Moving
Hi there, apologies for the long post! Basically, I'm a British nurse as is my wife, we have two small children. After the EU referendum my wife said she wanted to look at leaving the UK, after research it turned out NZ was the country we qualified most for. Unfortunately, she completely changed her mind a few months later and now says she's no intention of even leaving Yorkshire. It's devastating for me as I'd my heart set on at least trying, but she won't be shifted. Has anyone else come across this? What can I do? The other issue is our daughter was born with glaucoma and has mild developmental delay (not intellectual disabilities). She sees opthalmology and optometry every six months and has speech and language, OT and a visual impairment team involved with her and they think she'll need cane training for moving around. Would they refuse us on medical issues due to this anyway? Apologies for the ramble!
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Re: Moving
Did you follow the advice given in your previous thread on the same subject and try and get her to NZ for a holiday? If so, what did she think of the country? With your daughters medical issues (no idea if they would cause your visa app to be refused, others will advise on that), then it sounds as if her support network would be particularly important. |
Re: Moving
Originally Posted by christmasoompa
(Post 12706360)
Did you follow the advice given in your previous thread on the same subject and try and get her to NZ for a holiday? If so, what did she think of the country? With your daughters medical issues (no idea if they would cause your visa app to be refused, others will advise on that), then it sounds as if her support network would be particularly important. |
Re: Moving
Originally Posted by Nurse1692
(Post 12706386)
I'd actually completely forgotten I'd ever posted on here! I did suggest the holiday to her, she didn't want to do that.
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Re: Moving
Originally Posted by Nurse1692
(Post 12706336)
Hi there, apologies for the long post! Basically, I'm a British nurse as is my wife, we have two small children.
After the EU referendum my wife said she wanted to look at leaving the UK, after research it turned out NZ was the country we qualified most for. Unfortunately, she completely changed her mind a few months later and now says she's no intention of even leaving Yorkshire. It's devastating for me as I'd my heart set on at least trying, but she won't be shifted. Has anyone else come across this? What can I do? The other issue is our daughter was born with glaucoma and has mild developmental delay (not intellectual disabilities). She sees opthalmology and optometry every six months and has speech and language, OT and a visual impairment team involved with her and they think she'll need cane training for moving around. Would they refuse us on medical issues due to this anyway? Apologies for the ramble!
Originally Posted by NZ Immigration operations manual
A4.10.1 Medical conditions deemed to impose significant costs and/or demands on New Zealand's health and/or education services
My suggestion is that you adjust your mindset away from devastated and maybe find something new and interesting to do or engage you. In the years to come this world will still be here and with time comes change. In the future your wife and your children may feel more open to exploring change. Until then , be patient. I hope your daughter gets all the help and support she needs & that she makes progress towards what is achievable for her. |
Re: Moving
If she ain't for moving, let it go
The divorce rate for unhappy expats in NZ must be sky high. I know 6 couples who have all split and divorced since coming over. |
Re: Moving
Originally Posted by Justcol
(Post 12706438)
If she ain't for moving, let it go
The divorce rate for unhappy expats in NZ must be sky high. I know 6 couples who have all split and divorced since coming over. |
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