Me and My Family
Nov 5th 2019, 1:05 pm
#3421
Concierge
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 46,386
Nov 5th 2019, 1:33 pm
#3422
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Aug 2009
Location: Disneyland, Dubai
Posts: 15,887
Re: Me and My Family
You would only need this information if you intend to stay. It’s so much better to just leave, the Philippines is hardly utopia and most of Asia is copy-paste: Pretty much only the label on the beer changes.
Nov 5th 2019, 5:35 pm
#3423
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Jul 2016
Posts: 10,006
Re: Me and My Family
As far as supporting her concerns, first it must be by mutual consent on the allowance. If that cannot be agreed then it goes to the equivalent of a court order. Her health care bills most certainly. I have already told her that her vitamin pills ...skin whitening creams etc will not be paid for by me. Prescriptive meds only. Thanks for your kind words...
Moving on...
Still nothing from the creditor nor from my wife about the debt. Sounds like a set-up. Monday is when she gets paid and I shall be interested in her payslip and contract of employment if she has no funds to declare.
Thanks all for your support...
Regards
Moving on...
Still nothing from the creditor nor from my wife about the debt. Sounds like a set-up. Monday is when she gets paid and I shall be interested in her payslip and contract of employment if she has no funds to declare.
Thanks all for your support...
Regards
Nov 5th 2019, 6:38 pm
#3424
Lowering the tone
Joined: Mar 2007
Location: Here and there
Posts: 7,348
Re: Me and My Family
That's what he's waiting for. It's the only possible explanation as to why he is still even in the Philippines, never mind still actually in contact with her (and her creditors).
I wish him nothing but the very best, but as my old granny used to say, "The Lord helps those who help themselves..."
Nov 5th 2019, 11:13 pm
#3425
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Posts: 466
Re: Me and My Family
P11 comes across as the loveliest guy, but - and I'm sure he won't disagree with me here - not the quickest to make decisions. It's taken him nearly 4 years to wake up to the fact that his LL is a schemer. So, while I and the rest of the followers on this thread rejoice that he has finally seen the light, probably none of us will be surprised if he suddenly announces that, after this shock departure, LL miraculously finds a piece of "evidence" that explains this whole thing has just been a little misunderstanding.
That's what he's waiting for. It's the only possible explanation as to why he is still even in the Philippines, never mind still actually in contact with her (and her creditors).
I wish him nothing but the very best, but as my old granny used to say, "The Lord helps those who help themselves..."
That's what he's waiting for. It's the only possible explanation as to why he is still even in the Philippines, never mind still actually in contact with her (and her creditors).
I wish him nothing but the very best, but as my old granny used to say, "The Lord helps those who help themselves..."
Nov 5th 2019, 11:59 pm
#3426
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Thread Starter
Joined: Jun 2014
Location: Philippines
Posts: 1,853
Re: Me and My Family
Moving on....
I have yet to see her payslip but from memory her supposed Salary was for 21 or 23 Days with 8 hrs overtime. Do not assume the start date for salary purposes begins at the start of the month.
Why am I still in the Philippines is asked for the umpteenth time. Obviously those who asked have not read my previous reasons. Due to poor internet connections here I am not going to repeat myself.
Regards
Nov 6th 2019, 4:02 am
#3427
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Location: Philippines
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Re: Me and My Family
Greetings..
The pay she received is for 15 days training and 8 days work plus overtime. This covers the whole time she was there. So not one month salary. This sounds about right. She cannot provide a contract of employment because she states she quit the job before it was written up. I have seen Paperwork for her pay and working hours but they do not show a company heading. I therefore have doubts about the authenticity of what I have seen.
The guy who is owed 30k has been onto me thinking I have some money for him given to me from her. She states that she will pay him later. From her salary... No. Of the 18 650 she received... Not 23k I think I mentioned before, she only has 650 left after paying rent plus 12k for her mobile phone which cost 7.5k not that long ago.
