Tomsk

A bit of a silly observation really, but I'm baffled by the amount of invitations that we seem to get for fancy dress parties . Is it just chance/ coincidence...or have I got a very odd circle of friends . Or is it a common Kiwi thing, any opportunity to dress up is seized upon?

The latest (there has been a recent string of fancy dress events) is my work Christmas do, I picked up the invitation today (nothing like planning ahead!) and, once again, there's a fancy dress code . Personally I'd prefer the opportunity to dress up a bit smart, but no, I'm going to be trying to throw a Rocky Horror themed outfit this time.

Just wondered if this was a common experience.

Bo-Jangles

I posted something about this a while back, drives me crazy why people can't seem to go out and be themselves and behave like normal grown up adult people.

We're constantly being asked to hide behind some hideous costume, work functions and the like are always stupid themed things; quite frankly I would rather not bother even going. Besides which, we're not all touched by the creative gene that enables us to transform ourselves into Darth friggin vadar or something from the set of Pride and Prejudice.

love30stm

Because kiwis don't know how to look nice and dress up! Nearest they get is ball gowns, a bit of style they wouldn't know! I always dress up when out with my English girlfriends and I'm amazed how classy the guys are going out in their shorts and women in jeans and no make up! But then again it is Wanganui! Just back from Wellington the weekend and gotta say completely different nice to see a few smart guys.

charlcote

I know what you mean, but I must admit, I do sometimes get fed up with being a normal, grown up adult person

rachmac

oops! it was only last night i gave away my dressing up box in preparation for the move. I didnt think i'd need it in NZ. Maybe I can get some of it back?!?!?! Ha ha!!

martyc

If you need a costume in a hurry put on a bin liner, stick bits of rubbish to it and wear a dustbin lid on your head. You will stink, but it's quite novel and worked for me as a student when I had not much money.

Any other ideas?

Luckybird

Yup it is indeed a common experience and one which still makes me giggle when everyone is 'seriously' considering their outfits!!

I would go dressed 'normally' (using that term loosely of course ) and say I am someone with amnesia!.....

I would go dressed 'normally' (using that term loosely of course ) and say I am someone with amnesia!.....

I would go dressed 'normally' (using that term loosely of course ) and say I am someone with amnesia!.....

I would...ok, ok, I am sure you get the idea!!! Have fun

cappuccino

I have a works do this weekend and it has a 'groovy/spacey' theme - I have no idea what to wear!

martyc

My other favourite was to route through charity shops and find the worst 'normal' outfit I could. Then going along to the party with a deadpan expression, feeling very insulted by other peoples comments. Again, a cheap option.

love30stm

I just wouldnt go at all

charlcote

Wot, LOVE30STM refuse a party invite?!! I find this v hard to believe!!!

love30stm

Depends!!! I've been to kiwi parties

Lol
Sarcasim

love30stm

I don't act normal or grown up

charlcote

Excellent! Must be why I like you!

love30stm