Dating your boss..
#16
Re: Dating your boss..
The million dollar question, what to do (yani)?
Been working with her for a while now, and right from the beginning we kinda hit it off (I think). We go shopping, have dinner/drinks after work, her texting me at random timings to go out and do something together, she invited me to join her at a concert in AD and being flirty with me all the time.
Now the thing is, this all could be explained as her just being friendly and I will probably be in big shit if I misread everything (at least a very big embarresment), so what do I do with it?
Try my luck and go for it, with all the consequences if it fails? Or just forget about it and find someone else? ( )
Not that it matters, but she is not "western", she is Asian but not from the "mail-order category".
Been working with her for a while now, and right from the beginning we kinda hit it off (I think). We go shopping, have dinner/drinks after work, her texting me at random timings to go out and do something together, she invited me to join her at a concert in AD and being flirty with me all the time.
Now the thing is, this all could be explained as her just being friendly and I will probably be in big shit if I misread everything (at least a very big embarresment), so what do I do with it?
Try my luck and go for it, with all the consequences if it fails? Or just forget about it and find someone else? ( )
Not that it matters, but she is not "western", she is Asian but not from the "mail-order category".
#17
Re: Dating your boss..
oooh, that would be soooooo satisfying - sacking some nob who'd dumped you - assuming he did dump her of course, it could have been the other way round, but it's nice to imagine in case he had
I'm rambling - no tea yet this morning
N
I'm rambling - no tea yet this morning
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#18
Re: Dating your boss..
There are possibly four ways this could go.
1. She really likes you and you attempt to distance yourself from her, she takes it badly. Your life is made a living hell.
2. She really likes you and you go for it, things get messy and it ends badly. Your life is made a living hell.
3. She really likes you and you go for it, she's your soul mate, you get married. Your life is made a living hell.
4. She only sees you as a mate, you make a move and are rejected. Your life is made a living hell.
I say go for it, then when it goes badly you can keep us all entertained with the story and we can all tut tut and say "We told you so"
1. She really likes you and you attempt to distance yourself from her, she takes it badly. Your life is made a living hell.
2. She really likes you and you go for it, things get messy and it ends badly. Your life is made a living hell.
3. She really likes you and you go for it, she's your soul mate, you get married. Your life is made a living hell.
4. She only sees you as a mate, you make a move and are rejected. Your life is made a living hell.
I say go for it, then when it goes badly you can keep us all entertained with the story and we can all tut tut and say "We told you so"
#19
Re: Dating your boss..
There are possibly four ways this could go.
1. She really likes you and you attempt to distance yourself from her, she takes it badly. Your life is made a living hell.
2. She really likes you and you go for it, things get messy and it ends badly. Your life is made a living hell.
3. She really likes you and you go for it, she's your soul mate, you get married. Your life is made a living hell.
4. She only sees you as a mate, you make a move and are rejected. Your life is made a living hell.
I say go for it, then when it goes badly you can keep us all entertained with the story and we can all tut tut and say "We told you so"
1. She really likes you and you attempt to distance yourself from her, she takes it badly. Your life is made a living hell.
2. She really likes you and you go for it, things get messy and it ends badly. Your life is made a living hell.
3. She really likes you and you go for it, she's your soul mate, you get married. Your life is made a living hell.
4. She only sees you as a mate, you make a move and are rejected. Your life is made a living hell.
I say go for it, then when it goes badly you can keep us all entertained with the story and we can all tut tut and say "We told you so"
Tonight clubbing with her, I'll keep you guys updated
#20
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Re: Dating your boss..
You are a very foolish fellow indeed. You ask for advice and then completely ignore what virtually everyone says.
#21
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Re: Dating your boss..
pump her up the dunger and get some photographs.
when/if you split up, tell her to ask for a transfer or some photo's will appear around the office.
nasty, but effective..
when/if you split up, tell her to ask for a transfer or some photo's will appear around the office.
nasty, but effective..
