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robin1234 Mar 29th 2013 1:37 am

Now what do I do?
 
I'm retiring. Today is my last day at work, after eighteen years working here. Yesterday afternoon was the official retirement reception, maybe a hundred people came from all over campus, from nearby colleges, etc. I never knew I had so many friends, how many people loved me, all very maudlin. Apparently, I'm a scholar, a gentleman, a bookman, a visionary, a web guru, open-access early adopter, and more. Only I know I'm a total fraud, a lazy sonofabitch who milked an English accent for all it's worth.

It looks like spring is finally here; I timed my retirement for the beginning of gardening season. In two weeks time I'm off to England on my own for a month. I'm going to Norfolk and then the Yorkshire dales with my son (he lives in Cambridge), then staying with my sister in Sussex for a few days, ending up in London for a week.

Lunchtime, I'm off to the Chinese buffet with a couple of colleagues .. and picking up a bottle of sparkling wine at the liquor store for a quiet celebration tonight.

Bob Mar 29th 2013 2:07 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 
Leave a stinky turd in the desk draw of someone you don't like?

Steal all the books you've always wanted?

Turn up after lunch rip roaringly drunk and off your tits? It's not like they're going to fire you :D

robin1234 Mar 29th 2013 2:29 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 

Originally Posted by Bob (Post 10630760)

Steal all the books you've always wanted?

We're trying to downsize our book collection at home; so rather than take some from here, I've been bringing my books in from home an hiding them in various nooks and corners of the library..

Uncle_Bob Mar 29th 2013 4:53 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 
Now what do you do?

become a snowbird. visit arizona in the winter and drive a winnebago in the middle of the road like eveyone else does :sneaky:

paddingtongreen Mar 29th 2013 5:05 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 

Originally Posted by Uncle_Bob (Post 10631025)
Now what do you do?

become a snowbird. visit arizona in the winter and drive a winnebago in the middle of the road like eveyone else does :sneaky:

Not everyone else, I like the seasons.

Nutmegger Mar 29th 2013 5:27 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 

Originally Posted by robin1234 (Post 10630795)
We're trying to downsize our book collection at home; so rather than take some from here, I've been bringing my books in from home an hiding them in various nooks and corners of the library..

I'm hoping that when I get to retirement I will finally have time to actually read the zillion books I have piled up everywhere! Whatever you do with your time, enjoy!

Sally Redux Mar 29th 2013 8:44 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 
Congratulations! We said we would have a BE party as well, so :drinkwine:

It's nice that so many people came to wish you well.

Have a wonderful time with your son and sister.

lansbury Mar 29th 2013 9:51 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 

Originally Posted by robin1234 (Post 10630712)
I'm retiring.

and I hope you have as much fun and enjoyment in your retirement as I am having in mine. :thumbsup:

Trixie_b Mar 29th 2013 9:54 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 

Originally Posted by robin1234 (Post 10630795)
We're trying to downsize our book collection at home; so rather than take some from here, I've been bringing my books in from home an hiding them in various nooks and corners of the library..

What are they going to do with 15 copies of "the joy of sex"?

Karrie72 Mar 29th 2013 9:56 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 
Congrats! I'm sure it must be bitter-sweet though, saying goodbye to colleagues etc. Enjoy your trip home and the new chapter in your life, sounds idyllic...

paddingtongreen Mar 29th 2013 10:27 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 
I have found that my life is a ritual, a collection of habitual occupations. I have emphysema and my day is punctuated by nebulizer treatments, usually at 4 hour intervals starting at 7:00AM, that is the structure on which, everything else hangs. I used to read a great deal and I expected to read even more. I retired to look after my wife through the final weeks her losing battle with cancer. I looked to go back to work but the market went soft so that didn't happen, The result was that I kept the TV on for company, NPR on the radio would have been more in keeping with my interests but seeing people on the box mitigated the loneness more than the voice. I find my attention span is shorter than I need to read a book unless it is an old friend. I find it odd that while I enjoy visiting my children and grand children, there is an element of resentment that I have to break with my ritual, I guess my body doesn't want me taking the risks of going out. That sounds pitiful! it is not as bad as it sounds but a cold wind or the exhaust of a diesel can stiffen my lungs and cause me some difficulty, The nebulizer medication returns some of the lungs flexibility but cannot be used more frequently. I've written more than I expected and, I think, given the wrong impression, I am quite happy living in this retirement community.

robin1234 Mar 29th 2013 1:22 pm

Re: Now what do I do?
 

Originally Posted by Sally Redux (Post 10631354)
Congratulations! We said we would have a BE party as well, so :drinkwine:

It's nice that so many people came to wish you well.

Have a wonderful time with your son and sister.

Thanks Sally! :drinkwine:

Mummy in the foothills Mar 29th 2013 2:34 pm

Re: Now what do I do?
 
Congratulations on your retirement. I hope it is all you want it to be. Enjoy yourself. :thumbsup:

Uncle_Bob Mar 29th 2013 2:49 pm

Re: Now what do I do?
 

Originally Posted by paddingtongreen (Post 10631486)
I've written more than I expected and, I think, given the wrong impression, I am quite happy living in this retirement community.

Good for you, enjoy your seasons ;)

Scouse Express Mar 30th 2013 1:36 am

Re: Now what do I do?
 

Originally Posted by robin1234 (Post 10630712)
I'm retiring. Today is my last day at work, after eighteen years working here. Yesterday afternoon was the official retirement reception, maybe a hundred people came from all over campus, from nearby colleges, etc. I never knew I had so many friends, how many people loved me, all very maudlin. Apparently, I'm a scholar, a gentleman, a bookman, a visionary, a web guru, open-access early adopter, and more. Only I know I'm a total fraud, a lazy sonofabitch who milked an English accent for all it's worth.

It looks like spring is finally here; I timed my retirement for the beginning of gardening season. In two weeks time I'm off to England on my own for a month. I'm going to Norfolk and then the Yorkshire dales with my son (he lives in Cambridge), then staying with my sister in Sussex for a few days, ending up in London for a week.

Lunchtime, I'm off to the Chinese buffet with a couple of colleagues .. and picking up a bottle of sparkling wine at the liquor store for a quiet celebration tonight.


You become like this Guy;



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