But I think she is paying him something which gives some credit ability that she had a job... But lying about her deductions
Who knows... Who cares?
Regards
The pay she received is for 15 days training and 8 days work plus overtime. This covers the whole time she was there. So not one month salary. This sounds about right. She cannot provide a contract of employment because she states she quit the job before it was written up. I have seen Paperwork for her pay and working hours but they do not show a company heading. I therefore have doubts about the authenticity of what I have seen.
The guy who is owed 30k has been onto me thinking I have some money for him given to me from her. She states that she will pay him later. From her salary... No. Of the 18 650 she received... Not 23k I think I mentioned before, she only has 650 left after paying rent plus 12k for her mobile phone which cost 7.5k not that long ago.
But I think she is paying him something which gives some credit ability that she had a job... But lying about her deductions
Who knows... Who cares?
Regards
Nov 6th 2019, 4:02 am
#3428
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Aug 2009
Location: Disneyland, Dubai
Posts: 15,887
Re: Me and My Family
Correct and to the point... Thanks.
Moving on....
I have yet to see her payslip but from memory her supposed Salary was for 21 or 23 Days with 8 hrs overtime. Do not assume the start date for salary purposes begins at the start of the month.
Why am I still in the Philippines is asked for the umpteenth time. Obviously those who asked have not read my previous reasons. Due to poor internet connections here I am not going to repeat myself.
Regards
Moving on....
I have yet to see her payslip but from memory her supposed Salary was for 21 or 23 Days with 8 hrs overtime. Do not assume the start date for salary purposes begins at the start of the month.
Why am I still in the Philippines is asked for the umpteenth time. Obviously those who asked have not read my previous reasons. Due to poor internet connections here I am not going to repeat myself.
Regards
who cares, I doubt Interpol are going to come after you for this lol
Nov 6th 2019, 6:32 am
#3429
Lowering the tone
Joined: Mar 2007
Location: Here and there
Posts: 7,348
Re: Me and My Family
"Abandonment" suggests a dereliction of familial responsibility, or of some callous neglect. You have done nothing of the sort, you have escaped an abusive sham marriage.
Just leave, and throw away your sim card. Enjoy the rest of your days and put this nightmare behind you.
Just leave, and throw away your sim card. Enjoy the rest of your days and put this nightmare behind you.
Nov 6th 2019, 12:26 pm
#3432
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Joined: Dec 2016
Posts: 1,013
Re: Me and My Family
P11 comes across as the loveliest guy, but - and I'm sure he won't disagree with me here - not the quickest to make decisions. It's taken him nearly 4 years to wake up to the fact that his LL is a schemer. So, while I and the rest of the followers on this thread rejoice that he has finally seen the light, probably none of us will be surprised if he suddenly announces that, after this shock departure, LL miraculously finds a piece of "evidence" that explains this whole thing has just been a little misunderstanding.
That's what he's waiting for. It's the only possible explanation as to why he is still even in the Philippines, never mind still actually in contact with her (and her creditors).
I wish him nothing but the very best, but as my old granny used to say, "The Lord helps those who help themselves..."
That's what he's waiting for. It's the only possible explanation as to why he is still even in the Philippines, never mind still actually in contact with her (and her creditors).
I wish him nothing but the very best, but as my old granny used to say, "The Lord helps those who help themselves..."
Nov 6th 2019, 1:18 pm
#3435
In the pink
Joined: Oct 2006
Location: USA
Posts: 3,324
Re: Me and My Family
Ok, P11 is 71, and wife is approximately 37/38 and working. Why is P11 supposed to keep her up? He is retired. She is of working age. It is not like she is in a wheelchair and cannot help herself. What if it was the other way round, and she was 71 and he was 37/38, would she be expected to keep up a young man just because she was married to him? This does not make sense. She is a 30 something year old woman with four children - why should he support her? Adding to that - he was not even told about the children when he first met her. Fraud, deceit, lies, con artist. Wow, as said above cut her loose. Disappear.