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scot47 Apr 17th 2013 10:13 am

Ramadan Kareem !
 
And this year it is in the height of summer ! ENJOY !!!! Sometimes I rejoice in the fact that I have retired to "Dar Al Harb" with the rest of the unbelievers ! Ramadan is a difficult time to be in KSA, Avoid especailly the roads in that period of about an hour before Sunset.Crazed drivers with low blood sugar in a hurry to get home and break the fast with Fatima and the children.

jam25mack Apr 17th 2013 10:25 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 
I LOVE Ramadan. My favorite time of the year. Dubai is empty as everyone is on hols, work is quiet and no one expects to much, out of the office by 2pm = WICKED!

Quackers Apr 17th 2013 10:27 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by jam25mack (Post 10663876)
I LOVE Ramadan. My favorite time of the year. Dubai is empty as everyone is on hols, work is quiet and no one expects to much, out of the office by 2pm = WICKED!

Yes but getting out of the office at 2pm is no good when the pub doesn't open until 8pm :p

britexpat76 Apr 17th 2013 11:00 am

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Having to be in the office at 8am as you can only get anthing official done in the morning, yes I get 7 hours off in the afternoon but I then have to open up at 8pm until 12+.......... A truly awful time of the year - And All the bars/restaurants are dry here 24/7. Its like living in KSA for 1 month a year.

UKCityGent Apr 17th 2013 12:22 pm

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Isnt Ramadan in (early) July ?

jam25mack Apr 17th 2013 12:42 pm

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by Quackers (Post 10663877)
Yes but getting out of the office at 2pm is no good when the pub doesn't open until 8pm :p

That's fine with me - work, head home, mid afternoon snooze, pub, snooze and repeat.

Also maybe substitute snooze at home for snooze on the beach.

scrubbedexpat141 Apr 17th 2013 1:00 pm

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Originally Posted by jam25mack (Post 10664086)
That's fine with me - work, head home, mid afternoon snooze, pub, snooze and repeat.

Also maybe substitute snooze at home for snooze on the beach.

You've missed out trying to pull the head off it:

Eat, Beat, Sleep, Repeat.

jam25mack Apr 17th 2013 1:22 pm

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by Scamp (Post 10664123)
You've missed out trying to pull the head off it:

Eat, Beat, Sleep, Repeat.

Ha ha ha! :rofl::rofl::rofl:

scot47 Apr 17th 2013 9:45 pm

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 
Ramadan in 2013 will start on Tuesday, the 9th of July and will continue for 30 days until Wednesday, the 7th of August.

Depending on the sighting of the Moon of course !! At least in KSA. In more benighted countries like the UAE they may rely on innovations like calendars and astronomer's predictions !!!:):):):):):)

Eva Apr 17th 2013 9:53 pm

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by jam25mack (Post 10664086)
That's fine with me - work, head home, mid afternoon snooze, pub, snooze and repeat.

Also maybe substitute snooze at home for snooze on the beach.

In July?
You would look like the sacrificial offering......

redShark Apr 17th 2013 11:48 pm

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by scot47 (Post 10663860)
And this year it is in the height of summer ! ENJOY !!!! Sometimes I rejoice in the fact that I have retired to "Dar Al Harb" with the rest of the unbelievers ! Ramadan is a difficult time to be in KSA, Avoid especailly the roads in that period of about an hour before Sunset.Crazed drivers with low blood sugar in a hurry to get home and break the fast with Fatima and the children.


Actually, for a Muslim who have spent all his adulthood life doing fasting in Ramadan, fasting in July is not really that difficult. However, without the Islamic faith It is near impossible to fast the month of Ramdan in summer. Once, a non-Muslim friend of mine who was intrigued by the way Muslims do their fasting actually tried to do it with me. The first two days he barely managed to go through them; by the third day he was completely consumed by fatigue and headache and just gave it up.

Ramadan for Muslim is a story of multiple disciplines; Food intake regulation is just one part of that story. The moral of the story is to teach patience, a vital human characteristc that is quite difficult to teach in words.

mikewot Apr 18th 2013 3:23 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by redShark (Post 10665238)
Actually, for a Muslim who have spent all his adulthood life doing fasting in Ramadan, fasting in July is not really that difficult. However, without the Islamic faith It is near impossible to fast the month of Ramdan in summer.

