CHILD SUPPORT
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Re: CHILD SUPPORT
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR ALL. THE COMMENTS. HONESTLY BEFORE IF SEND SUPPORT I ALWAYS SPENTS TO MY CHILDREN FOR THIER ALL NEEDS I DON'T HAVE ANY BAD HABITS. HE ALWAYS SEND US EXACT AMOUNT AND ON AND OFF IF HE WANT TO SEND HE WILL SEND FOR EXAMPLE HE DONT WANT TO SEND FOR 1 YR OR 6 MTHS I NEED TO BUDGET WHAT HE SEND FOR 1 MTH. ALL. I NEED IS HIS CHILD. SUPPORT BECAUSE I CAN'T TAKE EASILY ALL THE RESPONSIBILITY SPECIALLY IN THIS PANDEMIC SEASON I DON'T HAVE WORK. I NEED TO TAKE CARE OUR KIDS.. ALL I NEED TO. KNOW REALLY IF I HAVE A RIGHT TO COMPLAIN OF THE RIGHT OF ME AND MY KIDS FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT THANK YOU. GOD BLESS
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Re: CHILD SUPPORT
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR ALL. THE COMMENTS. HONESTLY BEFORE IF SEND SUPPORT I ALWAYS SPENTS TO MY CHILDREN FOR THIER ALL NEEDS I DON'T HAVE ANY BAD HABITS. HE ALWAYS SEND US EXACT AMOUNT AND ON AND OFF IF HE WANT TO SEND HE WILL SEND FOR EXAMPLE HE DONT WANT TO SEND FOR 1 YR OR 6 MTHS I NEED TO BUDGET WHAT HE SEND FOR 1 MTH. ALL. I NEED IS HIS CHILD. SUPPORT BECAUSE I CAN'T TAKE EASILY ALL THE RESPONSIBILITY SPECIALLY IN THIS PANDEMIC SEASON I DON'T HAVE WORK. I NEED TO TAKE CARE OUR KIDS.. ALL I NEED TO. KNOW REALLY IF I HAVE A RIGHT TO COMPLAIN OF THE RIGHT OF ME AND MY KIDS FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT THANK YOU. GOD BLESS
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Re: CHILD SUPPORT
I'm not aware of any such service to cover maintenance for you personally, sorry.
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Re: CHILD SUPPORT
THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR ALL. THE COMMENTS. HONESTLY BEFORE IF SEND SUPPORT I ALWAYS SPENTS TO MY CHILDREN FOR THIER ALL NEEDS I DON'T HAVE ANY BAD HABITS. HE ALWAYS SEND US EXACT AMOUNT AND ON AND OFF IF HE WANT TO SEND HE WILL SEND FOR EXAMPLE HE DONT WANT TO SEND FOR 1 YR OR 6 MTHS I NEED TO BUDGET WHAT HE SEND FOR 1 MTH. ALL. I NEED IS HIS CHILD. SUPPORT BECAUSE I CAN'T TAKE EASILY ALL THE RESPONSIBILITY SPECIALLY IN THIS PANDEMIC SEASON I DON'T HAVE WORK. I NEED TO TAKE CARE OUR KIDS.. ALL I NEED TO. KNOW REALLY IF I HAVE A RIGHT TO COMPLAIN OF THE RIGHT OF ME AND MY KIDS FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT THANK YOU. GOD BLESS
Perhaps she could now tell us what she knows of his work, income and general financial situation in the UK which has been subject to a pandemic too, worse than here, with similar effects on certain jobs, incomes and the cost of living.
She seems to be asking for a larger amount to cover a longer time. But could he send her 6 months of support in just one remittance? That would surely be at least 1,000 pounds. Let alone an amount good for one year. Of course, even if he were able, he may not want to send such large amounts.
This cannot be resolved by any outside intervention.
It could be due to poor communication, one way or both ways. eg it's possible the husband is not aware of the rise in prices here lately, so If she hasn't done it already I suggest the OP sets out her monthly spending on accommodation, utilities, food etc, divides the total by 66 and sends it to him.
Some of your bills may not be every month so just convert them to a monthly amount and add them in.
Last edited by Raffin; Dec 22nd 2021 at 9:53 pm.
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Re: CHILD SUPPORT
I'M NOT ASKING LARGER AMOUNT ALL I ASK IS HELP ME FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT.. SINCE I GAVE BIRTH WITH MY 2 KIDS HE DID T HELP. ME EVEN THROUGH HOSPITAL BILLS I NEED TO PROVIDE BY MYSELF.IS THAT MY FAULT IF I ASK HIM TO HELP HIM.. HE HELP BUT IF HE WANT IT TO DO BUT IF HE DON'T WANT 1 YR OR HALF YEAR OR SO. SOMETIMES HE IS VANISHED BLOCK ME..
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I'M NOT ASKING LARGER AMOUNT ALL I ASK IS HELP ME FOR FINANCIAL SUPPORT.. SINCE I GAVE BIRTH WITH MY 2 KIDS HE DID T HELP. ME EVEN THROUGH HOSPITAL BILLS I NEED TO PROVIDE BY MYSELF.IS THAT MY FAULT IF I ASK HIM TO HELP HIM.. HE HELP BUT IF HE WANT IT TO DO BUT IF HE DON'T WANT 1 YR OR HALF YEAR OR SO. SOMETIMES HE IS VANISHED BLOCK ME..
Thanks.