Relationship - what to do?
Aug 28th 2008, 12:45 pm
#16
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Re: Relationship - what to do?
well i think she is there cuz she wants to be with her dad (maybe he is alone) - after all there is no quality of life in the uk anymore - infact u have to be a millionaire to stay here.
in sure she will re-consider a holiday once her dad gets better.
dont worry about the boys - they just jealous!!!
in sure she will re-consider a holiday once her dad gets better.
dont worry about the boys - they just jealous!!!
Aug 29th 2008, 6:07 am
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Re: Relationship - what to do?
Fascinating........... a question occurs to me.
Do you think she would fit in, assuming she changed her mind about coming here, with the Dubai lifestyle that many women enjoy? Many women, including most of those you will find on The Bored, have attractive slim bodies because they have access to gyms, health clubs, etc. Also the year-round sunshine encourages outdoor activity, such as swimming.
Why not post a few pictures of this girl on The Bored, for research purposes? Photos of her in a swimsuit would help many of us to give you independent impartial advice about how she might feel psychologically about fitting in?
If you prefer not to do this publicly, you could just send me a PM with the photos of her as an attachment.
It might be the best thing.
Do you think she would fit in, assuming she changed her mind about coming here, with the Dubai lifestyle that many women enjoy? Many women, including most of those you will find on The Bored, have attractive slim bodies because they have access to gyms, health clubs, etc. Also the year-round sunshine encourages outdoor activity, such as swimming.
Why not post a few pictures of this girl on The Bored, for research purposes? Photos of her in a swimsuit would help many of us to give you independent impartial advice about how she might feel psychologically about fitting in?
If you prefer not to do this publicly, you could just send me a PM with the photos of her as an attachment.
It might be the best thing.
Aug 29th 2008, 6:45 am
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Re: Relationship - what to do?
The Dean's suggestion is of course the only advice to follow and, as always, we will post photographs of ourselves on the beach almost immediately after your contribution.
Aug 29th 2008, 12:16 pm
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Re: Relationship - what to do?
SO you already made arrangements with the Dean to also get copies of the photos,eh???
Aug 29th 2008, 12:57 pm
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Re: Relationship - what to do?
sound impressive - Stay for money or go home for love
I'd remember that words. haha
ha ha
BUt. You also should remember No Money = No Love
Personally I'd go for my career than stupid never lasting love relationship.
I let my lover go for his bloody brilliant career at Morgan Stanley in London :curse: In UK, he obviously makes more money £ £ £ than NZ. so why would he stay here, yeah? therefore I let him go - because it's good for him.
However I didn't follow him simply because of my career in NZ is very important for myself too as much as his. and it wouldn't be easy to find such a good position in London. so I am still here all alone. so what? I don't regret. Of course it's sorely painful being away from him. actually I've been crying for two years.
BUt. What I can do about it? as I don't want to give up my life either. You only have a life once. not twice. Just my priority is career - not relationship - (actually many people opposite to this). also I always believe this - if you guys mean to be together (God's decision ), you shall be together someday anyway. so I woulnd't worry about it too much. of course making an effort is an important part of relationship however I feel there's more than that in love relationship. - something you can't help - something Unexplainable. Stay strong and hope you being more rational and less emotional - when you make a big decision for your life . If you can find a good job in UK, then go home for love, or stay where you are now and make money.
Aug 29th 2008, 1:15 pm
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Re: Relationship - what to do?
sound impressive - Stay for money or go home for love
I'd remember that words. haha
ha ha
BUt. You also should remember No Money = No Love
Personally I'd go for my career than stupid never lasting love relationship.
I let my lover go for his bloody brilliant career at Morgan Stanley in London :curse: In UK, he obviously makes more money £ £ £ than NZ. so why would he stay here, yeah? therefore I let him go - because it's good for him.
However I didn't follow him simply because of my career in NZ is very important for myself too as much as his. and it wouldn't be easy to find such a good position in London. so I am still here all alone. so what? I don't regret. Of course it's sorely painful being away from him. actually I've been crying for two years.
BUt. What I can do about it? as I don't want to give up my life either. You only have a life once. not twice. Just my priority is career - not relationship - (actually many people opposite to this). also I always believe this - if you guys mean to be together (God's decision ), you shall be together someday anyway. so I woulnd't worry about it too much. of course making an effort is an important part of relationship however I feel there's more than that in love relationship. - something you can't help - something Unexplainable. Stay strong and hope you being more rational and less emotional - when you make a big decision for your life . If you can find a good job in UK, then go home for love, or stay where you are now and make money.
Oh well...
Aug 29th 2008, 1:37 pm
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Re: Relationship - what to do?
you are right. as you can see....now I only become a grumpy old woman - like a bitch :curse: ever since he left me. right . I am not happy .
Aug 29th 2008, 4:07 pm
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Re: Relationship - what to do?
sound impressive - Stay for money or go home for love
I'd remember that words. haha
ha ha
BUt. You also should remember No Money = No Love
Personally I'd go for my career than stupid never lasting love relationship.
I let my lover go for his bloody brilliant career at Morgan Stanley in London :curse: In UK, he obviously makes more money £ £ £ than NZ. so why would he stay here, yeah? therefore I let him go - because it's good for him.
However I didn't follow him simply because of my career in NZ is very important for myself too as much as his. and it wouldn't be easy to find such a good position in London. so I am still here all alone. so what? I don't regret. Of course it's sorely painful being away from him. actually I've been crying for two years.
BUt. What I can do about it? as I don't want to give up my life either. You only have a life once. not twice. Just my priority is career - not relationship - (actually many people opposite to this). also I always believe this - if you guys mean to be together (God's decision ), you shall be together someday anyway. so I woulnd't worry about it too much. of course making an effort is an important part of relationship however I feel there's more than that in love relationship. - something you can't help - something Unexplainable. Stay strong and hope you being more rational and less emotional - when you make a big decision for your life . If you can find a good job in UK, then go home for love, or stay where you are now and make money.
So we can now assume he's out of work......?
If he's on the street, there's no chance he'll find anything else at the moment, so - surprise, surprise - he may just hop a flight to NZ any day now.......
Aug 29th 2008, 9:13 pm
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Re: Relationship - what to do?
sorry. he works for JP Morgan - North London. He is a senior Software developer. but used to work for The Department of Corrections (NZ).
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Aug 29th 2008, 9:22 pm
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