Meeting a woman?
May 13th 2008, 9:47 am
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Re: Meeting a woman?
ok.
To even suggest that it was a womans fault that she was raped and that "some women ask for it" is disgusting. That is the kind of opinion formed within religious intolerance and a backward society.
"we" find it so offencive because that mentality is now seen as abhorent by most of us
To even suggest that it was a womans fault that she was raped and that "some women ask for it" is disgusting. That is the kind of opinion formed within religious intolerance and a backward society.
"we" find it so offencive because that mentality is now seen as abhorent by most of us
oh dear....I do have to sort of agree with that last statement...
I think it's wrong for any man to rape a woman...BUT....I can imagine cases where a woman has really really baited a guy to the limit by provoking him to such an extend...I'd say she is partly responsible as well....he has to be able to control himself...but she has to know that there are lines you should not cross...and I am not talking about a girl wearing a miniskirt...I am talking about behaviour that is explicitly sexual used to arouse a man....to do that and then cry 'rape'....I have a problem with that.
Now I realise that it will always be very hard to prove as there are normally no witnesses...
I think it's wrong for any man to rape a woman...BUT....I can imagine cases where a woman has really really baited a guy to the limit by provoking him to such an extend...I'd say she is partly responsible as well....he has to be able to control himself...but she has to know that there are lines you should not cross...and I am not talking about a girl wearing a miniskirt...I am talking about behaviour that is explicitly sexual used to arouse a man....to do that and then cry 'rape'....I have a problem with that.
Now I realise that it will always be very hard to prove as there are normally no witnesses...
May 13th 2008, 9:53 am
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Re: Meeting a woman?
I feel used now...
point I tried to make was that in a small number of cases the guilty party isn't clear cut 100% the man...and that the woman in question behaved in a way she could have known she might end up in trouble...then again...I wouldn't want to be the one to determine what is acceptable and what is crossing the line...
point I tried to make was that in a small number of cases the guilty party isn't clear cut 100% the man...and that the woman in question behaved in a way she could have known she might end up in trouble...then again...I wouldn't want to be the one to determine what is acceptable and what is crossing the line...
May 13th 2008, 9:55 am
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Re: Meeting a woman?
i feel that whether a woman is being overly flirty or sexual is not the point.
rape is more about power over the woman (or man) than it is about sex.
rape is more about power over the woman (or man) than it is about sex.
May 13th 2008, 9:59 am
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Re: Meeting a woman?
I feel used now...
point I tried to make was that in a small number of cases the guilty party isn't clear cut 100% the man...and that the woman in question behaved in a way she could have known she might end up in trouble...then again...I wouldn't want to be the one to determine what is acceptable and what is crossing the line...
point I tried to make was that in a small number of cases the guilty party isn't clear cut 100% the man...and that the woman in question behaved in a way she could have known she might end up in trouble...then again...I wouldn't want to be the one to determine what is acceptable and what is crossing the line...
it depends on the culture...
in the west.. men and women get nearly naked in swimming pools and it is fine
so then it is a matter of behavior then as you said before.
but in different cultures where men and women are seperated and it is hardly for the man to be setting with a women ... it is so difficult for him to control himself when she go out with him in his car ...
but still it is his mistake... in this case if there is a mistake from the girl's side.. it will be trusting someone whois not trustworthy and going out with him knowning how dangrouse it may become.
May 13th 2008, 10:02 am
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Re: Meeting a woman?
it depends on the culture...
in the west.. men and women get nearly naked in swimming pools and it is fine
so then it is a matter of behavior then as you said before.
but in different cultures where men and women are seperated and it is hardly for the man to be setting with a women ... it is so difficult for him to control himself when she go out with him in his car ...
but still it is his mistake... in this case if there is a mistake from the girl's side.. it will be trusting someone whois not trustworthy and going out with him knowning how dangrouse it may become.
in the west.. men and women get nearly naked in swimming pools and it is fine
so then it is a matter of behavior then as you said before.
but in different cultures where men and women are seperated and it is hardly for the man to be setting with a women ... it is so difficult for him to control himself when she go out with him in his car ...
but still it is his mistake... in this case if there is a mistake from the girl's side.. it will be trusting someone whois not trustworthy and going out with him knowning how dangrouse it may become.
Are you referring this actual case??
She should be lashed for not being clairvoyant?
May 13th 2008, 10:08 am
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Re: Meeting a woman?
May 13th 2008, 10:12 am
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Re: Meeting a woman?
Women are neither weaker, softer nor more sensitive than men..
that is prehistoric bullshit of which you lot still grasp on to too suit your 'beliefs'
Why would you lash such a soft, weak, sensitive girl......