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2 wives? Only for a month? Could be expensive!

Old Aug 14th 2013, 4:18 pm
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Originally Posted by britexpat76 View Post
Spot on. I wonder how many times this actually happens though but as the blokes do not want the hassle or people finding out they just pay the woman to keep quiet?

I guess that makes her the world most expensive prostitute, a supermodel that way inclined would only cost 10k. (According to the news of the world in its day)
more than you and I can guess mate, trust me!

and who would WANT to be with a supermodel? too much hassle and mind games
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Old Aug 14th 2013, 4:28 pm
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Originally Posted by Irishbeekeeper View Post
more than you and I can guess mate, trust me!

and who would WANT to be with a supermodel? too much hassle and mind games
One night would be fun though.....
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Old Aug 14th 2013, 4:33 pm
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Default Re: 2 wives? Only for a month? Could be expensive!

Originally Posted by Meow View Post
True.

A woman is often damned if she does and damned if she doesn't, but if such narrowminded views of relationships didn't exist and everyone behaved with consideration for others we wouldn't have cases like this.

Yet again we see religion's obsession with sex.
Damn right it should do!! Sex implies children production, and in Islam children’s rights are above anybody else’s
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Old Aug 14th 2013, 4:37 pm
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Originally Posted by Irishbeekeeper View Post
yes and no
Islam asks the man to be considerate to his wife, if she says no then a good man would not marry again
but if she is a crazy a$$, up at 3 in the morning fighting all the time, man eater, then I guess her refusal dont mean that much




We arent sure that it was a muttah marriage mate since that only exists in shiaism not in sunnism (and the vast majority here are sunni so we cant be sure)

I think there is one point that is being missed by some here...after the consummation, SHE is the one who started asking for a divorce, knowing full well that he would have to honor the contract
when he refused, she went behind his back and stole his first wife's number from his mobile and then called her to make sure the situation blew up in his face, which it naturally did and he had no choice but to file for a divorce as he did not want to loose his marriage with the first wife
and the end result : she got exactly what she wanted a few days of sex and then a lot of money
Im with kix and all on this one, it was a well played game in the end, but she is a manipulative conniving ****
the guys fault : he is an idiot, should have kept it in his pants thats all

Islam views a marriage as a contract between two parties, just like any other business contract between two parties where they can specify any conditions they wish to stipulate. If a woman, for example, stipulates in the contract that her husband to be shall not get married again, then she can do that. Otherwise, If nothing was stipulated in the marriage contract then a man has the right to marry four wives and the right to divorce. Therefore, traditionally in the Arab world a bride’s family would stipulate in their daughter’s marriage contract that if the husband decides to divorce her then he should pay her money, normally a hefty amount of gold, a kind of protection for her.
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Old Aug 14th 2013, 4:40 pm
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Originally Posted by redShark View Post
Damn right it should do!! Sex implies children production, and in Islam children’s rights are above anybody else’s
You may infer it, but it certainly wasn't implied.

And the second comment must explain the ENORMOUS number of child safety car seats that are sold in the GCC every year.
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Old Aug 14th 2013, 5:59 pm
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Originally Posted by redShark View Post
in Islam children’s rights are above anybody else’s

If that was the case you would let the child choose its religion, you are abusing the childs right to a fair, balanced and free thinking life from birth.

Teaching a child if it misbehaves, doesnt pray etc etc it will die a horrible death in hell is tantamount to abuse.
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Old Aug 14th 2013, 7:43 pm
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Originally Posted by britexpat76 View Post
One night would be fun though.....
Supermodels are skinny, stuck up and not a lot of fun to be around unless you're into boobless skeletons who know how to walk up and down runways.

Glamour models on the other hand...usually curvy, sexy and don't take themselves too seriously. Fewer hang ups about being good looking which usually equates to being better in bed.

Of course it's all subjective. Some men do find starved looking waifs with self image problems attractive...

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Supermodels are skinny, stuck up and not a lot of fun to be around unless you're into boobless skeletons who know how to walk up and down runways.

Glamour models on the other hand...usually curvy, sexy and don't take themselves too seriously. Fewer hang ups about being good looking which usually equates to being better in bed.

Of course it's all subjective. Some men do find starved looking waifs with self image problems attractive...

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Originally Posted by redShark View Post
Damn right it should do!! Sex implies children production, and in Islam children’s rights are above anybody else’s
I doubt it , as minors especially women have to follow men's laws whether they like it or not,
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Old Aug 18th 2013, 11:31 am
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Originally Posted by Bahtatboy View Post
You may infer it, but it certainly wasn't implied.

And the second comment must explain the ENORMOUS number of child safety car seats that are sold in the GCC every year.


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There talks a man with experience...
Experience or not I think it's fairly self-evident. Glamour models are generally more fun to be around, and they are not all brainless bimbos either.

Not that there's anything wrong with being a really sexy brainless bimbo of course

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Originally Posted by Bahtatboy View Post
You may infer it, but it certainly wasn't implied.

And the second comment must explain the ENORMOUS number of child safety car seats that are sold in the GCC every year.
And that they never leave the children to die in hot cars and or let them fall off balconies.

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Originally Posted by Meow View Post
And that they never leave the children to die in hot cars and or let them fall off balconies.
Hardly any accidents here. Very careful and polite driving too. Very safe place for children to play in the street.

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Originally Posted by redShark View Post
Islam views a marriage as a contract between two parties, just like any other business contract between two parties where they can specify any conditions they wish to stipulate.
Who said romance was dead.
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Old Aug 19th 2013, 7:28 am
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Who said romance was dead.
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