Should I stay or should I go?
I’ve lived in New Zealand for the last twenty years and I’m now contemplating moving back to the UK. I have no family here, they are all in England, my parents are getting up there in years. I’ve just returned from a months visit there thinking I would cross it off the list but it didn’t happen, making the decision no clearer. Things that worry me about the move back are work, buying real estate, traffic, that’s about it really, there are pros and cons on both sides, I just don’t want to make the move and then regret it. Has anyone had experience of moving back and regretting it, it maybe it was the best decision? |
Re: Should I stay or should I go?
I am in similar place to you, unable to decide and and probably overthinking it too.
I am going back again for another visit in October to hopefully help me come to a final decision. The fear of regret is a very real one and I dont want to do the ping pong pom thing. |
Re: Should I stay or should I go?
Originally Posted by Sharon Margaret
(Post 12739151)
I’ve lived in New Zealand for the last twenty years and I’m now contemplating moving back to the UK. I have no family here, they are all in England, my parents are getting up there in years. I’ve just returned from a months visit there thinking I would cross it off the list but it didn’t happen, making the decision no clearer. Things that worry me about the move back are work, buying real estate, traffic, that’s about it really, there are pros and cons on both sides, I just don’t want to make the move and then regret it. Has anyone had experience of moving back and regretting it, it maybe it was the best decision? We didn’t have jobs to worry about as we were retired (in our 50’s) but it did mean leaving our grown children in the USA. We decided that they may as well learn to live without us now rather than in 20 to 30 years. (No grandchildren or prospect of grandchildren). It has worked out really well for us but I don’t envy your decision. Good luck with whatever you decide to you. |
Re: Should I stay or should I go?
Originally Posted by Sharon Margaret
(Post 12739151)
I’ve lived in New Zealand for the last twenty years and I’m now contemplating moving back to the UK. I have no family here, they are all in England, my parents are getting up there in years. I’ve just returned from a months visit there thinking I would cross it off the list but it didn’t happen, making the decision no clearer. Things that worry me about the move back are work, buying real estate, traffic, that’s about it really, there are pros and cons on both sides, I just don’t want to make the move and then regret it. Has anyone had experience of moving back and regretting it, it maybe it was the best decision? |
Re: Should I stay or should I go?
Originally Posted by fastrhino
(Post 12739192)
I am in similar place to you, unable to decide and and probably overthinking it too.
I am going back again for another visit in October to hopefully help me come to a final decision. The fear of regret is a very real one and I dont want to do the ping pong pom thing. |
Re: Should I stay or should I go?
Originally Posted by durham_lad
(Post 12739275)
We did similar just after retirement in the USA, going back for a few months to cross returning off the list, but it just increased our longing. We didn’t have jobs to worry about as we were retired (in our 50’s) but it did mean leaving our grown children in the USA. We decided that they may as well learn to live without us now rather than in 20 to 30 years. (No grandchildren or prospect of grandchildren). It has worked out really well for us but I don’t envy your decision. Good luck with whatever you decide to you. All the best! |
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