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Old May 16th 2013, 8:30 pm
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My dentist at the moment is quite obviously gay .
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Old May 17th 2013, 5:46 am
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I liked this clip about gay marriage in NZ, puts things into perspective.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EhdSYJ0r9P0
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Old May 18th 2013, 8:28 am
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It has to be one of the world's gayest countries. I worked as a contractor at Aramco (engineering) and there were many jokes about the educational side of the operation being a hotbed, ahum ahum, of those otherwise inclined. You'll probably have the time of your life!
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Old May 18th 2013, 8:51 am
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^^^^ With a (screen) name like that ^^^^

Oh the irony.
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^^^^ With a (screen) name like that ^^^^

Oh the irony.
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Old May 19th 2013, 7:33 am
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That's a fine all-american name!
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Old May 19th 2013, 9:00 am
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Well as you're a septic I'll explain, a bender is a gay bloke in northern slang from the 70s, so a Randy Bender is a gay bloke who likes it a lot!
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Old May 19th 2013, 11:17 am
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I thought it was ok as long as you are the 'giver'.
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Old May 19th 2013, 12:50 pm
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Pitchers are considered normal. The catcher is the deviant. Lots of derogatory labels in colloquial Arabic for the passive partner - Manyuk, Banduk etc
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Old May 19th 2013, 7:26 pm
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Originally Posted by Kix
Well as you're a septic I'll explain, a bender is a gay bloke in northern slang from the 70s, so a Randy Bender is a gay bloke who likes it a lot!
You don't say!

Thing is though, I'm British.
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Old May 19th 2013, 8:13 pm
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Is "Aramco" a euphemism?

I wouldn't worry, keep your head down until you know the lay of the land.

If you don't try it, you'll never know.

Did I just say that?
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Old Jun 24th 2013, 9:36 am
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Thanks all for the advice! (Yes, Round it was a euphemism.) Going for it, got the job and really looking forward to arriving!
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Old Jun 24th 2013, 9:38 am
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Are you sure you aren't identifiable? I had a friend who told me he was gay (knew anyway) and he was shocked that I knew, he claimed none of his family knew etc when I am pretty sure they all know.
Like to think so, but as you say, could be misleading myself!
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Like to think so, but as you say, could be misleading myself!
Maybe the beefy skinhead isn't the camouflage you think is.
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Old Mar 30th 2014, 10:32 pm
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its pretty relaxed.. met more closet gays here than I thought could fit in the closet! I guess as long as you meet in private its life as normal...just hafta learn to keep it quiet! plus theres always bahrain for the weekends!!
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