Therapy without a shrink
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Therapy without a shrink
Hi
I found this website yesterday , loads of good info.
I have just got to get this off my chest cause my wife and I are climbing the wall with stress.
I am going to Christchurch on a student visa start oct 03. Paid 7 k so far only 3 weeks left to cancel it or no refund.
I am still waiting visa as NZI want info of convition 23 years ago. now waiting PNC records check will it come in time. Also having to explain why I punched soneone when I was 18. Just missed large redundancy payment at work as I could not be sure I would get the visa.
House is sold and am trying to manipulate the chain. Problems with dog.
Am I going to end up homeless and a lot more skint.
Sorry for boring you but it is like a good dose of therapy.
Has anyone else had any similiar experiences. : :scared:
I found this website yesterday , loads of good info.
I have just got to get this off my chest cause my wife and I are climbing the wall with stress.
I am going to Christchurch on a student visa start oct 03. Paid 7 k so far only 3 weeks left to cancel it or no refund.
I am still waiting visa as NZI want info of convition 23 years ago. now waiting PNC records check will it come in time. Also having to explain why I punched soneone when I was 18. Just missed large redundancy payment at work as I could not be sure I would get the visa.
House is sold and am trying to manipulate the chain. Problems with dog.
Am I going to end up homeless and a lot more skint.
Sorry for boring you but it is like a good dose of therapy.
Has anyone else had any similiar experiences. : :scared:
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by mcuddy1
Hi
I found this website yesterday , loads of good info.
I have just got to get this off my chest cause my wife and I are climbing the wall with stress.
I am going to Christchurch on a student visa start oct 03. Paid 7 k so far only 3 weeks left to cancel it or no refund.
I am still waiting visa as NZI want info of convition 23 years ago. now waiting PNC records check will it come in time. Also having to explain why I punched soneone when I was 18. Just missed large redundancy payment at work as I could not be sure I would get the visa.
House is sold and am trying to manipulate the chain. Problems with dog.
Am I going to end up homeless and a lot more skint.
Sorry for boring you but it is like a good dose of therapy.
Has anyone else had any similiar experiences. : :scared:
I found this website yesterday , loads of good info.
I have just got to get this off my chest cause my wife and I are climbing the wall with stress.
I am going to Christchurch on a student visa start oct 03. Paid 7 k so far only 3 weeks left to cancel it or no refund.
I am still waiting visa as NZI want info of convition 23 years ago. now waiting PNC records check will it come in time. Also having to explain why I punched soneone when I was 18. Just missed large redundancy payment at work as I could not be sure I would get the visa.
House is sold and am trying to manipulate the chain. Problems with dog.
Am I going to end up homeless and a lot more skint.
Sorry for boring you but it is like a good dose of therapy.
Has anyone else had any similiar experiences. : :scared:
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by karonious
Somewhat similar, I have a job starting 9th Oct - have been invited to apply but still waiting for police check (should be any day now as requested 4 weeks ago) and medical results, also any day. I said to Steve we need to be ready to put it all in the post as soon as it comes. Only then as we collected up various documents did we realise that the girl only has a short birth certificate. We have a date set to finish our tenancy, sold various articles and booked removals. Yes, it stressful! We might yet end up with no home and no jobs and no residency. I don't really see that happening - we tend to live a fine line between divine madness and certain lunacy and I haven't quite decided which category we are in this time! Maybe it's time for a beer!
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by mcuddy1
Hi
I found this website yesterday , loads of good info.
I have just got to get this off my chest cause my wife and I are climbing the wall with stress.
I am going to Christchurch on a student visa start oct 03. Paid 7 k so far only 3 weeks left to cancel it or no refund.
I am still waiting visa as NZI want info of convition 23 years ago. now waiting PNC records check will it come in time. Also having to explain why I punched soneone when I was 18. Just missed large redundancy payment at work as I could not be sure I would get the visa.
House is sold and am trying to manipulate the chain. Problems with dog.
Am I going to end up homeless and a lot more skint.
Sorry for boring you but it is like a good dose of therapy.
Has anyone else had any similiar experiences. : :scared:
I found this website yesterday , loads of good info.
I have just got to get this off my chest cause my wife and I are climbing the wall with stress.
I am going to Christchurch on a student visa start oct 03. Paid 7 k so far only 3 weeks left to cancel it or no refund.
I am still waiting visa as NZI want info of convition 23 years ago. now waiting PNC records check will it come in time. Also having to explain why I punched soneone when I was 18. Just missed large redundancy payment at work as I could not be sure I would get the visa.
House is sold and am trying to manipulate the chain. Problems with dog.
Am I going to end up homeless and a lot more skint.
Sorry for boring you but it is like a good dose of therapy.
Has anyone else had any similiar experiences. : :scared:
Like Karen said, they seem to take forever for the police checks and I'm hoping they don't take as long as they say they will (which is 25 Aug having received our applications on 19 Jul!!) I think the last one Karen had done for her registration took about 30 days, so hopefully we'll get them soon.
What dog probs you having? If it's re shipping them then you might want to look at Guess the Weight of my Dogs thread and Can the Dog Come thread. Am Loolah's got 2 and mcuddy1 has 1
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by StevieB
If it's re shipping them then you might want to look at Guess the Weight of my Dogs thread and Can the Dog Come thread. Am Loolah's got 2 and mcuddy1 has 1
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by Woodlea
StevieB its mcuddy1 that you're talking to.
