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Old Mar 30th 2010, 7:17 pm
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Originally Posted by Patsy Stoned
The UK licensing laws are very specific about this..in effect we are allowing people into our living rooms.. This is the common law........The license
holder ( that means the person who's name is above the door as in ( Mrs Patsystoned is licensed to sell.........) or a bartender given authority by the licensee does not need to provide a reason for refusing to serve somebody..the person may, ofcourse, try to sue them, but they would have a very difficult job trying to prove that it was discriminatory.
" she refused to serve me because I am black"...err ...no there are other black people in the bar....Oh ..she refused to serve me because I am gay....errr... no there are other gays in the bar............ I refused to serve you because.............I CAN!!

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oh and if you are interested here is the list of people it is illegal to serve drinks to..this is usually a question the magistrates ask you when you apply for your license


1) A Policeman in uniform.
2)Anyone under the age of 18.
3)Anyone you know to be under th influence of drugs or alcohol.
4)A known prostitute.
Oooops.......... I once bought a drink for a drug-ravaged under-age prostitute dressed as a police officer...........
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so if your drunk its illegal to be served another drink?
Yes ..the UK licensing laws are very specific about that..but as a landlord/lady you make a judgement call..there is a huge difference between a happy drunk and an aggressive 1.
But if the police wanted to be shirty they could ask for your license to be revoked if you kept "an unruly house"
I would very rarely call the police to sort out a problem in my pub because they can then deem you "unable to control the licensed premises"
But you are not breaking the law per se..it is the Landlord breaking the law..it is not illegal to have a drink if you are drunk.(unless you are deemed a "public nuisance") but it is illegal for a licenseholder to serve a drunk person

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Oooops.......... I once bought a drink for a drug-ravaged under-age prostitute dressed as a police officer...........
So that is how you met your wife!!

Just a joke darling xxxx
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Old Mar 30th 2010, 7:22 pm
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Originally Posted by Patsy Stoned
So that is how you met your wife!!

Just a joke darling xxxx
Not a funny one though, but what the heck...........
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Old Mar 30th 2010, 7:23 pm
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Not a funny one though, but what the heck...........
Well it amused me sweetie
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Well it amused me sweetie
I was about to suggest that myself.
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Originally Posted by Patsy Stoned
oh and if you are interested here is the list of people it is illegal to serve drinks to..this is usually a question the magistrates ask you when you apply for your license

4)A known prostitute.
That's quite some institutional discrimination. OK to serve a known rapist, robber or murderer, but to serve someone engaged in an activity which itself is not illegal is not allowed. There'd be a lot of thirstly ladies in the Ally Pally if they applied that here...
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That's quite some institutional discrimination. OK to serve a known rapist, robber or murderer, but to serve someone engaged in an activity which itself is not illegal is not allowed. There'd be a lot of thirstly ladies in the Ally Pally if they applied that here...
but if they were known rapist/murders/etc, they would have been charged and done their time. I guess they don't want prostitutes in the pubs... maybe Dubai could use this law!
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Originally Posted by Patsy Stoned
Yes ..the UK licensing laws are very specific about that..but as a landlord/lady you make a judgement call..there is a huge difference between a happy drunk and an aggressive 1.
But if the police wanted to be shirty they could ask for your license to be revoked if you kept "an unruly house"
I would very rarely call the police to sort out a problem in my pub because they can then deem you "unable to control the licensed premises"
But you are not breaking the law per se..it is the Landlord breaking the law..it is not illegal to have a drink if you are drunk.(unless you are deemed a "public nuisance") but it is illegal for a licenseholder to serve a drunk person
In which case, many city and town pubs break the law every friday and saturday night given the predominance of yoof bingedrinking in the UK...
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In which case, many city and town pubs break the law every friday and saturday night given the predominance of yoof bingedrinking in the UK...
which is why I gave up my license and moved abroad...it used to be fairly safe being a landlady, but I knew too many licensees who had been glassed by yobs and decided it was time!
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which is why I gave up my license and moved abroad...it used to be fairly safe being a landlady, but I knew too many licensees who had been glassed by yobs and decided it was time!
They are beastly, the great unwashed....
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They are beastly, the great unwashed....
Arent they just darling!..sorry for the lack of punctuation, I am using my sisters laptop and it is a turkish keyboard and I cant find the apostrophe!!
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Are you all still so sure...?

"The legal position is perfectly clear. If you are going to offer the public a commercial service – and B&Bs are a commercial service – then people cannot be refused that service on the grounds of sexuality. No one is obliged to run a B&B, but people who do so have to obey the law. "I don't think anyone, including the Tories, wants to go back to the days where there is a sign outside saying: 'No gays, no blacks, no Irish.'"

Labour said that Grayling's comments ran contrary to the Equality Act (Sexual Orientation) Regulations 2007, which state that no one should be refused goods or services on the grounds of their sexuality.


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Originally Posted by Patsy Stoned
Arent they just darling!..sorry for the lack of punctuation, I am using my sisters laptop and it is a turkish keyboard and I cant find the apostrophe!!

Oh it's truly refreshing that you even acknowledge it's position/required presence.I know you know it should be there but to comment on it's absence fills me with hope.

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Are you all still so sure...?

"The legal position is perfectly clear. If you are going to offer the public a commercial service – and B&Bs are a commercial service – then people cannot be refused that service on the grounds of sexuality. No one is obliged to run a B&B, but people who do so have to obey the law. "I don't think anyone, including the Tories, wants to go back to the days where there is a sign outside saying: 'No gays, no blacks, no Irish.'"

Labour said that Grayling's comments ran contrary to the Equality Act (Sexual Orientation) Regulations 2007, which state that no one should be refused goods or services on the grounds of their sexuality.


http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/2010...-bed-breakfast
The original signs actually read: "No dogs, no blacks, no Irish" but I suppose it's easy to confuse gays with dogs............ (insert your own punchlines here....)
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