Reality
Mar 8th 2008, 5:39 pm
#26
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Re: Reality
The simple ( and true ) answer to this , is that no-one ever gets to sample your own reality, so therefore never really sees the 'real you'.
We have a shared reality with our partners and then an expected reality with the people that we work with / socialise with, but no-one ever ever gets to know how we think, therefore they can never sample our reality.
This is little different though in putting on a facade / mask. I would say that I am quite flexible in my 'behaviour' and can generally adapt quite well to the situation in order to fit in with the surroundings. I do not think this is about acting or putting on a front,I see this more about responding to the diversity of people around me.
We have a shared reality with our partners and then an expected reality with the people that we work with / socialise with, but no-one ever ever gets to know how we think, therefore they can never sample our reality.
This is little different though in putting on a facade / mask. I would say that I am quite flexible in my 'behaviour' and can generally adapt quite well to the situation in order to fit in with the surroundings. I do not think this is about acting or putting on a front,I see this more about responding to the diversity of people around me.
Mar 8th 2008, 5:39 pm
#27
Concierge
Joined: Feb 2007
Posts: 29,625
Re: Reality
The simple ( and true ) answer to this , is that no-one ever gets to sample your own reality, so therefore never really sees the 'real you'.
We have a shared reality with our partners and then an expected reality with the people that we work with / socialise with, but no-one ever ever gets to know how we think, therefore they can never sample our reality.
This is little different though in putting on a facade / mask. I would say that I am quite flexible in my 'behaviour' and can generally adapt quite well to the situation in order to fit in with the surroundings. I do not think this is about acting or putting on a front,I see this more about responding to the diversity of people around me.
We have a shared reality with our partners and then an expected reality with the people that we work with / socialise with, but no-one ever ever gets to know how we think, therefore they can never sample our reality.
This is little different though in putting on a facade / mask. I would say that I am quite flexible in my 'behaviour' and can generally adapt quite well to the situation in order to fit in with the surroundings. I do not think this is about acting or putting on a front,I see this more about responding to the diversity of people around me.
Mar 8th 2008, 5:41 pm
#29
Lost in BE Cyberspace
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Joined: Dec 2006
Posts: 23,434
Re: Reality
The simple ( and true ) answer to this , is that no-one ever gets to sample your own reality, so therefore never really sees the 'real you'.
We have a shared reality with our partners and then an expected reality with the people that we work with / socialise with, but no-one ever ever gets to know how we think, therefore they can never sample our reality.
This is little different though in putting on a facade / mask. I would say that I am quite flexible in my 'behaviour' and can generally adapt quite well to the situation in order to fit in with the surroundings. I do not think this is about acting or putting on a front,I see this more about responding to the diversity of people around me.
We have a shared reality with our partners and then an expected reality with the people that we work with / socialise with, but no-one ever ever gets to know how we think, therefore they can never sample our reality.
This is little different though in putting on a facade / mask. I would say that I am quite flexible in my 'behaviour' and can generally adapt quite well to the situation in order to fit in with the surroundings. I do not think this is about acting or putting on a front,I see this more about responding to the diversity of people around me.
This is the kind of answers/replies that I asked for...