Friendly or Just odd
#46
Re: Friendly or Just odd
Hi all,
This may sound like a really wierd/naiive question.
But basically since knowing i've been moving out to Dubai I have had a lot of people recommend friends (people they met once)etc on facebook and have ended up with a bit of a UAE network going on. I'm now just getting randoms add me and offer to take me out for clubbing and drinks etc. Now I've possibly lived in London for too long and am very suspicious of everyone but are these people mad or just being realllllllllllly friendly, and they seem to pounce once they know I am single and don't know anyone. Guys in particular (and a few girls) appear to be offering to take me out clubbing, all paid for - now in London I would say that means they expect something in return (which I have pulled them up on and they have denied) and I'm not the sort to lead a guy on so I'm just trying to work out whether they mean it when they say they just wanna take me out or are they secretly into some sort of female trafficing and I'm going to end up in some 3rd world country being used as a sexslave? How safe is it for women out there- I knwo over here I won't accept a drink in case its been spiked!
Obviously in London noone talks to anyone so this is all a bit unheard of for me- but I hesitant to want to let my guard completely down but don't want to alienate myself and seem liek some sort of up her own arse type- just how friendly are you all out there? or are these people just downright weird and I should run away very fast?
Kittycat
xxx
This may sound like a really wierd/naiive question.
But basically since knowing i've been moving out to Dubai I have had a lot of people recommend friends (people they met once)etc on facebook and have ended up with a bit of a UAE network going on. I'm now just getting randoms add me and offer to take me out for clubbing and drinks etc. Now I've possibly lived in London for too long and am very suspicious of everyone but are these people mad or just being realllllllllllly friendly, and they seem to pounce once they know I am single and don't know anyone. Guys in particular (and a few girls) appear to be offering to take me out clubbing, all paid for - now in London I would say that means they expect something in return (which I have pulled them up on and they have denied) and I'm not the sort to lead a guy on so I'm just trying to work out whether they mean it when they say they just wanna take me out or are they secretly into some sort of female trafficing and I'm going to end up in some 3rd world country being used as a sexslave? How safe is it for women out there- I knwo over here I won't accept a drink in case its been spiked!
Obviously in London noone talks to anyone so this is all a bit unheard of for me- but I hesitant to want to let my guard completely down but don't want to alienate myself and seem liek some sort of up her own arse type- just how friendly are you all out there? or are these people just downright weird and I should run away very fast?
Kittycat
xxx
but anyway...you're not an 18 year old that's never been out are you...so just use your brains and common sense...
you've put up that you are single and you don't know anyone, so that's honey for the bees...
#48
Re: Friendly or Just odd
also...it's just Facebook...not accepting 'friends' is not going to alinate you from anything...
I am sure there are guys on there that do nothing else all day than adding random people/woman...personally, I ignore them all, won't even send a message, just delete straight away.
I am sure there are guys on there that do nothing else all day than adding random people/woman...personally, I ignore them all, won't even send a message, just delete straight away.
#49
Re: Friendly or Just odd
also...it's just Facebook...not accepting 'friends' is not going to alinate you from anything...
I am sure there are guys on there that do nothing else all day than adding random people/woman...personally, I ignore them all, won't even send a message, just delete straight away.
I am sure there are guys on there that do nothing else all day than adding random people/woman...personally, I ignore them all, won't even send a message, just delete straight away.
#52
Re: Friendly or Just odd
also...it's just Facebook...not accepting 'friends' is not going to alinate you from anything...
I am sure there are guys on there that do nothing else all day than adding random people/woman...personally, I ignore them all, won't even send a message, just delete straight away.
I am sure there are guys on there that do nothing else all day than adding random people/woman...personally, I ignore them all, won't even send a message, just delete straight away.
I wonder what their success rate is?
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#55
Re: Friendly or Just odd
well, looking at some of them they are very succesful...some of those guys have counless 'friends', all female, so there must be a load of woman out there who will accept anything...
#58
Re: Friendly or Just odd
yeah, I've heard of it...
I don't really do anything on Facebook to be honest, can't be bothered...
#59
Re: Friendly or Just odd
MM, xx