Making friends in Dubai
Don't really know what the point of my post is going to be, guess it's just me moaning and venting in a relatively safe space where nobody actually knows me and therefore I won't feel too embarrassed about having a moan. Two months into my new life as an expat in Dubai, this topic is bothering me.
I've joined a couple of random groups in Dubai that have regular meetups and I've met some nnice people, hung out often etc.. but there seems to be this ratio of like 10:1 of men to women. Therefore most new 'friends' I'm making are all men, and then it turns out that some of them were only interested in one thing. I'm a girly girl and I'm craving female company and friendship, but it seems hard to come by. They hide away, they're cliquey, or they don't want to go out and do things (ie my female flatmates just want to sit at home and watch tv on the weekend..) Is this just how it is here?!:( Rant rant rant... |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Hi Saff,
It can be really hard. It took me about 6 months to build some solid girlfriends here. Completely agree about men here. I have no straight male friends here (apart from friends husbands) which is really sad as I miss my male mates and the banter you have. :( But anyway it is what it is here. You will make girlfriends, it just takes time, mine are mostly through work and here, and then meeting friends through friends. Chin up chick. My social life is utter shit at the moment otherwise I'd invite you out with us. KC |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by kittycat1
(Post 10618241)
My social life is utter shit at the moment otherwise I'd invite you out with us.
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Thank you for that, Yes I am a loser. Actually I'm enjoying a well deserved day off, I'm full of a cold and the sofa has a lot of appeal today.
I'm off out tonight though- 3rd night in a row as well- this is the most I've been out all year! |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Kix
(Post 10618247)
It must be you're on BE in BRUNCHTIME!
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Saff_Parker
(Post 10618256)
:( well I guess you're here with us too, mr popular!
Back in GCC for my third stint next friday. And (seriously) can't wait. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
I never had trouble meeting women in Dubai. It helped that my first office had a lot of female employees although funnily enough most of my female friends were from outside the office.
What really got my social life going was joining a dragonboating team. There's several around and it's good exercise plus you meet a lot of expats mostly in their 20s and 30s. The teams are generally 2/3 men to 1/3 women but that's better than a 10:1 ratio. Despite its reputation as a party town Dubai has a lot of athletic women so looking at the various sports/work out clubs is probably a good route to finding proper friends. |
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Can I just point out that I'm a man who is not just interested in 'one thing'? I'd be happy to meet Saff, Kitty, and any other women who might be interested for a few drinks, and would not expect 'anything' at the end of the evening....... men also welcome........... come to think of it, one of our nights out would be a good time.............
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by The Dean
(Post 10618439)
Can I just point out that I'm a man who is not just interested in 'one thing'? I'd be happy to meet Saff, Kitty, and any other women who might be interested for a few drinks, and would not expect 'anything' at the end of the evening.......
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by mentalist
(Post 10618652)
Would your other half be comfortable with such a rendezvous? Just curious.
The thing is, if your relationship is good, why shouldn't your wife/husband have male/female friends. It's sounding more like "When Harry Met Sally" every post on here. Now where's that burger joint... |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Kix
(Post 10618721)
Well as I met him with a Ukrainian hooker (and a mate's girlfriend) that I took there, I'm sure it's not an issue.
The thing is, if your relationship is good, why shouldn't your wife/husband have male/female friends. It's sounding more like "When Harry Met Sally" every post on here. Now where's that burger joint... |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Kix
(Post 10618721)
Well as I met him with a Ukrainian hooker (and a mate's girlfriend) that I took there, I'm sure it's not an issue.
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Saff - we have a few girls in my office who moan about this sort of thing too. Sports is one good way, or maybe something like salsa if you don't fancy the sporty side.
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Millhouse
(Post 10619461)
you're so cool...
Now ex. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Decided to erase my last comment as I couldn't make it say what I was trying to say. Lol
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by The Dean
(Post 10618439)
Can I just point out that I'm a man who is not just interested in 'one thing'? I'd be happy to meet Saff, Kitty, and any other women who might be interested for a few drinks, and would not expect 'anything' at the end of the evening....... men also welcome........... come to think of it, one of our nights out would be a good time.............
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by mentalist
(Post 10618652)
Would your other half be comfortable with such a rendezvous? Just curious.
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
I have more female friends in Doha than Male ones.
