STEP CHILDREN
Jun 18th 2008, 8:20 pm
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
Well........
Back at the solicitors today for round 2.The reply to to my wifes ex,from whom we received a letter at the weekend..
We have answered all of his questions,as my wife said to the solicitor,she was handing it over under great duress...:curse::curse: because he could have had this without going down this road.. oh well.
We have also said ,no more letters, as we have complied with his requests.
If he wants more.F**K HIM,we will go to court,because we have a very strong case,and it will be our turn to call his bluff
So thanks again to everyone for their words of advice,especially,Team embo this time about the court situation
Back at the solicitors today for round 2.The reply to to my wifes ex,from whom we received a letter at the weekend..
We have answered all of his questions,as my wife said to the solicitor,she was handing it over under great duress...:curse::curse: because he could have had this without going down this road.. oh well.
We have also said ,no more letters, as we have complied with his requests.
If he wants more.F**K HIM,we will go to court,because we have a very strong case,and it will be our turn to call his bluff
So thanks again to everyone for their words of advice,especially,Team embo this time about the court situation
Jun 22nd 2008, 3:51 am
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
At last I finally have internet again and can see whats been happening!!
It certainly sounds like the ex is playing the same games as mine played - on those other links I sent you I think there may have been a list of the countries that enforce UK made court orders without a mirror order being in place - have a look and see if NZ is one of them. The USA doesnt do it, If the order we have needs to be enforced the only way he can do it is to get a mirror order in the USA that is the same as the UK one - so basically once we are in the US, that paper isnt worth anything - have a look and see if its the same for NZ and then just tell him whatever he wants to hear, cos once you are gone you can tellhim where to shove it and there isnt much he can do about it!!
may not be fair - but he's hardly playing fair either.....
It certainly sounds like the ex is playing the same games as mine played - on those other links I sent you I think there may have been a list of the countries that enforce UK made court orders without a mirror order being in place - have a look and see if NZ is one of them. The USA doesnt do it, If the order we have needs to be enforced the only way he can do it is to get a mirror order in the USA that is the same as the UK one - so basically once we are in the US, that paper isnt worth anything - have a look and see if its the same for NZ and then just tell him whatever he wants to hear, cos once you are gone you can tellhim where to shove it and there isnt much he can do about it!!
may not be fair - but he's hardly playing fair either.....
Jun 22nd 2008, 8:18 am
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
Originally Posted by clarissageo
At last I finally have internet again and can see whats been happening!!
just tell him whatever he wants to hear, cos once you are gone you can tellhim where to shove it and there isnt much he can do about it!!
may not be fair - but he's hardly playing fair either.....
just tell him whatever he wants to hear, cos once you are gone you can tellhim where to shove it and there isnt much he can do about it!!
may not be fair - but he's hardly playing fair either.....
I believe in playing fair but if the opposing team isn't playing nicely. You sometimes have to change your rules of engagement to do what is best for your team. But my change of rules would not be advertised.
Keep your chin up. Wishing you all the best. As you said no more letters time for court, best of luck.
Pauline
Jun 22nd 2008, 10:10 am
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
The second letter went last Thursday,which he should have received by now.He has 7 days to reply,we have also included a letter of authority for him to sign which has to be witnessed
So fingers crossed ,we should have what we require by next weekend
,which he should have received by now.He has 7 days to reply,we have also included a letter of authority for him to sign which has to be witnessedSo fingers crossed ,we should have what we require by next weekend
Jun 22nd 2008, 4:03 pm
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
Originally Posted by squiddley
The second letter went last Thursday,which he should have received by now.He has 7 days to reply,we have also included a letter of authority for him to sign which has to be witnessed
So fingers crossed ,we should have what we require by next weekend
,which he should have received by now.He has 7 days to reply,we have also included a letter of authority for him to sign which has to be witnessedSo fingers crossed ,we should have what we require by next weekend
Jun 22nd 2008, 9:27 pm
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
Originally Posted by squiddley
The second letter went last Thursday,which he should have received by now.He has 7 days to reply,we have also included a letter of authority for him to sign which has to be witnessed
So fingers crossed ,we should have what we require by next weekend
,which he should have received by now.He has 7 days to reply,we have also included a letter of authority for him to sign which has to be witnessedSo fingers crossed ,we should have what we require by next weekend
Best of luck, thinking of you all
Pauline
Jun 22nd 2008, 9:41 pm
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
Hope it all works out for you.
