If this is true, it's utterly shameful..........
Feb 20th 2009, 5:39 pm
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Feb 20th 2009, 8:47 pm
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Some women are a glutton for punishment...
WTF?
Feb 21st 2009, 5:24 am
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Torture really is for sadists though.
Feb 21st 2009, 7:35 am
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Abandoned industrial buildings are good as they have superior sound insulation, no one asks any questings about shouting or men walking in and out with powertools. There are no neighbours so you won't be disturbed and a sheet of black plastic can be chucked in a furnace when you are finished.
Torture really is for sadists though.
Torture really is for sadists though.
Correct.
Feb 21st 2009, 7:52 am
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Rihanna broke her silence on Friday, her 21st birthday, by releasing a statement through Rubenstein Associates.
"At the request of the authorities, Rihanna is not commenting about the incident involving Chris Brown," the statement read. "She wants to assure her fans that she remains strong, is doing well, and deeply appreciates the outpouring of support she has received during this difficult time."
Happy 21st, indeed..............
So it's confirmed then........... no more 'alleged' etc..............
"At the request of the authorities, Rihanna is not commenting about the incident involving Chris Brown," the statement read. "She wants to assure her fans that she remains strong, is doing well, and deeply appreciates the outpouring of support she has received during this difficult time."
Happy 21st, indeed..............
So it's confirmed then........... no more 'alleged' etc..............
Feb 21st 2009, 10:15 am
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We are in no position to judge women who get involved with violent men. There is much more to it than just walking out if a man slaps you or worse. Many of the women come from backgrounds which involved violence against their mothers or other female members. It could also have involved them. Some of these women have no sense of self worth and believe they 'deserve' such treatment. Some of them are so destroyed and weakened by such abuse that they do not have the emotional strength to escape.
There is a huge difference between a woman loving a 'bad boy' who is a bit of a rogue and being controlled and scared to death of a violent and abusive partner.
Please don't think that the majority of women in relationships involving physical, verbal and psychological abuse are there because they are misguidedly 'in love' with the perpetrator - it is much less simple than that.
Hopefully and eventually the victims are able to get out of such destructive relationships and they get help and move on. Sometimes they don't and spend their lives suffering. Some get out and make everyone else pay the price of the abuse they have suffered from. It can be very, very difficult and very, very soul destroying. Some women thankfully come out of it and become stronger and use that strength to build new lives and help others.
Whatever the reason, such a thing should never, ever be trivialised.
There is a huge difference between a woman loving a 'bad boy' who is a bit of a rogue and being controlled and scared to death of a violent and abusive partner.
Please don't think that the majority of women in relationships involving physical, verbal and psychological abuse are there because they are misguidedly 'in love' with the perpetrator - it is much less simple than that.
Hopefully and eventually the victims are able to get out of such destructive relationships and they get help and move on. Sometimes they don't and spend their lives suffering. Some get out and make everyone else pay the price of the abuse they have suffered from. It can be very, very difficult and very, very soul destroying. Some women thankfully come out of it and become stronger and use that strength to build new lives and help others.
Whatever the reason, such a thing should never, ever be trivialised.
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Feb 22nd 2009, 1:57 am
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We are in no position to judge women who get involved with violent men. There is much more to it than just walking out if a man slaps you or worse. Many of the women come from backgrounds which involved violence against their mothers or other female members. It could also have involved them. Some of these women have no sense of self worth and believe they 'deserve' such treatment. Some of them are so destroyed and weakened by such abuse that they do not have the emotional strength to escape.
There is a huge difference between a woman loving a 'bad boy' who is a bit of a rogue and being controlled and scared to death of a violent and abusive partner.
Please don't think that the majority of women in relationships involving physical, verbal and psychological abuse are there because they are misguidedly 'in love' with the perpetrator - it is much less simple than that.
Hopefully and eventually the victims are able to get out of such destructive relationships and they get help and move on. Sometimes they don't and spend their lives suffering. Some get out and make everyone else pay the price of the abuse they have suffered from. It can be very, very difficult and very, very soul destroying. Some women thankfully come out of it and become stronger and use that strength to build new lives and help others.
Whatever the reason, such a thing should never, ever be trivialised.
There is a huge difference between a woman loving a 'bad boy' who is a bit of a rogue and being controlled and scared to death of a violent and abusive partner.
Please don't think that the majority of women in relationships involving physical, verbal and psychological abuse are there because they are misguidedly 'in love' with the perpetrator - it is much less simple than that.
Hopefully and eventually the victims are able to get out of such destructive relationships and they get help and move on. Sometimes they don't and spend their lives suffering. Some get out and make everyone else pay the price of the abuse they have suffered from. It can be very, very difficult and very, very soul destroying. Some women thankfully come out of it and become stronger and use that strength to build new lives and help others.
Whatever the reason, such a thing should never, ever be trivialised.
Feb 22nd 2009, 10:42 am
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Oh and when you've finished with Chris Brown send him over to mine for a good kicking...I have no problem with violence or arbitrary justice!
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Feb 22nd 2009, 10:59 am
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Good dose of VBRJ (Vigilante bum rape justice) needed perhaps? 
Anyway it's a well know fact that women love a bastard.
Anyway it's a well know fact that women love a bastard.
Feb 22nd 2009, 3:04 pm
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Females assaulting men? Equally vile.
Feb 22nd 2009, 3:07 pm
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It really isn't becoming to make light of something so nasty, shame on you.
Feb 22nd 2009, 10:06 pm
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That was a statement of fact.
This is distasteful:
This is distasteful:
Feb 28th 2009, 5:08 pm
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