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Are you sporty? I have loads of girl friends who train and race with us. If you are a runner (of any ability) there are really friendly and cool clubs. Same with triathlon..there is a new set up called TRI Dubai that welcomes all comers regardless of experience or ability. Loads of girls involved there. If you need any contacts or help to get involved, drop your knickers (err I meant me a pm)...:D
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by weasel decentral
(Post 10619581)
She was looking for female friends not male friends; platonic or otherwise :p
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Again its sporty, loads of girls at circuit factory (google it).
Not really sure I agree with that fact tho. I know loads of girls in DXB. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by britexpat76
(Post 10619685)
I have more female friends in Doha than Male ones.
LOL |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by jam25mack
(Post 10620157)
loads of girls at circuit factory (google it).
Got friends who go and enjoy it, that's it. Got other friends who go and dear ****ing jesus the lord our saviour and all things holy do they never EVER EVER shut the **** up about Circuit Wankers. Even the ****ing morons that run it are commenting on the facebook posts that people write on the facebook page for the place. Do your exercise and shut the **** up, just ****ing dare try and talk to me about it. I'll repeat what happened last weekend...."yeah so I go to this place called Circuit Dickheads, it's full of really cool people and we're all really fit and I'm instantly better than you Scamp"..."oh right? *yawns in their face* give a shit, you're a boring **** *walks off*" - Got a bollocking from the mrs but was well worth it. Saff - do it, but don't ****ing talk about it. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Scamp
(Post 10620600)
Saff - do it, but don't ****ing talk about it.
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Millhouse
(Post 10620602)
There are a lot of things in my life that fall into this category and circuit training isn't one of them.
There is literally nothing worse than a fitnesswanker. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
I've been doing TRX with my PT to reduce my BMI
Feelin great Do it if you want to do it. Talk about it if you want to (to like minded souls probably better). Each to their own n all that. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by saudiflares
(Post 10620626)
I've been doing TRX with my PT to reduce my BMI
Feelin great Do it if you want to do it. Talk about it if you want to (to like minded souls probably better). Each to their own n all that. Cool. Good for you. Awesome. You're in better shape than you were a while ago. Great. I literally don't care that you now have a handful of almonds for a mid morning snack because eating little and often is good for you. I know, I don't care. SaudiFlares, you're unlikely to be the above person...but crikey it grips my shit. (can you tell?) |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Scamp
(Post 10620632)
My example is the extreme. The scenario of just meeting a few new people at a brunch for example...all they can / will talk about is whatever it is they are doing at Circuit Factory or something like that.
Cool. Good for you. Awesome. You're in better shape than you were a while ago. Great. I literally don't care that you now have a handful of almonds for a mid morning snack because eating little and often is good for you. I know, I don't care. SaudiFlares, you're unlikely to be the above person...but crikey it grips my shit. (can you tell?) There's a lycra tri suit out there with your name on somewhere Curiosity will get the better of you and there will be a 'Scamp fitness 201?' thread on here* As Zammo says 'Just Say No'...or is it Nike 'Just Do It' I get mixed up. *that no one will open after initial support apart from you to log your calorie intake |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by saudiflares
(Post 10620644)
Don't fight it Scampi
There's a lycra tri suit out there with your name on somewhere Curiosity will get the better of you and there will be a 'Scamp fitness 201?' thread on here* As Zammo says 'Just Say No'...or is it Nike 'Just Do It' I get mixed up. *that no one will open after initial support apart from you to log your calorie intake I'm waiting for Commander to log on and abuse me. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by saudiflares
(Post 10620644)
As Zammo says 'Just Say No'...or is it Nike 'Just Do It' I get mixed up.
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Scamp
(Post 10620600)
Oh good god, but they are absolutely peak of the patronising fit-bunch *****.
Got friends who go and enjoy it, that's it. Got other friends who go and dear ****ing jesus the lord our saviour and all things holy do they never EVER EVER shut the **** up about Circuit Wankers. Even the ****ing morons that run it are commenting on the facebook posts that people write on the facebook page for the place. Do your exercise and shut the **** up, just ****ing dare try and talk to me about it. I'll repeat what happened last weekend...."yeah so I go to this place called Circuit Dickheads, it's full of really cool people and we're all really fit and I'm instantly better than you Scamp"..."oh right? *yawns in their face* give a shit, you're a boring **** *walks off*" - Got a bollocking from the mrs but was well worth it. Saff - do it, but don't ****ing talk about it. There are loads of women there tho. And fit ones too! I know what you mean about the 'fanatics', I have done the monthly challenge twice and you do stand there listening to some of the folk thinking WTF! Saudiflares. BMI is a very misleading scale as it doesn't take different body shapes into account. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
I prefer male company, I don't have any friends here to speak of really and don't mind, am happy in my own skin most of the time.
