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Old Dec 20th 2012, 11:15 am
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At the risk of attracting abuse from the more childish members of The Bored - is there a good sex therapist in Dubai? PM me if preferred.

It's a 'loss of libido' thing, not a physical problem, per se........

Thanks in advance.
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Old Dec 20th 2012, 11:38 am
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I find that watching Red Tube or You Porn often produces the desired effect, among the fairer sex too. Alternatively, some good erotic literature may help.
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Old Dec 20th 2012, 11:39 am
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Default Re: This is a serious question..........

Originally Posted by The Dean View Post
At the risk of attracting abuse from the more childish members of The Bored - is there a good sex therapist in Dubai? PM me if preferred.

It's a 'loss of libido' thing, not a physical problem, per se........

Thanks in advance.
Where did you lose your libido darling? Have you posted on EPW, they might have it
On a serious note. Get in touch with the Manchester Clinic (4) 3440300.
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I find that watching Red Tube or You Porn often produces the desired effect, among the fairer sex too. Alternatively, some good erotic literature may help.
No it doesn't. And no it doesn't.
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I would suggest that your first port of call should be a good GP. They'll check for any underlying medical issues and then recommend someone for you to see.

I highly recommend Sean Petherbridge at Keith Nichol Medical Centre. Superb doctor and nice guy.
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At the risk of attracting abuse from the more childish members of The Bored - is there a good sex therapist in Dubai? PM me if preferred.

It's a 'loss of libido' thing, not a physical problem, per se........

Thanks in advance.
not taking the piss out or anything mate but have you tried any form of Viagra
or is that not relevant?
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I would suggest that your first port of call should be a good GP. They'll check for any underlying medical issues and then recommend someone for you to see.

I highly recommend Sean Petherbridge at Keith Nichol Medical Centre. Superb doctor and nice guy.
Agreed - first check is for testosterone levels at the doctors - andropause is becoming more recognised and common. However.... getting the drugs can be difficult. You would then need to see an endocrinologist.
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Testosterone test is a first, yeah.

Pron is not the answer! It's done nothing but harm to normal expectations in relations between men and women. (and every other colour of the rainbow)
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Wasn't it Socrates who welcomed being liberated from his libido with age?

But seriously, that question, on here?
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Wasn't it Socrates who welcomed being liberated from his libido with age?

But seriously, that question, on here?
Why not? I know enough people here well enough to trust their replies (mostly!), and I've mentioned it, in passing, before.......... does the question embarrass you? If I'm fine with it, what's your problem?

And thanks, Patsy, your answer was helpful, as was Meow's and one or two others. Hadn't thought of the testosterone check - thanks. The Viagra suggestion? That is for physical problems which mine aren't - but thanks.
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I would get a prostate test as well - this was the beginnings of the problem which ended up with one of bosses being identified with prostate cancer. It was identified early (it is easy to identify on the blood tests) - an op in London and all hunky dory so he tells me
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Default Re: This is a serious question..........

Mate have you thought about the pysical things first?

Working too hard,Not getting enough sleep,Stress at the workplace

This is the major causes of lose of libido

Also fitness pays a huge part. If your unfit or have put on a bit of weight recently this brings on lethargio and will ultimately effect confidence. Again causing a loss of libido

I only know this as im 26 and i lost if for a few months when i was 25! Was down to being off work for a few months and putting a couple of stone on. My girlfriend kicked my arse about it then i got my ass in gear and lost the weight again. After that all better

Good luck!
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