Names
Mum rages at nursery for shortening daughter's name 'because it's too hard to pronounce' - Daily Record
Not experienced this as a maori byt family have experienced problems in English-speaking environmante with non-English names. What do folk in NZ feel ? Why do English-speakers have problems with this ? It happens in GB as well. |
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We have people of all nationalities here with names that are equally difficult to grasp and I think it's a disgrace that staff at an early learning centre struggle to pronounce Maori words. They should be encouraging children in the basics of Te Reo (Maori Language) and be respectful of children's given name. In my world it's the height of rudeness not to bother to learn how to pronounce someone's given or chosen name correctly.
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In Xenophobic Brexitania it is common. I had hoped that NZ had higher standards. My Bulgarian daughters had problems in KG with English-speaking teachers who had a mental bloc on any names that were not familiar to them as tabloid-readers.
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Originally Posted by scot47
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In Xenophobic Brexitania it is common. I had hoped that NZ had higher standards. My Bulgarian daughters had problems in KG with English-speaking teachers who had a mental bloc on any names that were not familiar to them as tabloid-readers.
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Anyone can pronounce the kids name, it's not difficult. Whether they could be bothered to spit out the whole thing every time they spoke to her is another story. My clientele are almost entirely maori and I use shortened names for almost every one of them that is more than two syllables long. I make an effort on introductions and ask if it's a tricky one, but beyond that it's not practical to spend all day spitting long names out.
The mum's just being being prescious. She needs to get over herself |
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Like if your name is Abraham you'll be called Abe, Daniel it'll be contracted to Dan, Thomas it'll be Tom etc?
I mean, uhh, completely unprecedented and outrageous, she is right to be offended. :blink: |
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Originally Posted by scot47
(Post 12979147)
In Xenophobic Brexitania it is common. I had hoped that NZ had higher standards. My Bulgarian daughters had problems in KG with English-speaking teachers who had a mental bloc on any names that were not familiar to them as tabloid-readers.
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Originally Posted by brits1
(Post 12979318)
I work with many people from around the globe who have made the UK home and I try my bestest to pronounce names and with practice/familiarity it does get easier but I still get tongue tied at times and it's very much visa versa with my name lol. Hopefully NZ though will introduce the Maori language as a language on the education curriculum if it has not already done so....
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Using a name the way the owner of that name expects ? Basic courtesy.
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It's a two way street, I wouldn't shorten anyone's name unless that's the way they, or the parents if it was a child, had indicated or referred to themselves in that way. You generally figure out the lie of the land in regards to what's okay and what's not but in regards to a child it absolutely sits with the parents and they have every right to be precious and insist on use of proper names if that's what they wish.
My own Mum was very opposed to anyone shortening her own name and gave very clear guidance to anyone who tried to shorten ours when we were kids. I have a very good friend called David, we've never had a conversation about his name but I would never refer to him as Dave because never considered that appropriate and he's not a Dave, he doesn't call himself Dave, he is most definitely a David. |
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I agree with BJ!
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when we first arrived in NZ, lots of the NZ'ders couldn't/wouldn't pronounce my dd name correctly, she got so fed up with it she shortened it.
on a side note I'm the only one to call my OH by his full name as that was how he was introduced to me, to shorten it for me just doesn't feel right. |
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Originally Posted by Timmy Chch
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I agree with BJ!
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Originally Posted by Bo-Jangles
(Post 12979596)
It's a two way street, I wouldn't shorten anyone's name unless that's the way they, or the parents if it was a child, had indicated or referred to themselves in that way. You generally figure out the lie of the land in regards to what's okay and what's not but in regards to a child it absolutely sits with the parents and they have every right to be precious and insist on use of proper names if that's what they wish.
My own Mum was very opposed to anyone shortening her own name and gave very clear guidance to anyone who tried to shorten ours when we were kids. I have a very good friend called David, we've never had a conversation about his name but I would never refer to him as Dave because never considered that appropriate and he's not a Dave, he doesn't call himself Dave, he is most definitely a David. |
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Originally Posted by MrsFychan
(Post 12979895)
when we first arrived in NZ, lots of the NZ'ders couldn't/wouldn't pronounce my dd name correctly, she got so fed up with it she shortened it.
on a side note I'm the only one to call my OH by his full name as that was how he was introduced to me, to shorten it for me just doesn't feel right. |
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