Nonsense. Maintaining a fast, like giving up cigarettes, is a matter of willpower not of religious belief.

Millsyisland Apr 18th 2013 3:52 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 
From what I've seen, there's very little regulation once the fast is broken with mountains of food through the hours of darkness - I understand many people put on weight during Ramadan.

DOCUAE Apr 18th 2013 4:02 am

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Originally Posted by Millsyisland (Post 10665491)
From what I've seen, there's very little regulation once the fast is broken with mountains of food through the hours of darkness - I understand many people put on weight during Ramadan.

You're right. On the 1st day of Ramadan last year, there were over 800 people reported to the emergency department at Hamad hospital in Doha, due to the effects of over eating!

mikewot Apr 18th 2013 4:04 am

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Originally Posted by Millsyisland (Post 10665491)
I understand many people put on weight during Ramadan.

And admissions to hospital because they stuff their faces after iftar. http://www.thenational.ae/news/uae-n...r-ramadan-fast

the_red_sheep Apr 18th 2013 4:09 am

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Originally Posted by redShark (Post 10665238)
The moral of the story is to teach patience.

This doesn't extend to driving in mid to late afternoon though clearly.

Also, it always struck me that the point of fasting was to demonstrate abstinence and the self-control to avoid temptations. Surely by taking away the temptations (forcing restaurants to close) or forcing them to be hidden (not allowing non-Muslims to eat or drink in public) does away with much of what is being avoided and thus means less self-control or proof of faith is required.

flares Apr 18th 2013 4:10 am

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Originally Posted by mikewot (Post 10665479)
Nonsense. Maintaining a fast, like giving up cigarettes, is a matter of willpower not of religious belief.

Rubbish Mikewot - these guys are special. You knows it. If (Fergal) Sharkey's friend would have converted after day 2 his body would have been able to cope with fasting. Have faith. Innit. :amen::blink::confused::starsmile:

mikewot Apr 18th 2013 4:27 am

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Originally Posted by saudiflares (Post 10665513)
Rubbish Mikewot - these guys are special. You knows it. If (Fergal) Sharkey's friend would have converted after day 2 his body would have been able to cope with fasting. Have faith. Innit. :amen::blink::confused::starsmile:

:goodpost: Sorry, you're absolutely correct, I'm exhibiting my ignorance as an infidel.

britexpat76 Apr 18th 2013 6:28 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by redShark (Post 10665238)
Actually, for a Muslim who have spent all his adulthood life doing fasting in Ramadan, fasting in July is not really that difficult. However, without the Islamic faith It is near impossible to fast the month of Ramdan in summer. Once, a non-Muslim friend of mine who was intrigued by the way Muslims do their fasting actually tried to do it with me. The first two days he barely managed to go through them; by the third day he was completely consumed by fatigue and headache and just gave it up.

Ramadan for Muslim is a story of multiple disciplines; Food intake regulation is just one part of that story. The moral of the story is to teach patience, a vital human characteristc that is quite difficult to teach in words.

Bahahahaha. Hilarious Red, as always. I have a lesson for patience out here. Make them save pocket money or get a job and buy their own 1st landcruiser. Don't give them whatever they want whenever they want? Do you think staying awake a few daylight hours before feasting all night is a sacrifice?

jam25mack Apr 18th 2013 7:15 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by the_red_sheep (Post 10665512)
This doesn't extend to driving in mid to late afternoon though clearly.

Also, it always struck me that the point of fasting was to demonstrate abstinence and the self-control to avoid temptations. Surely by taking away the temptations (forcing restaurants to close) or forcing them to be hidden (not allowing non-Muslims to eat or drink in public) does away with much of what is being avoided and thus means less self-control or proof of faith is required.

Massively agree. All this no smoking, drinking and eating in public pish is just that - pish! They are the ones giving it up to show their devotion to their faith etc etc or whatever, I'm not fasting so why should I stop.