I'm foul mouthed, outspoken and downright rude...most of the time. The Girlfriends I have at home are very much the same but on the same hand are extremely loyal and truthful like me !!! , I prefer that any day to back stabbers. I have nothing to lose you see and my Husband dosn't really care what I say or do, he just groans and gives me 'that look' :blink: .... and my parents are dead so it's highly unlikely I will ever have to answer to anyone other than myself. I have a one way ticket to hell for all the wrongs I have done and will have plenty of company down there so who cares anyway :cool: Beer anyone ???? :thumbsup: I won't actually turn up but it's interesting to see who is not afraid of me....:eek: |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Poshy
(Post 10620678)
I prefer male company, I don't have any friends here to speak of really and don't mind, am happy in my own skin most of the time.
I'm foul mouthed, outspoken and downright rude...most of the time. The Girlfriends I have at home are very much the same but on the same hand are extremely loyal and truthful like me !!! , I prefer that any day to back stabbers. You see my Husband dosn't really care what I say or do, he just groans and gives me 'that look' :blink: .... and my parents are dead so it's highly unlikely I will ever have to answer to anyone other than myself. I have a one way ticket to hell anyway for all the wrongs I have done and will have plenty of company down there so who cares anyway :cool: Beer anyone ???? :thumbsup: I won't actually turn up but it's interesting to see who is not afraid of me....:eek: Are you serious woman? What a supercilious attitude you have. Or maybe you're just so boring nobody would want to have a beer with you. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Kix
(Post 10620681)
Who is afraid of you?
Are you serious woman? What a supercilious attitude you have. Or maybe you're just so boring nobody would want to have a beer with you. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
haha !! :eek:
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Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Kix
(Post 10620681)
Who is afraid of you?
Are you serious woman? What a supercilious attitude you have. Or maybe you're just so boring nobody would want to have a beer with you. Absolutely not ! :D aww don't get your knickers in a twist..I added the last bit as an after thought as I sounded scary in the post lol Had to Google supercilious by the way |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Who are these people who still go to the Circuit factory after all that dreadfully offensive advertising last year? They are the ones who thought it was just fine to incorporate Auschwitz in their advertising. They used it as a joke - because genocide is just so funny... :frown:
Saff. What sort of things do you like to do? There are loads of good people in Dubai, but it can take time to unearth the like-minded ones. Attending a BE evening is no bad idea. They may be a bit odd, but no-one I've met from here has been a total freak. ;) Poshy - why are you "downright rude"? Might that be a reason why you have few friends here? :confused: That's not the impression I have of you. |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Meow
(Post 10621053)
Who are these people who still go to the Circuit factory after all that dreadfully offensive advertising last year? They are the ones who thought it was just fine to incorporate Auschwitz in their advertising. They used it as a joke - because genocide is just so funny... :frown:
u. As for the advertising, agreed that it was in bad taste but they did admit they had got it wrong and issued a public apology. Not much else they can do to make up for it. And if fitness aint your thing, how about crafty stuff? Is there not loads of that going on? |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by Scamp
(Post 10620647)
Hahahaha, I'm not too bad at the moment pal. The mrs prompted a healthier diet as she's wanting to be healthier and lose only a couple of pounds, figured it can't hurt and it supports her so I'm happy.
I'm waiting for Commander to log on and abuse me. That is motivation enough for me ;-) Stay fat...the less competition the better |
Re: Making friends in Dubai
Originally Posted by commander
(Post 10621974)
No need for any abuse from me. The penny will drop sooner or later. You know I ran a 5K fun run last Friday. 18mins work, won the race and got 8000AED cash, hotel stays, meal vouchers...
That is motivation enough for me ;-) Stay fat...the less competition the better If I didn't, I'd book the same hotel, the room above, and make your stay miserable. |
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