#23
Re: Dating your boss..
Anyway, I was leaning to go for it anyway already actually, like someone said; what if she is the one? I enjoy spending time with her a lot, and so does she I guess otherwise she wouldn't be doing it. Gotta find out and there's only one way to do that
#24
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Re: Dating your boss..
A quick count learns that at least 7 people said "Go for it" in one way or the other, so I'm not completely ignoring what virtually everyone says but more following advice
Anyway, I was leaning to go for it anyway already actually, like someone said; what if she is the one? I enjoy spending time with her a lot, and so does she I guess otherwise she wouldn't be doing it. Gotta find out and there's only one way to do that
Anyway, I was leaning to go for it anyway already actually, like someone said; what if she is the one? I enjoy spending time with her a lot, and so does she I guess otherwise she wouldn't be doing it. Gotta find out and there's only one way to do that
but get photos as an insurance policy
#25
Re: Dating your boss..
A quick count learns that at least 7 people said "Go for it" in one way or the other, so I'm not completely ignoring what virtually everyone says but more following advice
Anyway, I was leaning to go for it anyway already actually, like someone said; what if she is the one? I enjoy spending time with her a lot, and so does she I guess otherwise she wouldn't be doing it. Gotta find out and there's only one way to do that
Anyway, I was leaning to go for it anyway already actually, like someone said; what if she is the one? I enjoy spending time with her a lot, and so does she I guess otherwise she wouldn't be doing it. Gotta find out and there's only one way to do that
#26
Re: Dating your boss..
A quick count learns that at least 7 people said "Go for it" in one way or the other, so I'm not completely ignoring what virtually everyone says but more following advice
Anyway, I was leaning to go for it anyway already actually, like someone said; what if she is the one? I enjoy spending time with her a lot, and so does she I guess otherwise she wouldn't be doing it. Gotta find out and there's only one way to do that
Anyway, I was leaning to go for it anyway already actually, like someone said; what if she is the one? I enjoy spending time with her a lot, and so does she I guess otherwise she wouldn't be doing it. Gotta find out and there's only one way to do that
what would u have done if 100% of the peoples said dont do it?
#29
Re: Dating your boss..
A quick count learns that at least 7 people said "Go for it" in one way or the other, so I'm not completely ignoring what virtually everyone says but more following advice
Anyway, I was leaning to go for it anyway already actually, like someone said; what if she is the one? I enjoy spending time with her a lot, and so does she I guess otherwise she wouldn't be doing it. Gotta find out and there's only one way to do that
Anyway, I was leaning to go for it anyway already actually, like someone said; what if she is the one? I enjoy spending time with her a lot, and so does she I guess otherwise she wouldn't be doing it. Gotta find out and there's only one way to do that
#30
Re: Dating your boss..
The million dollar question, what to do (yani)?
Been working with her for a while now, and right from the beginning we kinda hit it off (I think). We go shopping, have dinner/drinks after work, her texting me at random timings to go out and do something together, she invited me to join her at a concert in AD and being flirty with me all the time.
Now the thing is, this all could be explained as her just being friendly and I will probably be in big shit if I misread everything (at least a very big embarresment), so what do I do with it?
Try my luck and go for it, with all the consequences if it fails? Or just forget about it and find someone else? ( )
Not that it matters, but she is not "western", she is Asian but not from the "mail-order category".
Been working with her for a while now, and right from the beginning we kinda hit it off (I think). We go shopping, have dinner/drinks after work, her texting me at random timings to go out and do something together, she invited me to join her at a concert in AD and being flirty with me all the time.
Now the thing is, this all could be explained as her just being friendly and I will probably be in big shit if I misread everything (at least a very big embarresment), so what do I do with it?
Try my luck and go for it, with all the consequences if it fails? Or just forget about it and find someone else? ( )
Not that it matters, but she is not "western", she is Asian but not from the "mail-order category".
How big are her tits?