Fed up :-(
Jan 24th 2010, 12:11 pm
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Fed up :-(
Oh just thought I'd start this thread as a bit of self help really 
Feeling really fed up with the whole process... its been a year now and we still haven't got confirmation of our visa.
Medical Assessor has hubbys medical, deciding whether to sign it off I guess or ask for more tests or just tell us to stuff it
I just feel like we are never going to get there and suppose the January blues have set in. We thought we would be arriving in NZ now but it will have to be delayed a few more months, will the end ever be in sight?
Sorry for the moan, bad day I suppose... just want to start our new life now
Feeling really fed up with the whole process... its been a year now and we still haven't got confirmation of our visa.
Medical Assessor has hubbys medical, deciding whether to sign it off I guess or ask for more tests or just tell us to stuff it
I just feel like we are never going to get there and suppose the January blues have set in. We thought we would be arriving in NZ now but it will have to be delayed a few more months, will the end ever be in sight?
Sorry for the moan, bad day I suppose... just want to start our new life now
Jan 24th 2010, 1:07 pm
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Re: Fed up :-(
awh!!!!! flowerpot really feel for you as we know what you are going through.
Please try to stay positive not easy I know but it will all be worth it in the end
you hear something this week. sending you some positive vibes....................
Please try to stay positive not easy I know but it will all be worth it in the end
you hear something this week. sending you some positive vibes....................
Jan 24th 2010, 2:50 pm
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Re: Fed up :-(
Chin up 
We haven't got to your stage in the process yet and to be honest it all sounds a bit scary and a bit of a pain in the arse but as ragdolls2 has said it will all be worth it once you land in NZ and your new life begins. Best of luck, hope get the news you've been waiting for soon
We haven't got to your stage in the process yet and to be honest it all sounds a bit scary and a bit of a pain in the arse but as ragdolls2 has said it will all be worth it once you land in NZ and your new life begins. Best of luck, hope get the news you've been waiting for soon
Jan 24th 2010, 3:51 pm
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hi flowerpot
really feel for you- ditto above, you will very soon have good news.
we havent even had our medicals yet, and I know we are feeling nervous about potential referrals etc. like you want it to be all over so we can begin our new adventures
thinking of you and chin up
helen and Davex
really feel for you- ditto above,
you will very soon have good news.we havent even had our medicals yet, and I know we are feeling nervous about potential referrals etc. like you want it to be all over so we can begin our new adventures
thinking of you and chin up
helen and Davex
Jan 24th 2010, 5:31 pm
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Re: Fed up :-(
Oh just thought I'd start this thread as a bit of self help really
Feeling really fed up with the whole process... its been a year now and we still haven't got confirmation of our visa.
Medical Assessor has hubbys medical, deciding whether to sign it off I guess or ask for more tests or just tell us to stuff it
I just feel like we are never going to get there and suppose the January blues have set in. We thought we would be arriving in NZ now but it will have to be delayed a few more months, will the end ever be in sight?
Sorry for the moan, bad day I suppose... just want to start our new life now
Feeling really fed up with the whole process... its been a year now and we still haven't got confirmation of our visa.
Medical Assessor has hubbys medical, deciding whether to sign it off I guess or ask for more tests or just tell us to stuff it
I just feel like we are never going to get there and suppose the January blues have set in. We thought we would be arriving in NZ now but it will have to be delayed a few more months, will the end ever be in sight?
Sorry for the moan, bad day I suppose... just want to start our new life now
you'll hear some good news soon, can understand you feeling down but hopefully all the positive vibes we're sending your way will help.....keep smiling .....you will get there!!!!
B x
Jan 24th 2010, 6:54 pm
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Re: Fed up :-(
Belive me, we have all had to jump through many hops to get here, every one has a story to tell,
An old Japanese Master once told me " to get to the highest mountain top, you must climb over lots of small hills to get there " how bloody true he was !!
We are just about at the top of the highest mountain in our life, but this year we have one final piece of the puzzel to fit, and thats Citizenship.
It may take a year or 2, but believe me, it is well worth all the hardship.
An old Japanese Master once told me " to get to the highest mountain top, you must climb over lots of small hills to get there " how bloody true he was !!
We are just about at the top of the highest mountain in our life, but this year we have one final piece of the puzzel to fit, and thats Citizenship.
It may take a year or 2, but believe me, it is well worth all the hardship.
Jan 24th 2010, 7:12 pm
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Re: Fed up :-(
Sorry you're feeling down hun, but you will get here. Before you know it you'll be sat in the Pacific Bar on a wednesday night, with a glass of wine & shouting at your Dad with the rest of us 
Wish NZIS would get there finger out for you that they give you the nod very soon mate.
I haven't forgotten about getting in touch with my friend. I have texted him to try & set up a brunch sometime but no luck so far. If I don't hear from him in the next week then I shall email him
Wish NZIS would get there finger out for you
that they give you the nod very soon mate.I haven't forgotten about getting in touch with my friend. I have texted him to try & set up a brunch sometime but no luck so far. If I don't hear from him in the next week then I shall email him
Jan 24th 2010, 7:22 pm
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awwh - Just keep going because it really is worth it in the end & as another saying goes ' you have to have the rain so you can see the rainbow'
Just think a little bit of extra time in Liverpool will give you extra time to spend with family / friends & get organised clearing out your stuff.
Just think a little bit of extra time in Liverpool will give you extra time to spend with family / friends & get organised clearing out your stuff.
Jan 24th 2010, 8:39 pm
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Re: Fed up :-(
Sorry you are down 
cant really add to the wise words before but you get some news very very soon.
Dewb
cant really add to the wise words before but you get some news very very soon.Dewb
Jan 24th 2010, 8:54 pm
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Hi Flowerpot
It's so frustrating we are waiting also hope you get some good news soon for you
Angela x
It's so frustrating we are waiting also hope you get some good news soon
for you Angela x
Jan 24th 2010, 10:29 pm
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Re: Fed up :-(
Hope you hear some good news very soon.
Jan 25th 2010, 5:49 am
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I'm sure you will get some good news soon Hang on in there, its soooooo worth it. Bevissa
Jan 25th 2010, 4:34 pm
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Re: Fed up :-(
The same best wishes and from us. Hope it all gets sorted very soon and one day you'll look back and laugh so...
from us. Hope it all gets sorted very soon and one day you'll look back and laugh so...
Jan 25th 2010, 6:13 pm
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Hi,
Can't add anything that other havent already said really. Keep hanging in there, it was around 18 months before we had our visas. You will get there, it's just soooo frustrating.
Can't add anything that other havent already said really. Keep hanging in there, it was around 18 months before we had our visas. You will get there, it's just soooo frustrating.
Jan 25th 2010, 7:06 pm
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Re: Fed up :-(
Hi all, thanks so much for your kind and positive words of encouragement, put a smile back on my face 
I know it will all be worth it in the end... just wish I could catch a glimpse of that elusive end!!!
Vital, can't wait to be a regular at my dads quiz enjoying a couple of vinos!
Thanks again everyone, nice to know people are going through the same, have been through the same, and have made it!
Flower x
I know it will all be worth it in the end... just wish I could catch a glimpse of that elusive end!!!
Vital, can't wait to be a regular at my dads quiz enjoying a couple of vinos!
Thanks again everyone, nice to know people are going through the same, have been through the same, and have made it!
Flower x
