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Old Apr 7th 2015, 3:45 pm
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I am not coming to the Middle East. I've probably had too long to mull it over, but in the end, I decided I can't take being away from my family and I can't risk my health again. I had a little scare this weekend and it has made me take stock of these things. It just isn't a good time. I will stick out the job in Scotland until the end (about 6 months to go) and then see what happens.

I hope you can all manage without my maudlin, random witterings...
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Old Apr 7th 2015, 6:58 pm
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No-ones listening mate, all ripping the shit out of each other (intellectually of course!!!) on the "most dangerous woman in Scotland" thread.

I hope nothing to serious, although a health scare does make you stand back and re-evaluate.
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Old Apr 7th 2015, 7:42 pm
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Sorry to hear about your problems, but if in doubt always, always choose the decision that feels right for you and your family above anything else. Good wishes for whatever your future brings and mind out for yourself.
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Old Apr 8th 2015, 5:14 am
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ah, man. you came to your senses.

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Old Apr 8th 2015, 6:02 am
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My favourite kind of candidate.....

Only joking, health and family are very important, more than cash money and sweating in this dusty dump.

Hope you're better / getting better.
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Old Apr 8th 2015, 6:10 am
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I am not coming to the Middle East. I've probably had too long to mull it over, but in the end, I decided I can't take being away from my family and I can't risk my health again. I had a little scare this weekend and it has made me take stock of these things. It just isn't a good time. I will stick out the job in Scotland until the end (about 6 months to go) and then see what happens.

I hope you can all manage without my maudlin, random witterings...
Sorry to hear about the health scare, Jimmy...

..and never say never. I did that 3 years ago, and look where I am now!!
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Old Apr 8th 2015, 7:34 am
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My favourite kind of candidate.....

Only joking, health and family are very important, more than cash money and sweating in this dusty dump.

Hope you're better / getting better.
I do feel bad, but I've heard of people changing their minds at the very latest minute.

I slept soundly last night for the first time in ages. My decision is the right one.
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as others mentioned health and family are more important.
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Originally Posted by littlejimmy View Post
I do feel bad, but I've heard of people changing their minds at the very latest minute.

I slept soundly last night for the first time in ages. My decision is the right one.
I was only winding you up pal. Sounds like you made the right choice.
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I was only winding you up pal. Sounds like you made the right choice.


Thanks everyone. Appreciate the kind words. The medical scare was only small in the end, but it has potential to get worse in an environment like I would have been in. The whole thing just didn't sit right with me...maybe that's what brough this on. I feel 100% more at ease now. Still, as TGFKASE said, never say never.

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Old Apr 8th 2015, 8:30 am
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Glad you're okay but my money says you'll be back here at some point.
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