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Paidtoplease Nov 28th 2007 3:46 am

Cyber S#x !!!
 
Does it count as cheating ???

Ray Nov 28th 2007 3:53 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by Paidtoplease (Post 5608666)
Does it count as cheating ???

Not if its over 5000 miles away

Paidtoplease Nov 28th 2007 3:54 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 5608679)
Not if its over 5000 miles away


So distance is a factor, why ???

MataHari Nov 28th 2007 3:55 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by Paidtoplease (Post 5608666)
Does it count as cheating ???

what answer would you like to hear best...

Paidtoplease Nov 28th 2007 3:57 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5608682)
what answer would you like to hear best...

Just wondering folks opinion re this, I myself do think it is cheating (mental cheating) why do some people think that it is acceptable because of the distance and no big deal, its the same as Text sex...

MataHari Nov 28th 2007 4:01 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by Paidtoplease (Post 5608689)
Just wondering folks opinion re this, I myself do think it is cheating (mental cheating) why do some people think that it is acceptable because of the distance and no big deal, its the same as Text sex...

so mental cheating is also thinking about someone else while you're doing it type of thing like...

Paidtoplease Nov 28th 2007 4:12 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5608704)
so mental cheating is also thinking about someone else while you're doing it type of thing like...

Depends if it a fantasy to help with the action in hand (nothing wrong with that) or a wishing that you were with the other person rather than who you are with(that is just wrong).

Cyber/Text sex is more to do with not just the thought but there is an action of comminication, secrects, would you feel offended/hurt if caught your other half having an intimate relationship in this manner ???

MataHari Nov 28th 2007 4:14 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by Paidtoplease (Post 5608727)
Depends if it a fantasy to help with the action in hand (nothing wrong with that) or a wishing that you were with the other person rather than who you are with(that is just wrong).

Cyber/Text sex is more to do with not just the thought but there is an action of comminication, secrects, would you feel offended/hurt if caught your other half having an intimate relationship in this manner ???

I probably would, so the best thing is not to find out...

Paidtoplease Nov 28th 2007 4:19 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5608732)
I probably would, so the best thing is not to find out...

What you don't know: won't hurt you....true, no point in imagining something that may or may not be there is there. But often some people aren't that clever at hiding the act.

MataHari Nov 28th 2007 4:23 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by Paidtoplease (Post 5608735)
What you don't know: won't hurt you....true, no point in imagining something that may or may not be there is there. But often some people aren't that clever at hiding the act.

maybe it's time for a Cybersex for Dummies edition....

Paidtoplease Nov 28th 2007 4:40 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5608745)
maybe it's time for a Cybersex for Dummies edition....

That would be a good read !!!

MataHari Nov 28th 2007 4:43 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by Paidtoplease (Post 5608781)
That would be a good read !!!

I'd say the main message would be.....delete delete delete

shakh your bootie Nov 28th 2007 4:44 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 
Phone sex makes more sense - it doesn't leave a trace... Unless someone has a tape recorder.

Paidtoplease Nov 28th 2007 4:45 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 5608783)
I'd say the main message would be.....delete delete delete

As I said some folks ain't that clever !!!

MataHari Nov 28th 2007 4:46 am

Re: Cyber S#x !!!
 

Originally Posted by shakh your bootie (Post 5608785)
Phone sex makes more sense - it doesn't leave a trace... Unless someone has a tape recorder.

ahhh...the voice of experience


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