My ex used to fast when we lived in Scotland which in my eyes would be 10 x worse. Really long days with no one hiding their Greggs steak bakes away. She used to get up at 4am for breakfast and break her fast at 11pm..... hardcore!

britexpat76 Apr 18th 2013 7:17 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by jam25mack (Post 10665647)
Massively agree. All this no smoking, drinking and eating in public pish is just that - pish! They are the ones giving it up to show their devotion to their faith etc etc or whatever, I'm not fasting so why should I stop.

My ex used to fast when we lived in Scotland which in my eyes would be 10 x worse. Really long days with no one hiding their Greggs steak bakes away. She used to get up at 4am for breakfast and break her fast at 11pm..... hardcore!

On the flip side to that it amazes me how many muslims become sick leading up to ramadan and can't fast due to taking medicine............

Irishbeekeeper Apr 18th 2013 7:24 am

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The correct way to go about ramazan is NOT to feast all night and NOT to over-eat. I have always managed to shed a few unwanted pounds and yes patience is a self-taught acquired art which most lemmings will never get unfortunately.
The concept behind it all, if I may for a second, is that hundreds of years ago (much much before Islam came about) there were the haves and the have-nots, much like today I guess. The havenots, living in difficult conditions would only have SO much of earnings / savings to afford a meal once a day, so they would eat just once in the night (Iftar time) and then save some from that to eat again in the morning (Sehri time) before heading out at the crack of dawn to work all day long so they could afford to buy their one meal by the end of the day. Now I am not saying that there was a certain example of this happening which made the ramazan come about (since the practice of fasting has been there since the time of Moses or even before that I am sure), I am saying the concept of knowing hunger for a whole month so that you may know the hunger a poor man goes through all year long. And the way things are going in this unbalanced world, hunger is a real problem, especially in the have-nots part of the world. If done right, by the end of the month one is barely making it through the day and yes true hunger does bring out a level of spirituality I guess but for myself, it is all about thanking God that I was blessed to be born with enough to never to know true hunger and to try and feed / help out anyone I feel deserves it and not just in that particular month but make it a way of life.
/end of rant :)

Irishbeekeeper Apr 18th 2013 7:27 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by jam25mack (Post 10665647)
Massively agree. All this no smoking, drinking and eating in public pish is just that - pish! They are the ones giving it up to show their devotion to their faith etc etc or whatever, I'm not fasting so why should I stop.

My ex used to fast when we lived in Scotland which in my eyes would be 10 x worse. Really long days with no one hiding their Greggs steak bakes away. She used to get up at 4am for breakfast and break her fast at 11pm..... hardcore!

Totally agree, I have never had problems with anyone eating / drinking / smoking in front of me and 4am to 11 pm?? man I am impressed with a capital I, true hardcore indeed...respect! :thumbsup:

jam25mack Apr 18th 2013 7:38 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by britexpat76 (Post 10665649)
On the flip side to that it amazes me how many muslims become sick leading up to ramadan and can't fast due to taking medicine............

Ha, from what I can remember there are so many get out clauses that you could miss the whole month and easily not use the same excuse twice. I seem to remember one is along the lines of 'if travelling over 12Km (or similar) you're exempt'. Probably not so valid in the age of the Landcrusier!

Eeyore Apr 18th 2013 8:29 am

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But you're still supposed to make the missed days up afterwards, aren't you? You're not completely exempted from fasting at all that year.

britexpat76 Apr 18th 2013 8:41 am

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Originally Posted by Eeyore (Post 10665719)
But you're still supposed to make the missed days up afterwards, aren't you? You're not completely exempted from fasting at all that year.

Is the correct answer. Though non I know do.

redShark Apr 18th 2013 8:56 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by saudiflares (Post 10665513)
Rubbish Mikewot - these guys are special. You knows it. If (Fergal) Sharkey's friend would have converted after day 2 his body would have been able to cope with fasting. Have faith. Innit. :amen::blink::confused::starsmile:


This is not the first time for me to discuss fasting with non-Muslims. I have heard before some interesting ideas and viewpoints about it; Not necessarily that they sounded logical to me. Interestingly, however, I have also developed a conviction about this particular debate and that is, discussing fasting with some one with a problem of drinking is a complete waste of time.

