Me and My Family
#4936
Re: Me and My Family
I think you or someone made this point before, but you could be right. It is interesting to note that the first big scam happened two years ago in December. This was the staged burglary and her wallet with about 25k was stolen. In January she began having her hormonal problems which has been widely documented. She still has that problem incidentally.
Moving on.....
I got a message this morning that she wants 40kpm for life. I politely said no. I made a counter offer of 12k pm for 12 months to see her through covid and to get her preparations sorted out for a return to Kuwait. Her response was see you in court.
Keep safe all
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Moving on.....
I got a message this morning that she wants 40kpm for life. I politely said no. I made a counter offer of 12k pm for 12 months to see her through covid and to get her preparations sorted out for a return to Kuwait. Her response was see you in court.
Keep safe all
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#4938
Re: Me and My Family
I think you or someone made this point before, but you could be right. It is interesting to note that the first big scam I was aware of happened two years ago in December. This was the staged burglary and her wallet with about 25k was stolen. In January she began having her hormonal problems which has been widely documented. She still has that problem incidentally.
Moving on.....
I got a message this morning that she wants 40kpm for life. I politely said no. I made a counter offer of 12k pm for 12 months to see her through covid and to get her preparations sorted out for a return to Kuwait. Her response was see you in court.
Keep safe all
.
Moving on.....
I got a message this morning that she wants 40kpm for life. I politely said no. I made a counter offer of 12k pm for 12 months to see her through covid and to get her preparations sorted out for a return to Kuwait. Her response was see you in court.
Keep safe all
.
#4939
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Re: Me and My Family
If that is less than court fees, and settles issue and Phil can discipline himself to have no contact with this woman, or her friends, probably better than going to court as a foreigner..
#4940
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Re: Me and My Family
Agree entirely, I had to make a stark choice none of which were pleasant. I hated the idea of giving that woman more money but it was the choice of that or for about the same money taking my chance in court and risk jail, deportation and living the rest of my life in a damp bed sit somewhere thinking what if. She has made attempts to contact me before which I have ignored. I contacted her when it appeared she made an overture for a reconciliation. I thought that was the moment to offer a settlement. As you know she came back with an impossible demand but she has now come back spitting fire and venom and I have ignored her messages. Her parting shot was that I have a case coming from NBI. So it is not a question of me disciplining myself.
Thanks
Keep safe all
Last edited by Philosophical 11; Oct 29th 2020 at 10:51 am.
#4941
Re: Me and My Family
I got a message this morning that she wants 40kpm for life. I politely said no. I made a counter offer of 12k pm for 12 months to see her through covid and to get her preparations sorted out for a return to Kuwait. Her response was see you in court.
Keep safe all
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#4943
Re: Me and My Family
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#4945
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Re: Me and My Family
Her goals are clearly both money and the complete humiliation of P11.
Going to the courts may be the only way he can deal with his errant marriage record.
Having a judge with a rampant anti foreigner bias is a risk which has to be balanced against the chances of getting a good and affordable settlement and the defence case strength.
#4947
Re: Me and My Family
I sincerely hope that you are forwarding all of these messages to your female lawyer; this is too good to lose should anything happen to your mobile. As lady lawyer will be the one speaking to 'ex-lovely-lady' in the courtroom, I can only imagine the decibels the rebuttal will reach (if she turns up). Nothing says money grabber more than a woman turning down a very good income (?) for doing nothing other than being an ex, than these messages.
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