Affairs of the heart
#62
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Re: Affairs of the heart
maybe what i meant was for men to try not to look at attractive areas of a woman which means if they had to look it should be decently
and for women to appear in a decent way as well
i recall you saying once (Cover up harlots)
and for women to appear in a decent way as well
i recall you saying once (Cover up harlots)
#63
Re: Affairs of the heart
Sorry, wasn't aware of that. Good luck Twinkle and all the very best...
Last edited by IndieG; Dec 19th 2008 at 9:43 am.
#66
#70
Re: Affairs of the heart
Well your points 2 is interesting - especially if the husband is a Muslim and takes a 2nd wife (as his right) and then expects his 1st wife to grin and bear it.
Last edited by Squirty Cream; Dec 20th 2008 at 3:10 pm.
#73
Re: Affairs of the heart
I know all the religious stuff.
But you said 'why would a woman allow her husband to have sex with another woman?'
If the man has taken a second wife without advising the first wife, this is in effect what the husband is asking the first wife to do - sah?
But you said 'why would a woman allow her husband to have sex with another woman?'
If the man has taken a second wife without advising the first wife, this is in effect what the husband is asking the first wife to do - sah?
#74
Re: Affairs of the heart
And there is no power on earth to take that right away from man in Islam...
#75
Re: Affairs of the heart
When this stuff was taught to my girlies, and the arguments given tried to justify, convince and persuade them to accept this it caused all sorts of problems - I have highly opinionated daughters who are very verbal and can be particularly scathing at times.......... they ALWAYS had the last word.