DohaLady Apr 18th 2013 9:08 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 
Love Ramadan! Home by 2 and get to save a bit of cash as I'm not in the pub all month

Now, I've been known to overeat on occasion, but how much do you actually have to consume to become hospitalised?!

the_red_sheep Apr 18th 2013 9:10 am

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Originally Posted by redShark (Post 10665749)
I have also developed a conviction about this particular debate and that is, discussing fasting with some one with a problem of drinking is a complete waste of time.

I feel much the same way about discussing anything to do with religion with someone who is utterly blinded by religious idealism, as so many ‘religious’ people are. However, if those people want to live their lives led by religion I have absolutely no objection, unless they try to invoke their beliefs on others in a way which impinges on their lives.

Irishbeekeeper Apr 18th 2013 9:27 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by the_red_sheep (Post 10665768)
I feel much the same way about discussing anything to do with religion with someone who is utterly blinded by religious idealism, as so many ‘religious’ people are. However, if those people want to live their lives led by religion I have absolutely no objection, unless they try to invoke their beliefs on others in a way which impinges on their lives.

totally agreed!

mikewot Apr 18th 2013 10:40 am

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Originally Posted by redShark (Post 10665749)
I have also developed a conviction about this particular debate and that is, discussing fasting with some one with a problem of drinking is a complete waste of time.

Can you elucidate further on what you mean by this statement?

Millsyisland Apr 18th 2013 10:45 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 
I suspect redShark means that anyone who drinks any alcohol has a drink problem, and therefore cannot have an opinion on anything else, but would welcome confirmation on this.

britexpat76 Apr 18th 2013 11:13 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 
Bit like saying every Muslim is going to blow themselves up.

Meow Apr 18th 2013 11:18 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 
Frankly I find the whole thing here to be a farce. Forcing everyone to comply means it isn't a real test. Also the sleeping all day and stuffing your face all night defeats the object.

Should be easier for me as a non-smoker this year as I used to get really annoyed at not being able to smoke in the car whilst the idiots on the road were apparently trying to kill me.

Boomhauer Apr 18th 2013 11:20 am

Re: Ramadan Kareem !
 

Originally Posted by redShark (Post 10665238)
Actually, for a Muslim who have spent all his adulthood life doing fasting in Ramadan, fasting in July is not really that difficult. However, without the Islamic faith It is near impossible to fast the month of Ramdan in summer. Once, a non-Muslim friend of mine who was intrigued by the way Muslims do their fasting actually tried to do it with me. The first two days he barely managed to go through them; by the third day he was completely consumed by fatigue and headache and just gave it up.

Ramadan for Muslim is a story of multiple disciplines; Food intake regulation is just one part of that story. The moral of the story is to teach patience, a vital human characteristc that is quite difficult to teach in words.

You know Muslims aren't the only theists who fast.

Millsyisland Apr 18th 2013 11:38 am

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I fast virtually every day between around 11pm and 7am.

redShark Apr 18th 2013 11:40 am

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Originally Posted by mikewot (Post 10665903)
Can you elucidate further on what you mean by this statement?

That was an example to the some whom I have discussed human and religious values with before in life. They struck me as being people whose human worldly instincts are always in the way of their sense of logic

mikewot Apr 18th 2013 12:16 pm

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Originally Posted by redShark (Post 10666000)
That was an example to the some whom I have discussed human and religious values with before in life. They struck me as being people whose human worldly instincts are always in the way of their sense of logic

Where is the logic in your statement? Can you explain?

the_red_sheep Apr 18th 2013 12:25 pm

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Originally Posted by mikewot (Post 10666042)
Where is the logic in your statement? Can you explain?

Mike, a cat with a machine gun chasing a three legged mouse isn't really a fair fight.

redShark Apr 18th 2013 4:03 pm

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Originally Posted by mikewot (Post 10666042)
Where is the logic in your statement? Can you explain?

In my humble experience, I have never managed before to convince a person whom alcohol is an important player in his life that fasting has a virtue. Don't know really why.. may be because my argument is weak!!


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