Feeling a little disillusioned and lonely!
#16
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Re: Feeling a little disillusioned and lonely!
I would expect an "elite salary" to be 250k+ in Auckland these days
#17
Re: Feeling a little disillusioned and lonely!
Hi to the Harrisons
I'm sorry to hear you are finding it difficult we arrived on a reccie last Fri we stayed in Whatawhata first 2 days and found the supermarket really expensive went into Hamilton it wasn't too bad cost wise then flew down to South Island which we have found much cheaper. Asparagus in North Island was £4.99 down here it was $1.99 big difference (a small maybe silly example )
Maybe in a few months once you have settled a bit more and you are still not happy with the area you can try talking to the agent to get out of the contract if you explain your situation
Hope things get better soon x
I'm sorry to hear you are finding it difficult we arrived on a reccie last Fri we stayed in Whatawhata first 2 days and found the supermarket really expensive went into Hamilton it wasn't too bad cost wise then flew down to South Island which we have found much cheaper. Asparagus in North Island was £4.99 down here it was $1.99 big difference (a small maybe silly example )
Maybe in a few months once you have settled a bit more and you are still not happy with the area you can try talking to the agent to get out of the contract if you explain your situation
Hope things get better soon x
#18
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Hi, Thanks for your reply. You mentioned a meeting in town, is that the Auckland get-together at 5pm? If it is we were thinking of attending ourselves.
How are you finding Papatoetoe? Have you any children? Ours are quiet grown up now. Our youngest is 12 years but she behaves more like 16!!
It would be nice to meet up for a drink if we don't meet already at Bluestones. Paula.
How are you finding Papatoetoe? Have you any children? Ours are quiet grown up now. Our youngest is 12 years but she behaves more like 16!!
It would be nice to meet up for a drink if we don't meet already at Bluestones. Paula.
We will tell you all about Papatoetoe when we meet up, there is so much to say but I like it.
If we dont see you on Friday maybe a drink over the weekend over this side of town?
I hope having all the replies makes you feel that you are not on your own, I think the good thing having this web-site is that it makes you feel like we are all in this together.......if you know what I mean.
See you soon.
#19
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Thanks so much for your reply and reassurance. We are currently renting a property but because of time-pressure, I feel like we settled for a place and location that we wouldn't have if we'd have had more time to invest in. Our rental contract is unfortunately for a year, I wish we'd signed for less but again I felt bulldozed into signing by the agent. My husband's job is also on a 1 year contract, so I fell trapped to stay for that length of time. The property itself is very modern and nice with a number of luxuries that we didn't have in the UK but the estate is enormous and everybody seems to keep to themselves.
I realise that it's early days and it's comforting to know others have experienced similar thoughts and concerns. I hope that in time I'll start to feel more positive, Thanks again for your kind words. Paula.
I realise that it's early days and it's comforting to know others have experienced similar thoughts and concerns. I hope that in time I'll start to feel more positive, Thanks again for your kind words. Paula.
#21
Re: Feeling a little disillusioned and lonely!
I agree, you need a basic six figure salary (per person) to live reasonably well in New Zealand outside of major cities as well.
I hope we didn't mislead anyone, New Zealand is a nice place to live if you've got the money or you are being hooked up in a really nice job.
If your anywhere near the basic wages that most kiwis earn you will find life a struggle.
I hope we didn't mislead anyone, New Zealand is a nice place to live if you've got the money or you are being hooked up in a really nice job.
If your anywhere near the basic wages that most kiwis earn you will find life a struggle.
#22
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I agree, you need a basic six figure salary (per person) to live reasonably well in New Zealand outside of major cities as well.
I hope we didn't mislead anyone, New Zealand is a nice place to live if you've got the money or you are being hooked up in a really nice job.
If your anywhere near the basic wages that most kiwis earn you will find life a struggle.
I hope we didn't mislead anyone, New Zealand is a nice place to live if you've got the money or you are being hooked up in a really nice job.