Jun 25th 2008, 7:10 pm
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Well received some news today...........
And it was good.....we had submitted an EOI a couple of weeks ago,because we had found we have some time on our hands,in the light as to what is going on with my step children...(solicitors)
Anyway our Eoi has gone from selected to SUCCESSFUL YEE HA
So now what my wife and and i want' is the letter from her ex to say that we can take the girls,weekend hopefully,then its all systems go...
And it was good.....we had submitted an EOI a couple of weeks ago,because we had found we have some time on our hands,in the light as to what is going on with my step children...(solicitors)
Anyway our Eoi has gone from selected to SUCCESSFUL
YEE HASo now what my wife and and i want' is the letter from her ex to say that we can take the girls,weekend hopefully,then its all systems go...
Jun 26th 2008, 4:06 am
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
You will be here before you know it.. in those lovely blue safe air overalls eh!!!
Or in one of the local winnerys celebrating... oooohh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Or in one of the local winnerys celebrating... oooohh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jun 26th 2008, 9:02 am
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
Originally Posted by squiddley
Well received some news today...........
And it was good.....we had submitted an EOI a couple of weeks ago,because we had found we have some time on our hands,in the light as to what is going on with my step children...(solicitors)
Anyway our Eoi has gone from selected to SUCCESSFUL YEE HA
So now what my wife and and i want' is the letter from her ex to say that we can take the girls,weekend hopefully,then its all systems go...
And it was good.....we had submitted an EOI a couple of weeks ago,because we had found we have some time on our hands,in the light as to what is going on with my step children...(solicitors)
Anyway our Eoi has gone from selected to SUCCESSFUL
YEE HASo now what my wife and and i want' is the letter from her ex to say that we can take the girls,weekend hopefully,then its all systems go...
I'm sure you will let us all know what happens next. Remember only good,positive thoughts allowed.Phyllis
Jun 26th 2008, 12:37 pm
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
Originally Posted by squiddley
Well received some news today...........
And it was good.....we had submitted an EOI a couple of weeks ago,because we had found we have some time on our hands,in the light as to what is going on with my step children...(solicitors)
Anyway our Eoi has gone from selected to SUCCESSFUL YEE HA
So now what my wife and and i want' is the letter from her ex to say that we can take the girls,weekend hopefully,then its all systems go...
And it was good.....we had submitted an EOI a couple of weeks ago,because we had found we have some time on our hands,in the light as to what is going on with my step children...(solicitors)
Anyway our Eoi has gone from selected to SUCCESSFUL
YEE HASo now what my wife and and i want' is the letter from her ex to say that we can take the girls,weekend hopefully,then its all systems go...
well done guys, fingers still crossed for the next bit x
Jun 26th 2008, 10:10 pm
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
FANTASTICOne hurdle sorted hopefully the rest will fall into place, best of luck to you all
Pauline
Jun 26th 2008, 10:21 pm
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
Fingers crossed for a result over the weekend , then it will be all systems go.
Jun 27th 2008, 5:43 pm
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
Originally Posted by squiddley
Brilliant...
Many thanks for the info Clarissageo
We have emails from him listing dates for visits...not many
My wife has already spoke to him this evening and told him what we are going to do...Didn't seem to bothered,he is having the children this weekend,no doubt the eldest will get an ear bashing from him
Many thanks for the info Clarissageo
We have emails from him listing dates for visits...not many
My wife has already spoke to him this evening and told him what we are going to do...Didn't seem to bothered,he is having the children this weekend,no doubt the eldest will get an ear bashing from him
Hope this all works out for you. Best wishes. Traci
Jul 5th 2008, 6:47 am
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Re: STEP CHILDREN
How are things moving along, any news on any front.
Keep your chin up
Pauline
Keep your chin up
Pauline