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by Woodlea
StevieB its mcuddy1 that you're talking to.
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by StevieB
Ok, so I'm stupid!!
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
It's
funny how the frustration and stress disapear when I have drunk 4 cans of Stella.I actualy think I might get there one day.
Anybody out here have info on good primary schools near CHC,just in case.
Also which is the best airline we wet on Malasyian last year. I like curry but nothin else all day is a bit much. .
Cheers Stella number 2 and countin
funny how the frustration and stress disapear when I have drunk 4 cans of Stella.I actualy think I might get there one day.
Anybody out here have info on good primary schools near CHC,just in case.
Also which is the best airline we wet on Malasyian last year. I like curry but nothin else all day is a bit much. .
Cheers Stella number 2 and countin
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by mcuddy1
It's
funny how the frustration and stress disapear when I have drunk 4 cans of Stella.I actualy think I might get there one day.
Anybody out here have info on good primary schools near CHC,just in case.
Also which is the best airline we wet on Malasyian last year. I like curry but nothin else all day is a bit much. .
Cheers Stella number 2 and countin
funny how the frustration and stress disapear when I have drunk 4 cans of Stella.I actualy think I might get there one day.
Anybody out here have info on good primary schools near CHC,just in case.
Also which is the best airline we wet on Malasyian last year. I like curry but nothin else all day is a bit much. .
Cheers Stella number 2 and countin
We're heading to Rangiora and the kids school (primary - Fernside) has a swimming pool, 200 pupils (twice the size of their current one) and a decile rating of nine.
Best airline is Singapore (malaysian good too), good food, as much booze as you can drink and loads of entertainment for the kids, plus they fly from Manchester.
Are you Scottish mcuddy1, with a name like that?
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by mcuddy1
nybody out here have info on good primary schools near CHC,just in case.
Have you found the schools website - think its www.ero.govt.nz - gives you the recent inspection reports. Re: deciles - they reflect socio-economic status of the catchment area of the school, not necessarily performance - decile 1 is lowest, decile 10 is highest.
Vicki
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by Woodlea
Hello mcuddy1 - how's the stress now - yes Stella helps, I'm on the Speckled Hen and whiskey at the moment, so no stress now!
We're heading to Rangiora and the kids school (primary - Fernside) has a swimming pool, 200 pupils (twice the size of their current one) and a decile rating of nine.
Best airline is Singapore (malaysian good too), good food, as much booze as you can drink and loads of entertainment for the kids, plus they fly from Manchester.
Are you Scottish mcuddy1, with a name like that?
We're heading to Rangiora and the kids school (primary - Fernside) has a swimming pool, 200 pupils (twice the size of their current one) and a decile rating of nine.
Best airline is Singapore (malaysian good too), good food, as much booze as you can drink and loads of entertainment for the kids, plus they fly from Manchester.
Are you Scottish mcuddy1, with a name like that?
Thanks for the info,
Mcuddy1 is my logon id at work (how sad).
My name actually comes from Ireland and at this time I live in Derbyshire.
I have looked at renting in Rangiora too and the Immigration agent says it is nice.
I would like somewhere close to the mountains as I have to get my daily exercise fix,cycling or running up I don't mind.
Have you actually been there? , we travelled around North Island last year. Nice but traffic in Auckland a nightmare, so we thought we would try CHC.
Cheers
Martin.
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by Joshlin
Hi we're in Halswell which has 2 primary schools - both considered to be good - Halswell primary and Oaklands primary. Halswell is a subdivision about 20mins from centre of christchurch - self sufficient in terms of facilities (supermarket, bank, pool etc etc)
Have you found the schools website - think its www.ero.govt.nz - gives you the recent inspection reports. Re: deciles - they reflect socio-economic status of the catchment area of the school, not necessarily performance - decile 1 is lowest, decile 10 is highest.
Vicki
Have you found the schools website - think its www.ero.govt.nz - gives you the recent inspection reports. Re: deciles - they reflect socio-economic status of the catchment area of the school, not necessarily performance - decile 1 is lowest, decile 10 is highest.
Vicki
Whnt is the traffic like in CHC can you cycle in safely?.
Thanks
Martin
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by mcuddy1
Hi Thaks for the info my wife has been looking at the website you suggested she is looking for something smallish as our kids go to a small village school.
Whnt is the traffic like in CHC can you cycle in safely?.
Thanks
Martin
Whnt is the traffic like in CHC can you cycle in safely?.
Thanks
Martin
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Re: Therapy without a shrink
Originally Posted by mcuddy1
HI
Thanks for the info,
Mcuddy1 is my logon id at work (how sad).
My name actually comes from Ireland and at this time I live in Derbyshire.
I have looked at renting in Rangiora too and the Immigration agent says it is nice.
I would like somewhere close to the mountains as I have to get my daily exercise fix,cycling or running up I don't mind.
Have you actually been there? , we travelled around North Island last year. Nice but traffic in Auckland a nightmare, so we thought we would try CHC.
Cheers
Martin.
.
Thanks for the info,
Mcuddy1 is my logon id at work (how sad).
My name actually comes from Ireland and at this time I live in Derbyshire.
I have looked at renting in Rangiora too and the Immigration agent says it is nice.
I would like somewhere close to the mountains as I have to get my daily exercise fix,cycling or running up I don't mind.
Have you actually been there? , we travelled around North Island last year. Nice but traffic in Auckland a nightmare, so we thought we would try CHC.
Cheers
Martin.
.