If your anywhere near the basic wages that most kiwis earn you will find life a struggle.
The equivalent of $85k (ish) PA with no mortgage in a rural town WILL ensure you an excellent quality of life. That's with 3 kids, big bills, 2 cars and shopping without a budget. But maintaining frugality buying large when discounts of 33% plus are on offer.
#23
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Being mortgage free bumps your salary by at least $20K (+++) by my reckoning- so for all intents and purposes your head's above $100K.
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Re: Feeling a little disillusioned and lonely!
Hello everyone,
We arrived just four weeks ago and have settled in Flatbush, Manukau City. My husband David already had a job offer at Middlemoore Hospital and Flatbush is easily commutable.
We literally had 2 weeks to sort out accommodation and transport etc...and I feel we've made some bad choices already regarding our location. I dream't of a little villa in the country and we've found ourselves on a massive housing estate with little or no community spirit to be found.
We are really concerned with how expensive just about everything is and are worrying about our financial situation here. Back at home in the UK, I felt that I'd put a lot of research into emigrating through media and the internet and I really feel like we've been led astray. I purchased many books, one of which is entitled " Where to live in Auckland'. According to My husbands wages we fall into a population profile of 'Elite Professionals' and 'Comfortable and Secure" however I feel it couldn't be further than the truth!!!
It really isn't my intention to come over as a whinging pom, I'm just really worried and concerned that things here aren't quite as we'd expected or hoped.
We have managed to do some sightseeing and NZ is without any doubt a beautiful country and the people very helpful and friendly.
It would be great if there are any other newcomers in the surrounding area, to meet up for a chat to share concerns and advise and a little support.
I look forward to hearing from you as I could really do with a friend right now. Paula.
We arrived just four weeks ago and have settled in Flatbush, Manukau City. My husband David already had a job offer at Middlemoore Hospital and Flatbush is easily commutable.
We literally had 2 weeks to sort out accommodation and transport etc...and I feel we've made some bad choices already regarding our location. I dream't of a little villa in the country and we've found ourselves on a massive housing estate with little or no community spirit to be found.
We are really concerned with how expensive just about everything is and are worrying about our financial situation here. Back at home in the UK, I felt that I'd put a lot of research into emigrating through media and the internet and I really feel like we've been led astray. I purchased many books, one of which is entitled " Where to live in Auckland'. According to My husbands wages we fall into a population profile of 'Elite Professionals' and 'Comfortable and Secure" however I feel it couldn't be further than the truth!!!
It really isn't my intention to come over as a whinging pom, I'm just really worried and concerned that things here aren't quite as we'd expected or hoped.
We have managed to do some sightseeing and NZ is without any doubt a beautiful country and the people very helpful and friendly.
It would be great if there are any other newcomers in the surrounding area, to meet up for a chat to share concerns and advise and a little support.
I look forward to hearing from you as I could really do with a friend right now. Paula.
#25
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Hi Paula, I have to say I feel much the same as you and we haven't even reached 2 weeks yet!! We can't find anywhere to rent and if we do find a half decent place by the time we've gone off to chat about it, its been taken!!! We are feeling disillusioned, disappointed and depressed. I'm sure it won't last but like you we thought we had done the research but everything is soooo expensive. We came over expecting to find a rental for $400 pw now we are looking at places which are $480 and still struggling to find any to view. Good luck to you, I'm sure if there was more sun we would all feel better. Bevissa xx
We rented a 3 bed house with 1/4 acre for $350.
If I can help I will.
#26
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Just another quick one, a good way of meeting people and getting involved with the community is, join a club. We joined a bowling club when we first moved to Wellington and the people I met there are still great friends even though we are now in Auckland 4 years later.
Just a thought. Oh and by the way, I dont play bowls.
Just a thought. Oh and by the way, I dont play bowls.
#27
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Hi Paula
We are just up the road from you - renting in Whitford. We have been here a year now and have settled.
