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The Dean Apr 1st 2014 2:51 pm

Best anti-rape poster ever...........
 
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Simple but brilliant.............

MAV_DXB Apr 1st 2014 3:35 pm

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11. Shouting "boo" first does not constitute surprise sex, it's rape.

Dumbo Apr 1st 2014 4:11 pm

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Really? I would say that it pokes fun at a serious issue but each to their own I guess.

Blue Cat Apr 1st 2014 5:30 pm

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very strange I think?

The Dean Apr 2nd 2014 8:29 am

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It is a spoof, in one sense - all the 'how to avoid getting raped' advice is usually aimed at women; this simply makes the very valid point that, if men stopped raping, there would be nothing for women to worry about.

I think it's very clever - and very accurate.

OriginalSunshine Apr 2nd 2014 1:32 pm

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 11201921)
It is a spoof, in one sense - all the 'how to avoid getting raped' advice is usually aimed at women; this simply makes the very valid point that, if men stopped raping, there would be nothing for women to worry about.

I think it's very clever - and very accurate.

I agree - as parents (of boys, in particular for this issue) we have a duty to bring up our children to behave responsibly

Dumbo Apr 2nd 2014 4:13 pm

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 11201921)
It is a spoof, in one sense - all the 'how to avoid getting raped' advice is usually aimed at women; this simply makes the very valid point that, if men stopped raping, there would be nothing for women to worry about.

I think it's very clever - and very accurate.

I 'get' it, I just don't agree with you.

By your line of thought the same could be done for pedophiles.......

1. Remember not to rape a child.

etc.

See where I am coming from?

scrubbedexpat141 Apr 2nd 2014 4:29 pm

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Originally Posted by Dumbo (Post 11202277)
I 'get' it, I just don't agree with you.

By your line of thought the same could be done for pedophiles.......

1. Remember not to rape a child.

etc.

See where I am coming from?

Then pull in, 2. Remember not to kill someone and we just end up with the ten commandments...

The Dean Apr 2nd 2014 4:46 pm

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Originally Posted by Dumbo (Post 11202277)
I 'get' it, I just don't agree with you.

By your line of thought the same could be done for pedophiles.......

1. Remember not to rape a child.

etc.

See where I am coming from?

That's a completely different example.

Women who have been raped are often accused of 'provocative' behaviour ("She was wearing a short skirt, so she was obviously asking for it......." etc). This approach puts the responsibility back onto men not to rape, rather than telling women to 'avoid' being raped. I think it is very clever, and makes a point that is too often ignored.

The paedophile comparison is meaningless in that context.

the_red_sheep Apr 2nd 2014 5:07 pm

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I think is crass and deliberately provocative, which given the subject matter don’t sit very well. It also has an expectation of a level of intelligence and understanding of satire which I suspect the average person (never mind rapist) is unlikely to have.

Also, I’m not really sure where and in what context this could ever be used.

The Dean Apr 2nd 2014 5:15 pm

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Originally Posted by the_red_sheep (Post 11202308)
I think is crass and deliberately provocative, which given the subject matter don’t sit very well. It also has an expectation of a level of intelligence and understanding of satire which I suspect the average person (never mind rapist) is unlikely to have.

Also, I'm not really sure where and in what context this could ever be used.

Well, the average person (who is that, by the way?) could simply take it literally, and obey the instructions............

Yoohoo Apr 2nd 2014 5:17 pm

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Communications 101: If you have an extremely important message you should deliver it in multiple formats in as many ways as it takes to get it across. This means you may need to deliver the message in a language you don't speak. Do it anyway.

Personally, I quite like the way this message is being delivered. It would definitely sit well with at least one target demographic - smartass university students who are learning to see the world in so many shades of grey they forget that sometimes black and white is entirely appropriate.

Emaaraat2014 Apr 2nd 2014 5:44 pm

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 11202312)
Well, the average person (who is that, by the way?) could simply take it literally, and obey the instructions............

How about: men should be held responsible for raping--no excuses taken, while advising women to take precaution at the same time? Does everyone agree with that?

weasel decentral Apr 2nd 2014 5:51 pm

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Originally Posted by Emaaraat2014 (Post 11202333)
How about: men should be held responsible for raping--no excuses taken, while advising women to take precaution at the same time? Does everyone agree with that?

No because that's too sensible!

the_red_sheep Apr 2nd 2014 7:38 pm

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Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 11202312)
Well, the average person (who is that, by the way?)

Fair point, let's call them Sun and Daily Mail readers.


Originally Posted by The Dean (Post 11202312)
could simply take it literally, and obey the instructions............

Or, perhaps more likely, be offended by the seemingly flippant attitude being taken to a serious topic, resulting in the meaning of the message being lost and replaced with indignant outrage.

the_red_sheep Apr 2nd 2014 7:42 pm

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Originally Posted by Yoohoo (Post 11202315)
Communications 101: If you have an extremely important message you should deliver it in multiple formats in as many ways as it takes to get it across. This means you may need to deliver the message in a language you don't speak. Do it anyway.

True, but Communications 102 would tell you to makes sure to target your tailored message at the intended audience, otherwise it will likely be misconstrued, misunderstood and lost.

Outwith the context of where this message was meant to be used, and who it was meant to target, it could very easily be viewed as being offensive and insensitive.

Millhouse Apr 2nd 2014 7:52 pm

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Originally Posted by the_red_sheep (Post 11202392)
True, but Communications 102 would tell you to makes sure to target your tailored message at the intended audience, otherwise it will likely be misconstrued, misunderstood and lost.

Outwith the context of where this message was meant to be used, and who it was meant to target, it could very easily be viewed as being offensive and insensitive.

What does communications 103 tell us? is that the use of ipads on planes?

MataHari Apr 2nd 2014 7:57 pm

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Originally Posted by Emaaraat2014 (Post 11202333)
How about: men should be held responsible for raping--no excuses taken, while advising women to take precaution at the same time? Does everyone agree with that?

exactly...men shouldn't rape...but 'they' do, so until that time it's up to women to protect themselves, until such time (never I guess) men are in control of their 'urges'...

in an ideal world women should be able to walk around naked, drunk, alone etc without having to worry about getting raped...in the meantime women have to be sensible about their behaviour, and that is not the same as saying if she is dressed in a short skirt, she is asking for it...

I believe this type of rape, where a woman is alone, drunk and maybe dressed 'sexy' walking down a dark alley, is not the most commom form of rape by the way...a lot of sexual agression/abuse takes place within marriages/long term relationsships where the whole 'she was asking for it' theory doesn't apply...

the_red_sheep Apr 2nd 2014 7:59 pm

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Originally Posted by Millhouse (Post 11202400)
What does communications 103 tell us? is that the use of ipads on planes?

Communications 103 - some people are *****, if they're poor ***** they're not for us, just ignore them, if they're rich ***** try harder to make them like us

scrubbedexpat141 Apr 2nd 2014 9:08 pm

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Originally Posted by MataHari (Post 11202407)
exactly...men shouldn't rape...but 'they' do, so until that time it's up to women to protect themselves, until such time (never I guess) men are in control of their 'urges'...

in an ideal world women should be able to walk around naked, drunk, alone etc without having to worry about getting raped...in the meantime women have to be sensible about their behaviour, and that is not the same as saying if she is dressed in a short skirt, she is asking for it...

I believe this type of rape, where a woman is alone, drunk and maybe dressed 'sexy' walking down a dark alley, is not the most commom form of rape by the way...a lot of sexual agression/abuse takes place within marriages/long term relationsships where the whole 'she was asking for it' theory doesn't apply...

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