absolutely not..... but I respectfully suggest that kids should have more of a say in the how the demise of a relationship will impact on them. I don't need to tell you-as I'm sure you have the battlescars, that in UK there is a non adversarial approach to a 'no fault' system of divorce which includes kids -very young kids even, being asked -'in camera' about how they would like to be parented subsequent to the divorce(SLS anyway)

What I think(apart from starting a sentence with 'what') is unforgiveable is where kids are used as pawns.It happens.......

As an aside, I do know a number of people 'living under one roof but not together' to maintain stability for their kids.It seems to work for them.

Roadking

'trust no-one but yourself' and even then......

Eva

Is your real name Thomas perchancity?

Roadking

Can't tell the bullshit from the lies....