If you and your family would like to pop over to ours you are more than welcome, our youngest is 13 (girl) and we have two boys (15 and 18).
I'll send you a PM with our address/details.
Kerry
We are just up the road from you - renting in Whitford. We have been here a year now and have settled.
If you and your family would like to pop over to ours you are more than welcome, our youngest is 13 (girl) and we have two boys (15 and 18).
I'll send you a PM with our address/details.
Kerry
#28
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Re: Feeling a little disillusioned and lonely!
Hi Paula,
We also arrived here 4 weeks ago, and are feeling very much like you are. We are also going on Friday so we'll maybe see you there. We are just hoping its settling in nerves, and that everything will work out eventualy. After reading everything and anything on here, prior to our arrival I think how we are feeling is pretty normal in the early days.
We also arrived here 4 weeks ago, and are feeling very much like you are. We are also going on Friday so we'll maybe see you there. We are just hoping its settling in nerves, and that everything will work out eventualy. After reading everything and anything on here, prior to our arrival I think how we are feeling is pretty normal in the early days.
#29
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Re: Feeling a little disillusioned and lonely!
I would add a few more pluses, my boss earns that and he's a good ten steps away from the top of the tree, he still complains he doesn't earn enough and that others of his peers in similar middle management ranks earn more than him. The CEO must be on $500k plus.
It's always interesting googling the Annual Report for the company you work for, because they are legally bound to publish the salary bands and numbers of of people that earn over $100k. The odd thing is that $100k was set in stone over a decade ago, as being an exceptionally high salary worthy of note - it's very out of date now! It's dead easy to spot the CEO and his / her entourage, when it shows one person earned $500k+ last year, three people earned $350k+ etc
I think it would be pretty hard to be led astray on what is and isn't a liveable income. You really do need to be packing in $100k plus if you have rent or mortgage to pay in Auckland and that figure has been bandied about as a 'minimum' ever since we were doing our research some 5 to 6 years ago. It needs updating and ought to be higher than that by now. Others will of course manage on less, if they have to, but it would be a very frugal existence and likely to be iin one of the lesser desirable areas.
Many of us have struggled with similar feelings of shock and horror at the cost of everything and wonder how we'll ever manage, but somehow we do. There are ways to reign in the expenses and first experiences here can be a very sharp learning curve in the art of stretching a dollar.
On first arrival the shopping bills are abnormally high and will settle down again once you re-built up stocks of all the basics and you soon learn to bulk buy the things you like when they are on special. Sad as it may seem!
It's always interesting googling the Annual Report for the company you work for, because they are legally bound to publish the salary bands and numbers of of people that earn over $100k. The odd thing is that $100k was set in stone over a decade ago, as being an exceptionally high salary worthy of note - it's very out of date now! It's dead easy to spot the CEO and his / her entourage, when it shows one person earned $500k+ last year, three people earned $350k+ etc
I think it would be pretty hard to be led astray on what is and isn't a liveable income. You really do need to be packing in $100k plus if you have rent or mortgage to pay in Auckland and that figure has been bandied about as a 'minimum' ever since we were doing our research some 5 to 6 years ago. It needs updating and ought to be higher than that by now. Others will of course manage on less, if they have to, but it would be a very frugal existence and likely to be iin one of the lesser desirable areas.
Many of us have struggled with similar feelings of shock and horror at the cost of everything and wonder how we'll ever manage, but somehow we do. There are ways to reign in the expenses and first experiences here can be a very sharp learning curve in the art of stretching a dollar.
On first arrival the shopping bills are abnormally high and will settle down again once you re-built up stocks of all the basics and you soon learn to bulk buy the things you like when they are on special. Sad as it may seem!
#30
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Re: Feeling a little disillusioned and lonely!
Hi Paula.My family and I live in Dannemora ,just down the road from where you are.We have been here just over a year .It is sooo difficult when you first come over with all the stress and expectations .It can take a good few months to feel settled ,but it does happen !! Have sent you a pm .